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Najakcharmer -> RE: Musings on physical control (11/2/2006 5:47:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cloudboy Sounds to me like you are challenging subs to a duel. I accept. You chose the weapons. Live venomous snakes. [:D] quote: Not much said about sexual manipulation, but you note that later on. I think most animal trainers have platonic relationships with their subjects, except of course in the red states where anything goes. Actually you might be surprised. Personally I don't swing that way, but some critters are well known for making sexual advances on their trainers, and some trainers do swing that way. I'm open-minded on the subject but not personally eager to go there. I've dodged some very interesting advances to say the least. Cetaceans are particularly notorious for demanding sex with their trainers, sometimes quite forcefully. Hilarity has ensued in more than one park, which is why the male to female ratio of marine mammals on public exhibit tends to be pretty goddamn low.

Najakcharmer -> RE: Musings on physical control (11/2/2006 9:20:20 PM)
For Cloudboy's benefit, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rbmyXKs6jtI I don't recommend having anything to drink while watching this, or you will probably spew it out your nose. Mooo.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Musings on physical control (11/2/2006 9:24:29 PM)
quote: I'm still quite curious about the viewpoint of "sexual attractiveness as power" and hope to gain some enlightenment on the subject from other folk whose style differs from mine. My domination style is very much attached to my physical attractiveness... Not because I obsess about my looks much, but more because I'm very sensual and sexual, and I have to have a boy who responds to me for all that I am, including my looks. I don't do domination with strangers or folks I'm not attracted to, because to me everything he (the submissive or slave boy) does/doesn't do is foreplay for what is to come later, hot hot sex. How he views me and feels about me becomes something that I sense, and can manipulate (in a good way grinz), to get the response I want/need. I don't think I could ever play with a man who didn't think I am hot physically, or one whom I didn't think was hot (but I'll admit I am more turned on by a smart and benevolent human being than I am his body). As to physical control, I don't much use my body that way at all, so have passed on boys who approach me from that angle (wrestling/being overpowered). I have used fun restraints a few times, but the boy I would play with is the type who will not move simply because I said "do not move." M

cloudboy -> RE: Musings on physical control (11/3/2006 8:22:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer For Cloudboy's benefit, Mooo. That cow seemed pretty unruly to me. The Dom (with seeming switch tendancies) spent most of his time chasing it around, and he couldn't even control it by means of traps or bondage. Had the cow been a grizzly bear, I suspect the DOM farmer would have been mauled to death after his first kinky advance.

firefey -> RE: Musings on physical control (11/3/2006 9:41:10 AM)
najak...that was just so, um, yeah. but funny. to answer the question about using sex and sexuality as a domination technique. for me, i view it as one of the tools in my bag. much the same way as i would view my ability to be in controll via my calm and authoritative maners and speech. men, generally speaking, are predisposed to desire. it is a part of their natural make up. by using my sexuality as a tool, i can feed on and off of that inate drieve in a male. do i get all gussied up and plaster my face with make up to do it? typically no. do i wear clothes that make me feel sexy and give me confidence in my abilities? yes, and that confidence and feeling of sexinss translates itself to those around me. because i am aware of my sexuality, and more importantly i own my sexuality, i am in controll of it. it resides in a similar vein as the idea that confidence and authority drive one's dominance. simply being sexy isn't enough. being sexy, confident and full of authority is the winning combinantion that seems to make the boys drool. in some ways i can see where it requires being pleasent to look at. but for me, i find the heaping portion of this approche relies on my inner confidence and feelings of being sexy not just how much skin i show or don't show.

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