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GirlyDevil -> Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 7:52:51 AM)

I have posted my profile and have stated specifically that I am looking for a female/male sub no older than 33 years old or from out of the state/country. It also states that I will immediantly delete their email if they fail to comply with this simple request. Why do I keep getting messages from 40+ year old guys and guys who are from out of country? Do people not read the entire profile? Anything I can do? Or just keep deleting their message?
  Thank you




siamsa24 -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 8:00:57 AM)

No, they don't read your profile and no, there isn't much you can do about it.  Just keep deleting the mail.





GirlyDevil -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 8:03:59 AM)

Ok, thank you




mnottertail -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 8:40:14 AM)

The deletion of an email is not considered a fearsome event around here, it has been  my experience that most people live thru that, and therefore it is not much of a deterrent.

you can go to mail controls and save alot of bandwith by checking females only and set an age limit, that sends everyone else to bulk, and then you can wipe them out wholesale.

On the other hand (while NOT discounting HNGs whatsoever) some may find you interesting and want to visit with you platonically,  or  even tell you that you have spinach stuck in your profile teeth or any number of things.  Not everyone wants to fuck you.

I have not looked at your profile, but if you have that LESBIAN, NO MEN,  NO MEN, NO MEN and  you will be deleted by the great gash type of snide stuff on your profile....you are gonna cause some umbrage and open yourself for attack, since some people really think it is real and true out here.  I do not understand how people come to such a conclusion, but believe me, they do.


Ron 




Mikal -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 8:50:32 AM)

Just some friendly advice:
1. You are female. Therefore males want you. Expect unwanted messages, 'cause many men don't/won't look beyond the "female".
2. I've looked at your profile, and I find it somewhat hard to read with the red background (I'm slightly colourblind), so perhaps the men who are messaging you can't read it either... *shrugs* just a thought.
3. Do you read the messages sent? Some may be asking for clarification (see #2), wanting friends only, or just saying hi. If you do get obnoxious messages (I know you will... lol) from the same person over-and-over, try messaging them back... tell them you aren't interested and have they actually read your profile? (I find that most never message me again).
4. Not that it will cure the problem, but on your first 2 lines, use big, bold letters and say NO MEN ABOVE X AGE, MUST BE IN X STATE/COUNTRY.
 
Hope this helps, and good luck! [:)]




SirLordTrainer -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 8:59:31 AM)

Heres some more friendly advice, next time put a topic like this somewhere else aside from the 'General BDSM Discussion' board.




LotusSong -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 9:03:33 AM)

You can set up your email to reject any mails from out of country or above or below a certain age.  See  "Mail Controls" under your mail option.




MistressSassy66 -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 9:29:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GirlyDevil

I have posted my profile and have stated specifically that I am looking for a female/male sub no older than 33 years old or from out of the state/country. It also states that I will immediantly delete their email if they fail to comply with this simple request. Why do I keep getting messages from 40+ year old guys and guys who are from out of country? Do people not read the entire profile? Anything I can do? Or just keep deleting their message?
Thank you



Same thing for Me...I have that I wont pick you up from the airport because people actually wanted Me to blindfold them(at the airport) so they wouldnt know where they are...and when I dont want them I can auction him off....I know that it happens...But Maine isnt a State where that is a big thing.As far as I know.
I also state I want someone with 100 miles or from ME/NH/MA...this morning I got one from someone in Egypt who claims to have read My profile...I bet it was just the pics...




topcat -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 9:42:00 AM)

quote:

Same thing for Me...I have that I wont pick you up from the airport because people actually wanted Me to blindfold them(at the airport) so they wouldnt know where they are...and when I dont want them I can auction him off....I know that it happens...But Maine isnt a State where that is a big thing.As far as I know.
I also state I want someone with 100 miles or from ME/NH/MA...this morning I got one from someone in Egypt who claims to have read My profile...


M. Sassy-
 
Excellent! When you are done with him, drop him over in Brunswick at my dad's. His snowblowers broken, and I can't get up there to fix it, and he is gonna stroke off if he tries shoveling.
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence




mnottertail -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 10:18:12 AM)

Lawrence,

I am gonna go out on  a limb here, but I rather like to think that Egyptians are not experienced in snowblowers..........


