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How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 10:41:53 AM   
dsamethyst


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trough her personal email
I have an ongoing problem here...i have attempted to stop it privately...i have put blocks on the person sendingme mean mail...only to have her send me m ore hateful things through yet another profile name that of course was deleted....

Here is the story....
I was invovled with someone...he and i had a very successful relationship he was invovled with more than 1 person....I knew this it was my understanding that his other entanglement partner knew about it as well...

well i have been continuing to recieve hateful emails for this person through her original profile email here at Cm....and then she either has her Subs  or she ac tually creates then deletes the profiles  and so....i have  done the following

I tried creating another profile...but before i managed to do the complete turnover tot the new profile name,  by the way im also candleinthewind     but before i was able to get all switched over...i began getting awful hateful emails...no threats  just mean things.....mostly regarding the fact that i had breast reconstruction surgery.... i have had this supposedly Dominat woman that fancies herself a "living goddess" continuing to send me very not nice things....I have set her up as blocked  alas  but he continues to send things mostly throuhg other peoples accounts....I have started not opening any emails from anyone that has started thie r accounts after oct 1...te dathat the stuff really hit the fan.

and any one that has sent mean things  have been put on block....anyother things i can do?    I started pasting her mean messages in my journals..well the ones that are actually very amuzing to read....the ones that start out as "B***h  i dont bother.  i just figured that by pasting them in  there  then well  she can see just how silly she is acting.   I have cut the supposed Dom that iwas invovled with out of my life.....In my opinion if he isnt able to keep his women in line...then why should I be the only lady staying in line?   He had a choice he could either keep her away and out of my life  or lose me....  And well  lets just say  I am finished with the BS..


anyone have anyother ideas to keep this wanna be goddess  (note my profile regarding the term)  how do i keep her out of my world?   she seems to feel that she is an all powerful Oz  type of person...but hwta she forgets to realize is that Dorothy the innocent little girl from Kansas uncovered the true person behind the green curtain!

I thik that i have managed to make her feel insecure and well....I cannot help that fact that i am a nice person and lovely inside and out....outside of wearing a paperbag  it is difficult to hide!  I do not advertise myself  i just am... and well what am i to do??  not bathe?  and what chop off my long locks of red hair?   I stand out!  I cannot help that fact.   I am who i am.... it has taken me a few yers to adust tot he fact that with the 70lb weight loss and the increase in self confidence....well im pretty! 

so what do i do??

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 10:46:49 AM   
SissySean


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Can't you go to the site administrators?


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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 10:50:15 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		as each one is sent you report button...........they can track the hose it was sprayed from, doesn't matter that the nicks are different.

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 12:00:22 PM   
LadyEllen


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From: Stourport-England
Status: offline 		Sorry to hear about this, and it sounds like something the Mods need to sort out as whoever this person is, they're likely to repeat this same behaviour in future with other victims. Each profile on here has to give an email address and each profile on here is trackable back to the computer which made it, according to my vague knowledge of IT, so it should be possible to identify who the perpetrators are that way, even if multiple IDs are being used. 

If I were you, I would make a new profile (yes, I know, again!), but this time dont go into so much detail about yourself or your location, or put some misleading stuff in about you and your location, and dont mention that this is a new profile because.... whoever is sending you this hate mail will simply find you again by that information. I work in freight and we use freight exchanges on the net to advertise loadings to hauliers - this is great, but we often disguise what loads we have because using the exact details can identify the client to the hauliers who then call the client direct. So for example we wont advertise Maidenhead to Lodi, but put it in as London to Milano. Doing something similar to evade detection but still be of use in your search is something that might prove useful here?

Also, I'm not sure about this, but I think its right. If you go into your profile and click "deactivate", you can still post and read here, and receive and send mail, but your profile is hidden from those who go looking for it.

Hope this all stops for you soon.

E

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 12:27:30 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		As others have noted you can report the emails, and I definitely would

The second thing you can realize is that this person is petty and jealous. I would never block even one email she sends though. I do not block anyone because doing so means they just create a new ID to harass. It is much easier this way. open the email, as soon as you see it is hateful, delete, move on...

