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Uncertainty - 11/2/2006 4:40:44 PM   
sarukts


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Status: offline 		i know that i am a submissive male that enjoys being spanked which desires forced feminization and humiliation.

However, it feels that it has not found its right level. It feels that it requires to be owned and controlled. At the moment it runs its own business, but it has not been very successful. It feels that it would like to cast off the shackles of responsibility and accept those of dependence and servitude. It has no family ties. It is 49 years of age and is overweight and drinks too much. It is not unintelligent, it has a degree and a professional qualification, and does not make these overtures without careful thought.

If someone is prepared to take responisbilty for this item please forward Your proposals.
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RE: Uncertainty - 11/2/2006 5:14:11 PM   
shaylaSC


Posts: 37
Joined: 10/23/2006
Status: offline 		Why do you chose to call yourself 'it'?  Do you not feel you are worthy enough to be a person?

Welcome

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leave the drama out of it huhhhhhhh

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RE: Uncertainty - 11/2/2006 5:30:59 PM   
sarukts


Posts: 4
Joined: 11/1/2006
Status: offline 		When considering the prospect of slavery, one has to accept that one is no longer going to be a person in one's own right. One would be the property of one's Mistress or Master, a thing that could be treasured or discarded, bought or sold.  i thought it only proper to describe myself in the third person, as one would do placing an advert for used car.

There is a big difference between being submissive and offering oneself for slavery. A submissive has his/her identity, a slave has its identity defined by its Mistress or Master.

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Looking for a strict but loving Domme to take conrol of me either as Her submissive male or as Her chattel

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RE: Uncertainty - 11/2/2006 5:48:02 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Thats a big jump your considering from enjoying being spanked and force femmed to complete slavery.  I know personally, I would never consider refering to my Angel as "it". He is completely owned, and most definately a slave, however keeps his (or her, depending on what I have decided to do at any point in time) identity.
One warning: If you portray yourself as unworthy, likely someone wil agree with you and not bother considering you.
Even as a slave, you have a personality, some of us select our pets by how well they fit with our personality. To make yourself appear devoid of one t make better property might not be the best tactic.  Until you are owned, do not forget that you are your own person. Do not become property before you are owned, becasue you cut yourself off by only appealing to a smaller set of people that way.

Good luck in your hunt
DV

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RE: Uncertainty - 11/2/2006 5:55:29 PM   
sarukts


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Status: offline 		Ma'am Thank You for Your words of wisdom. i have never been owned before. i was merely introducing myself in the best way that i knew how. i will learn. 

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RE: Uncertainty - 11/2/2006 6:48:28 PM   
LotusSong


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Joined: 7/2/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sarukts

Ma'am Thank You for Your words of wisdom. i have never been owned before. i was merely introducing myself in the best way that i knew how. i will learn. 


Simply present yourself as you are.  The Domme will take it from there :)

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I'm not your type.
I'm not inflatable.


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RE: Uncertainty - 11/2/2006 7:18:49 PM   
sarukts


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Joined: 11/1/2006
Status: offline 		i was trying to express the uncertainty i feel.

i know that i am a submissive male and i know i would be happy if  kept in panties and able to further express my femininty. i know for certain that i like being spanked. i know for cetain that i like it when someone else takes control of my masturbation (this is not orgasm denial, probably just laziness)

i would like to give myself to a Domme, i would like to be a comfort to Her and to give Her pleasure, give Her support and advice and be there for Her when all else fails.

The ultimate gift to a my Mistress is my freedom and my identity. i would be Her possession, to play with or to put down, to breed with or to castrate, to cherish or to chastise, to respect or revile.

When i think of the total power exchange associated with slavery my little cock goes rock hard. It is difficult to explain one's own psycho-sexual reactions, but i know that my cock has never been wrong. My head has over-ruled my cock on occasion and it has been proved wrong. Refusing to the offer to move in with my first boyfriend for example. Terminating the relationship with my wife just as we were establishing a Domme/sissy cuckold lifestyle.

The idea of giving myself to someone who will take total conrol of me sexually excites me. 

Not that i have that much to give.

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RE: Uncertainty - 11/3/2006 8:18:18 AM   
MMshappysub


Posts: 120
Joined: 9/28/2006
Status: offline 		hello and welcome to the collarme forums.

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