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played for a fool - 10/31/2006 6:57:49 PM   
gardenbluebird


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Status: offline 		Dang - I guess it happens to everyone at some point.  I was played for a fool.

First I discovered an unpleasant truth, but it seemed to be OK with an explanation.  But today I got the whole truth and uncovered a whole lot of lies.  So after ten months and a lot of hopes, dreams, fun, and my first collar, it's over.  I need a group hug.

I'm a tough cookie.  I'm going to take a little break from men then the hunt for Mr. Wonderful Dom will be on again.

For part one of the story  http://www.collarchat.com/m_657055/tm.htm
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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 7:01:13 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		Sometimes one needs to step back, think and regroup...HUG........Tempting

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 7:08:44 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I will send warm thoughts your way, as I can tell you already know, there are other fish in the sea.

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 7:12:29 PM   
raiken


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gardenbluebird

Dang - I guess it happens to everyone at some point.  I was played for a fool.

First I discovered an unpleasant truth, but it seemed to be OK with an explanation.  But today I got the whole truth and uncovered a whole lot of lies.  So after ten months and a lot of hopes, dreams, fun, and my first collar, it's over.  I need a group hug.

I'm a tough cookie.  I'm going to take a little break from men then the hunt for Mr. Wonderful Dom will be on again.

For part one of the story  http://www.collarchat.com/m_657055/tm.htm


*****(((((HUGS)))))*****  Understands....*smile  Joins you next to the warm cocoa that goes with tough cookies that are so very good for dipping. *grin

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 7:12:57 PM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		I'm going for my personal saying...boys are stupid hit them with rocks, if you like it grab another and do it again.

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 7:38:23 PM   
subinktown


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Status: offline 		i'm so sorry you are hurting right now.  Wish there were words to make it better.


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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 7:38:51 PM   
MasterWilliam55


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Status: offline 		We've all been played for fools at one time or other. You get over it and come back smarter and stronger, Good luck.

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 7:41:53 PM   
Donnalee


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Status: offline 		Big Hug!  I'm sorry that happened, but happy you found out so soon.  Remember that you always get to keep what you learned in any relationship....his lies can't take that away.

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 7:52:02 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		And for the first ceremonial act of your new independance...........

Change your profile.

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 9:20:25 PM   
diamonddreamlove


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Status: offline 		Glad you have such a good attitude about it.  It is always hurtful to be betrayed which is what it sounds like happened but i always learn from the situation and use that knowledge for the next relationship. Take good care of yourself and get ready to find the best ever in the future.


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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 9:23:48 PM   
BitaTruble


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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 9:37:50 PM   
Owned1


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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 9:46:49 PM   
SlaveAkasha


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Status: offline 		Sorry to hear.  Take all the time you need and let yourself heal, sometimes that is the only thing to do.
 
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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 10:57:14 PM   
xxangeltearsxx


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Status: offline 		It happens to all of us at one time or another.  But I know that doesn't make it any better when it happens to you.   As they say, time heals all wounds.  I hope yours heal quickly and you find the one that takes your breath away and makes you happier than you've ever been before.   Big HUG!!

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 11:06:28 PM   
LadyOunce


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Status: offline 		Much hugs. And it's nice to see that positive attitude to take a breather but not give up. Wonderful attitude.

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 11:09:54 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))

If you need to talk on the other side, feel free to drop me a line.

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 11:15:59 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		<<adding my hug to the group>>
Consider it this way.  You found out before something seriously damaging happened. 
Now, you take a step back, think about what you want to make sure you have and dont have with your next attempt... and then jump back in.
And be warned, you tend to find the best ones when you are on that "break" and not looking.  Thats when I found my little one.. when I had given up on men for a while.  One never knows

DV

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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 11:16:45 PM   
Fitznicely


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Status: offline 		So sorry it didn't work out.

Don't let this blind you in your search. We're not all gits.


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RE: played for a fool - 10/31/2006 11:55:45 PM   
gardenbluebird


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the support.  I am gathering my trusted friends and letting them know how very much they mean to me.  That seems like the best thing right now.

Also, I tried to take a hammer to the steel collar, but it didn't break or dent.  So I did the next best thing - threw it in the garbage.  Since he was the one who dishonored the collar he does not deserve to get it back.  Perhaps petty, but I couldn't stand to have the thing in the house, and I'll be damned before he gets in back so he can just use it collar another unsuspecting sub.

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RE: played for a fool - 11/1/2006 4:18:48 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Bluebird welcome to the club. Here like anywhere else you go shit happens. Get over it and move on.
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