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LadyAlaria -> RE: Loving acts (10/31/2006 3:36:03 PM)
When I was 18, my mother died unexpectedly in a car accident. My b/f at the time was only 16. After the arrangements were made for the memorial service, I asked him to attend with me. He said he wouldn't feel comfortable going since it was mainly for family. I went alone and while I was sitting there talking to my step-father, I glanced over and my b/f was standing there. I've never felt as loved as I did at that moment. (Age not-withstanding, it is the greatest thing anyone has ever done for me)

gretchenS -> RE: Loving acts (10/31/2006 4:31:49 PM)
I find love every time and all the time with my Daddy. I find it in the things he does for me on a daily basis in our very simple life together. My own life has been so much fulfilling since I know him. It's just the way he takes care of me. Although I have this memory that makes my eyes wet no matter how tough I'd try to be: I remember when my relationship was passing through really hard moments. I was feeling so lonely and sad to the point I would cry with no end every night. One night, Constantine (my beloved black kitty cat) hoped on the bed, curled up next to me, purring, looked at me and put one of his little black paws on my face. I was so happy and calm I stoped crying and finally slept. He did this the following nights, and soon I understood there was nothing to keep on crying for. I had responsabilities to take care of around the house and within my life.

liljoy -> RE: Loving acts (10/31/2006 5:20:38 PM)
these are all very sweet. For some reason i can't think of a single thing to add of my own lil_joy

Sinergy -> RE: Loving acts (10/31/2006 6:22:53 PM)
Hello A/all, One of the most loving acts anybody has ever done for me was when I woke up after a 10 day coma from an illness, and my childhood buddy came into the room where I lay partially paralyzed and disoriented. I was profoundly happy to see him, but eventually the fog cleared and I asked him how the hell he got in the room since only family members were allowed. He said he told them that he was my brother. Sinergy

Kalira -> RE: Loving acts (10/31/2006 7:12:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PiercedDaz To A/all.... What is the most loving thing (big or small) that someone has ever done for Y/you? My best friend flew to Texas to be with me when my husband passed away. At this time, she was going through a nasty divorce and custody hearing and had just lost her job because of it; but she took the time to get on a plane and come be by my side.

Mavis -> RE: Loving acts (10/31/2006 10:59:20 PM)
i didn't count them up, but i'm noticing a trend.. so many of these things involve someone coming alongside U/us in a moment of great pain or loss. Friends, family, absolute strangers, even pets... ir would seem the rubber meets the road not in our times of happiness and commitments, but when we feel most alone. i know i'm happy to jump in here when one announces a birth, a new collar, a wedding, but wow, where am i when someone posts something truly "lonesome" feeling? i'm thinking i could do well to dig deeper and find what the visiting stranger did, or the cat.

gypsygrl -> RE: Loving acts (11/1/2006 7:11:24 AM)
I went through a really bad spot that lasted a year or so and I had this really good friend who pretty much carried me through it. I was going through a icky break up with my first ltr Dominant and my mom had been diagnosed with lung cancer, something that eventually proved fatal. My friend was there all the time, and was like an anchor to me. This past spring, we were planning on getting together, when a neighbor borrowed my car and didn't bring it back. It caused a huge amount of drama and I ended up calling the cops to get my car back. Him and his wife had been borrowing the car for months, pretty much since they moved in but I found out in the middle of all this that he was addicted to crack, didnt have a licences and all sorts of other stuff. His wife got on my case for lending him the car in the first place, and I had people in 3 states yelling at me for being stupid. I finally got the car back around midnight, and drove about 3 hours to see my friend for a couple hours. As me and my friend were about to say goodbye, I started to slide into a panic attack because of all the drama and stuff. I'm fine in the middle of a crisis, its the after effects I cant always deal with. Anyway, as I was explaining to him my tendencies to panic, and what was going on, without a word he picked up the ping pong paddle we sometimes played with and gave me a good hard paddling. He was vanilla, wasn't a sadist, and was barely even kinky but had learned how to use the paddle for me. It felt like such a loving act that he knew exactly what to do to bring me out of a downward sprial just enough so I could do what I had to do and get safely home where I could get everything sorted out in my head.

ExtremeOwnerIL -> RE: Loving acts (11/1/2006 8:30:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 Unconditional love is the most loving anyone can give to another. That comes from my parents. A childs touch/hug/look at their parent just tugs at your heart. The knowledge I am owned, body mind and soul by Master and the ways he lets me know daily I am His. Owned Yup - unconditional love given from my children to me is the most loving thing I could ever receive. My girl's submission and love given to me as well. Regards, EO

UtopianRanger -> RE: Loving acts (11/1/2006 8:33:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania This is not a BDSM act from a BDSM relationship, but my exhusband did something on our first anniversary that I will never forget. I was sticking out over 8 months pregnant with my huge belly, and he took me back to where we got married for our wedding anniversary, which was on the Beach in Carmel. One of the things that annoyed me about being pregnant was not being able to lay on my tummy. He knew this so he dug a hole out in the sand so I could lay on my tummy and get sun on my back. It took time to get the hole just right so I could lay in comfort.... and it worked. He was so loving about how he did it, I wish he had stayed that way[:D] quote: In recent memory..... I was interviewing a new local young sub-male. Good kid (19), with tranny leanings. Anyway, it was the first time we met, we were spending time at my house, talking getting to know each other, doing a little training. Anyway, about 2-3 hours in, I got the call that my mother had fallen to her death during a sierra peak bag. I was broken up bad. I cried, sobbed, screamed, whimpered, etc. He just sat there and held me, poor kid was so uncomfortable, barely knew me, and he just held me. The comfort he provided me was a great act of love, and not for someone he loved, but for a pretty much random stranger, that's so pure and beautiful. Turns out we were not meant to be in a D/s relationship, which is fine, but we have become great friends. Between that, and the time he told a friend of mine "How can anyone not love Heather?" after he saw my ex's new girlfriend treat me like shit for no reason. Those are both great stories ; } Julia....your new picture looks excellent - Blondes have more fun ; } - R

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