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Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 11:14:46 AM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		We engage in forced 'bi" play... does forced Het play work within the gay community?
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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 11:21:17 AM   
MstrJohnJ


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Status: offline 		when I lived back east, my mentor, a Domme, had a lesbian slave she would send my way as a punishment
For her it was an especially humiliating experience, and Natasha thought is was very effective

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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 11:30:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Forced het works the same as force bi and forced homo play.

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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 11:31:56 AM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: MstrJohnJ

when I lived back east, my mentor, a Domme, had a lesbian slave she would send my way as a punishment
For her it was an especially humiliating experience, and Natasha thought is was very effective

How did you feel about that?  I mean.. are you THAT much a punishment??? :)
 
And I'm interested in the gay males involved in the D/s response... do they engage in forced Het play along the same concept?
 
I'm trying to discern if this is more a Domme type of play.

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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 12:02:18 PM   
MstrJohnJ


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

How did you feel about that?  I mean.. are you THAT much a punishment??? :)



I was a punishment simply because I was a male dominant.


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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 3:50:43 PM   
slaverose442


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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 3:58:55 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Forced heterosexual play....

For gay people, like Mike.

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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 4:03:19 PM   
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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 8:11:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Forced heterosexual play....

For gay people, like Mike.

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benji
Benji ...you are an animal!...egads!..you do like to pee in Mikes wheaties dont you?.......Tempting

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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 8:14:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Forced heterosexual play....

For gay people, like Mike.



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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 8:22:34 PM   
Emperor1956


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Status: offline 		Interesting thread (hilarious, too, but we'll leave Benji out of this). 

I'm thinking out loud here.  I assume forced het play is making someone who is oriented as gay accept sex with a person of the opposite sex?  For a sub Lesbian, that would basically be rape, right?   For a sub gay man, do you make him fuck a straight/bi woman?  Do you make him accept fellatio from a straight/bi woman?  I think the biomechanics might fool you.  Some gay men would get hard with the humiliation and perhaps the stimulation...but many I know would absolutely be limp (they don't like women that way, period).  So what do you do?

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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 8:41:13 PM   
Elorin


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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956
I'm thinking out loud here.  I assume forced het play is making someone who is oriented as gay accept sex with a person of the opposite sex?  For a sub Lesbian, that would basically be rape, right?   For a sub gay man, do you make him fuck a straight/bi woman?  Do you make him accept fellatio from a straight/bi woman?  I think the biomechanics might fool you.  Some gay men would get hard with the humiliation and perhaps the stimulation...but many I know would absolutely be limp (they don't like women that way, period).  So what do you do?

If the submissive lesbian "accepts" sex with a male, it is not rape. She could be accepting it and not fighting it, even though she doesn't like sex with a man. This is actually easier for a woman than for a man, because lube can substitute for the arousal response, and a woman doesn't have to have an orgasm. Requiring her to have an orgasm during male-female sex, however, would probably be QUITE humiliating.

As for the gay male, the key is to find something that DOES get him hard regardless (anal stim, nipple play, whatever floats his boat) and then let a woman ride the erection until one of the activities causes him to ejaculate. Probably equally humiliating.

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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 8:44:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I knew one Master who kept a gay male sub as well as a lesbian female.  They were service subs for him, kept as part of his poly family, but for his ausement he did occasionally force them to copulate.  Nither of them got anything out of it aside from serving Him.

Not sure if that helps, but I thought Id offer.

DV

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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/10/2006 10:25:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know, that would be a hard limit for me. I am attracted to males but I don't want to have sex with them. My Lady always gives me the decision to play or not when they have a swinger get together. I don't have to play with people I don't want to.


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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/11/2006 10:00:51 AM   
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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/11/2006 11:17:40 AM   
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RE: Forced HET play? - 11/11/2006 11:25:53 AM   
nikaa


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Status: offline 		This may or may not be off the topic but I have NEVER understood the terms forced bi play,forced HET play, forced crossdressing,ect. IF this play is something someone agrees to do within the dynamics of a scene or relationship (M/s or D/s) why do we label it forced (whatever)?

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