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RE: protective - 10/30/2006 4:26:09 PM

Mavis

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i didn't see the original description of one of intrusion right at the close of the scene, but one of stepping into a space vacated by the Domme.. in which case, She abdicated already. Surely You'd have spotted if your Dom and her were still interacting and closing the scene time. (?)

Edited to add, yes, i know that aftercare and closure time is important to Master, and to most Tops/ Doms/ Masters in general, which is why i don't ask about it at all. i would not want my feelings detract from His overall experience of topping time, i guess it's just such a given, i didnt think to mention it.

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RE: protective - 10/30/2006 4:34:29 PM

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yes she was most deffinetly done.. she was really nice but i think a little green Master didnt seem to have a problem save for the fact his eyes where a little watery and so of course I got conserned. I didnt interfear I simple came in when she was done... stroked his head wiped his eyes and huggled him... LOL i think it was more for me then for him at that point. But Im afraid ill be worried sick when he plays and Im not around.

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RE: protective - 10/30/2006 6:49:56 PM

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MSlave- you obviously will need time to wean yourself off your "training wheels" of protection and trust that he will form solid relationships with good partners and not fear.

But feeling protective and wanting to make sure things go well is perfectly normal, you both seem to have a good system that works out well and I can't tell you how rare a creature you are to accept and support your master switching in public. Brava.

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RE: protective - 10/30/2006 6:51:27 PM

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I dont understand why you feel being mamabear is somehow wrong?..You love,care,respect,your Master, correct?...This to me is simply part and parcel of your dynamic...I am sure he is protective of you especially I am sure when you are vulnerable...why wouldnt you be the same with him?.....You did good IMO...Tempting

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RE: protective - 10/30/2006 7:00:47 PM

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Thank you very much LA I really apreaciate that.

You too tempting you have no idea how much your kind words have helped!!

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RE: protective - 10/30/2006 7:45:28 PM

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Magicslave,

What are you worried about? I sure as hell hope all my partners are protective of me. We REJECT stereotypes, not embrace them, so if you two are happy, tell those nasty thoughts to fuck off and be happy.

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RE: protective - 10/30/2006 7:49:48 PM

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Theres nothing wrong with being protective, especialy if it is not taken to an extreme. Being there for someone when they need you, regardless of if the person is your Master or your pet, is part of being in a close relationship.
Angel is protective of me in his own way, even though I hardly need it. I would be more concerned if he werent, honestly. It shows you are about someones well being, moreso than you worry about how it might make you look afterwards.

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RE: protective - 10/31/2006 10:24:31 AM

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Thank you very much CP and DV that helped a lot, I just wasnt sure what to make of it I have never been in that position befor and I was hopeing I handled it ok. I really wanted it to be a wonderfull experiance for him as he had not been able to sub for a while, I dont know I guess i worry a lot!!

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