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Loving acts - 10/30/2006 7:50:32 PM   
PiercedDaz


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What is the most loving thing (big or small) that someone has ever done for Y/you?

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 7:53:36 PM   
dsamethyst


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Status: offline 		i had a very nice man   once upon a time pick me up in the middle of the night with no questions asked when i had my heart broken... Now to me that is the mark of a true gentleman!

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 8:01:08 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		The most loving thing. Simple.  Having someone curl up in my lap when they knew I was in MAJOR emotional turmoil. I had just found out that a close friend had died of cancer, which he had decided not to tel any of us he had so that we wouldnt expect to see him post-chemo. He was sure he would recover so he didnt want any of us to feel bad for him.   
He laid there for nearly an hour, not asking for anything, just letting me cry and stroke his hair.  It meant the world to me, then, and I will certainly never forget it.

DV



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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 8:05:42 PM   
Lorelei115


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Status: offline 		I'm kind of like a cat in that I need constant physical affection. So for me, what says "love" the best is when someone either plays with or brushes my hair.

The most major thing anyone has ever done for me? Hmmm... standing there through thirty minutes of me hurling unjustified abuse at him just so he could take me in his arms and tell me I would be all right. That, my friends, is true strength.

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 8:30:18 PM   
Mavis


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Status: offline 		Kind of corney, but when my mom died, as much as Hubby loved her, He refused to go to the funeral..  "Those things creep me out", He said.

A friend of mine who felt the exact same way, nearly didn't go to her own mothers funeral because it would be too hard...  said she would go with me if i had wanted her to.  Just knowing she would lay aside her own feelings if i needed her support .. that was the most touching thing.  

(i didn't ask her to go afterall, it was the thought that counted, not the act.)

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 9:02:54 PM   
nefertari


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Status: offline 		I was going through a really hard time and friends of mine (husband and wife) brought me to their house, bathed me, dried me, dressed me, brushed my hair and put me into bed in the middle.  Noone had ever taken care of me before.

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 9:03:56 PM   
nefertari


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Lorelei:  I LOVE your quote.  Makes me giggle.  I'm always saying there isn't any room left in my head.

End hijack

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 9:08:02 PM   
Sinergy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nefertari

I was going through a really hard time and friends of mine (husband and wife) brought me to their house, bathed me, dried me, dressed me, brushed my hair and put me into bed in the middle.  Noone had ever taken care of me before.



I  was with somebody once who was in wrist casts on both wrists for 6 weeks.

I cared for her.  I shaved her pits.  I cooked her food.  I shaved her naughty bits.

Through it all, she was never anything but submissive.

I did not feel a contradiction in the relationship, neither did she.

Could be wrong, etc.

Sinergy

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 9:12:00 PM   
SadistCpl4fslv


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Status: offline 		The most loving thing anyone has ever done for me is what my wife does every morning.......she wakes up next to me in bed

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 9:29:34 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Most loving thing:
My mother gave birth to me almost 41 years ago, when they told her she would probably die if she didn't terminate the pregnancy.

Next most loving thing:
My Master taught me how to love myself and find my purpose when I didn't think I could.

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 9:37:38 PM   
SlaveAkasha


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Status: offline 		My girlfriend at the time my grandmother was in the hospital..stayed by my side for a week straight.  She got me anything I needed, she let me cry while she held me, she put up with my right wing family that treated her like dirt, she was there..always.  When grandma passed away..it was her that went in the room with me..and held me telling me she was with grandpa now, happy, and how wonderful of a person she was.  That has always stuck with me.
 
My Master and I haven't been together very long..but he has been there for me already in many ways.  When my dog was sick, he did anything he could to help..knowing they are like my kids.. he is working so hard on our home, so it will be nice for us to live in with the holidays coming up..and he calls me everyday.. just to let me know how very special I am to him, and how much I am loved.
 
Kasha

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 11:41:18 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		I was sickly and I had to go home next day and daddy packed my entire pack and then some while allowing me to sleep because I didn't feel good.

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 11:41:37 PM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		Unconditional love is the most loving anyone can give to another.  That comes from my parents.  A childs touch/hug/look at their parent just tugs at your heart.  The knowledge I am owned, body mind and soul by Master and the ways he lets me know daily I am His.

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 11:54:06 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		This is not a BDSM act from a BDSM relationship, but my exhusband did something on our first anniversary that I will never forget.

I was sticking out over 8 months pregnant with my huge belly, and he took me back to where we got married for our wedding anniversary, which was on the Beach in Carmel. One of the things that annoyed me about being pregnant was not being able to lay on my tummy. He knew this so he dug a hole out in the sand so I could lay on my tummy and get sun on my back. It took time to get the hole just right so I could lay in comfort.... and it worked. He was so loving about how he did it, I wish he had stayed that way

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RE: Loving acts - 10/30/2006 11:57:02 PM   
LadyOunce


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Status: offline 		No matter how many subs I have in my life, what they do for me or how they make me feel, nothing will compare to my kidling telling me one day that she would love me even if I wasn't her Mom.

In the lifestyle, the most loving thing ever was my sub fighting me only once - to stop me from being self abusive. To this day, though he's gone, I thank him every day for that.

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RE: Loving acts - 10/31/2006 6:34:54 AM   
demistress


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Status: offline 		In recent memory.....  I was interviewing a new local young sub-male.  Good kid (19), with tranny leanings.  Anyway, it was the first time we met, we were spending time at my house, talking getting to know each other, doing a little training.  Anyway, about 2-3 hours in, I got the call that my mother had fallen to her death during a sierra peak bag. I was broken up bad.  I cried, sobbed, screamed, whimpered, etc.  He just sat there and held me, poor kid was so uncomfortable, barely knew me, and he just held me.  The comfort he provided me was a great act of love, and not for someone he loved, but for a pretty much random stranger, that's so pure and beautiful.  Turns out we were not meant to be in a D/s relationship, which is fine, but we have become great friends.  Between that, and the time he told a friend of mine "How can anyone not love Heather?" after he saw my ex's new girlfriend treat me like shit for no reason. 

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RE: Loving acts - 10/31/2006 8:25:08 AM   
sapphirepleasure


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Status: offline 		When my daughter was about 12, I was working as a waitress and was so upset to find that I was scheduled to work a long split shift on Mother's Day.  There was nothing I could do to get out of it.

I worked all day and was unable to come home during my break because it was so short.  When I finally arrived home late that evening, my daughter was in bed asleep, but she had decorated my bed with flowers (which she'd had to walk miles to purchase), photos, and a large note declaring what a great mom I was.  I just wept.

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RE: Loving acts - 10/31/2006 8:27:29 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		My father once told me when they visited me in NYC after I had to start therapy to deal with my childhood abuse:

"I believe you and if I could, I'd take all the pain onto myself. I can't do, I know that, but I want you to know that I believe you and I love you."

It makes me tear up even now to think of that. It was the day my father showed me that he had real wisdom in him.

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RE: Loving acts - 10/31/2006 9:43:39 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Great stories. Sorry I can't add to them.

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RE: Loving acts - 10/31/2006 9:56:25 AM   
LadyKim


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Status: offline 		The most loving act I have ever experienced was from my brother.  When our matriarchal grandmother died, I took it very hard.  At the funeral, I had a river of tears flowing from my eyes (while working hard not to sob or making any sounds), and my brother reached over and pushed my head down on his shoulder and placed his head on top of mine.  No words spoken....... just his head holding mine.    It was about 10 minutes of my life that happened 13 years ago, but I'll never forget it.  Thanks, Bub!

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