She will get sick of it, I promise

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 12:34:05 PM   
demistress


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Status: offline 		Sorry to hear you're having issues with a HATER.  I am personally dealing with yet another Fat, Old, Slob of a sub who thinks I should waste my time letting him worship my feet without tribute.  If I'm getting pleasure from the experience (happily visualizes a certain recently regular poster from these boards lying naked at her feet woshipping) that's one thing.  But if I'm covering the person with a blanket because I don't want to see the hairy grotesque slovenly (we're talking OBESE not just 'big' which I like) body so I don't have to see them, that's not my idea of a good time *rolls eyes*

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 12:43:43 PM   
SissySean


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quote:

ORIGINAL: demistress

Sorry to hear you're having issues with a HATER.  I am personally dealing with yet another Fat, Old, Slob of a sub who thinks I should waste my time letting him worship my feet without tribute.  If I'm getting pleasure from the experience (happily visualizes a certain recently regular poster from these boards lying naked at her feet woshipping) that's one thing.  But if I'm covering the person with a blanket because I don't want to see the hairy grotesque slovenly (we're talking OBESE not just 'big' which I like) body so I don't have to see them, that's not my idea of a good time *rolls eyes*


Must keep exercizing....and shaving..


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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 12:48:31 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Even better yet........waxinggggggggg! Hair removal for the machocist in everyone.

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 1:02:51 PM   
SissySean


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Even better yet........waxinggggggggg! Hair removal for the machocist in everyone.


never had that, might need assistance


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Amanda Palmer is HOT!!

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 1:12:44 PM   
ModeratorEleven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Sorry to hear about this, and it sounds like something the Mods need to sort out

Moderators have nothing to do with the Collarme.com side of the house.  If someone is having issues that don't directly apply to the forums, they need to contact Support via the link at the bottom of every Collarme.com page.

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 1:16:31 PM   
demistress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SissySean

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Even better yet........waxinggggggggg! Hair removal for the machocist in everyone.


never had that, might need assistance



Sounds fun......

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 1:19:16 PM   
sexypet


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Status: offline 		dsamethyst,

i have several "haters" too, who feel i invite their comment anytime i post in my journal, or post new pics like i did yesterday.  And sure as "sh**, i open my collarme mail to another uninvited, unsolicitied "advice" email...There is another who likes to send such prize emails as "woof, woof, u r ugly", etc, and makes fake Dom/Domme/sub ids to barrage me with similiar insults.  So anyways, you're not alone.  You had a real time "connection" to this person which you terminated -- but i never even knew any of these folks!  i really do not care what these people do with their lives, just wish they would stay out of mine...

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 1:22:06 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Everytime they email you send them back a love letter.
That should annoy them.

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 1:36:27 PM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		use mental spiritual and emotional aikido...
 
(A Japanese art of self-defense that employs holds and locks and that uses the principles of nonresistance in order to debilitate the strength of the opponent.The name aikido is formed of three Japanese characters,
  • - ai - union/harmony.
  • - ki - universal energy/spirit.
  • - do - way. . )


....just move out of the way.

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 1:56:36 PM   
SissySean


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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

use mental spiritual and emotional aikido...
 
(A Japanese art of self-defense that employs holds and locks and that uses the principles of nonresistance in order to debilitate the strength of the opponent.The name aikido is formed of three Japanese characters,
  • - ai - union/harmony.
  • - ki - universal energy/spirit.
  • - do - way. . )


....just move out of the way.


Do you study aikido??
Study Tang Soo Do myself. Always cool to met another martial artist.


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Amanda Palmer is HOT!!

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 1:58:35 PM   
sexypet


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Status: offline 		Aileen68,

i would love it if you would post some examples of these "love letters"!

giggles,
~pet

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 2:48:17 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		somebody is sending you emails in which they say nasty things about you?
ummm, I might be wrong, but I would think the thing to do here is delete and pay no attention. They are words typed into a form on a kinky sex dating site...hardly something worth getting one's knickers into a twist over.


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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 4:11:23 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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From: Reed City, Michigan
Status: offline 		I am sorry to hear that you are going through such a difficult time with such an ignorant childish person..I would complain to the moderators here if she is harassing you through collarme...I wish you the best of luck sis...or send me her nickname and let me talk to her I have such a way with words.

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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 4:44:09 PM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		well not in the physical aspect....but i incorporate the principals in my spiritual evolvemnt.....aikido....offers so much for someone who wants to understand power.....it is the epitome of harvesting and harnessing ones personal power......awesome stuff..


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RE: How do i get rid of a HATER?? - 11/1/2006 5:28:17 PM   
Fitznicely


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Status: offline 		This person is trying to get to you. Trying to elicit a reaction. Hopefully they don't frequent the forums or they'd know they'd succeeded.

The best thing you can do - aside from reporting the emails - is to rise above it and show yourself to be the better person by showing your supreme indifference.


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