But a good laugh, none the less....

Ron




MistressSassy66 -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 10:23:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat

quote:

Same thing for Me...I have that I wont pick you up from the airport because people actually wanted Me to blindfold them(at the airport) so they wouldnt know where they are...and when I dont want them I can auction him off....I know that it happens...But Maine isnt a State where that is a big thing.As far as I know.
I also state I want someone with 100 miles or from ME/NH/MA...this morning I got one from someone in Egypt who claims to have read My profile...


M. Sassy-
 
Excellent! When you are done with him, drop him over in Brunswick at my dad's. His snowblowers broken, and I can't get up there to fix it, and he is gonna stroke off if he tries shoveling.
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence




Somehow I think he may freeze to death up here...
he would have to wear so many clothes hed look like the Doughboy...LOL

I'll try to stay warm...But for today I am hoping the winds dont move the trailer to a new location...lol




MistressSassy66 -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 10:26:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Lawrence,

I am gonna go out on  a limb here, but I rather like to think that Egyptians are not experienced in snowblowers..........


But a good laugh, none the less...



Ron




I have a SnowThrower think he could run that?
I'd have a frozen Egyptian...bury him in the back yard and 100 years from now they would find him in the lil town of Denmark,Maine...that would be funny..a historical find maybe...lol




mnottertail -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 10:31:51 AM)

Well, I know this is skirting TOS here, but he might give the pompeiian mummy whores a run for their money with the Ladies!!!!!

When he starts melting, just stand his little dink back  up and toss him in the freezer for a couple hours.

Clarence Birdseye






topcat -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 11:34:34 AM)

Ron-
 
Snowblower Snowshower- Sand or snow- it all shovels the same (well, mostly<g>.
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence




MistressSassy66 -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 12:18:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Well, I know this is skirting TOS here, but he might give the pompeiian mummy whores a run for their money with the Ladies!!!!!

When he starts melting, just stand his little dink back  up and toss him in the freezer for a couple hours.

Clarence Birdseye







OMWord...Now thats funny...Lm*ao




windchymes -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 12:45:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

The deletion of an email is not considered a fearsome event around here, it has been  my experience that most people live thru that, and therefore it is not much of a deterrent.

you can go to mail controls and save alot of bandwith by checking females only and set an age limit, that sends everyone else to bulk, and then you can wipe them out wholesale.

On the other hand (while NOT discounting HNGs whatsoever) some may find you interesting and want to visit with you platonically,  or  even tell you that you have spinach stuck in your profile teeth or any number of things.  Not everyone wants to fuck you.

I have not looked at your profile, but if you have that LESBIAN, NO MEN,  NO MEN, NO MEN and  you will be deleted by the great gash type of snide stuff on your profile....you are gonna cause some umbrage and open yourself for attack, since some people really think it is real and true out here.  I do not understand how people come to such a conclusion, but believe me, they do.


Ron 


"The Great Gash"?  ......LMAO![:D][:D][:D]  You crack me up sometimes!  Uh, so to speak.




tasha_tart -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 7:18:39 PM)

I think for most of them you hit the nail on the head: they don't read the whole profile.
 
Of course, even with age/location requirements in the first line, the ones who are just idiots would still write.
 
Then there's are the one who thinks you meant no one over 30...except for him.[:D]
 
You have pretty much the only solution in your post...delete 'em and drive on.
 
Good luck.
 
Tasha




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 7:31:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GirlyDevil

I have posted my profile and have stated specifically that I am looking for a female/male sub no older than 33 years old or from out of the state/country. It also states that I will immediantly delete their email if they fail to comply with this simple request. Why do I keep getting messages from 40+ year old guys and guys who are from out of country? Do people not read the entire profile? Anything I can do? Or just keep deleting their message?
Thank you

You're lucky if they read any of the profile. Most of them see a female name and send.  My profile says quite specifically that I own someone and I am not looking.  Amazingly, when I get an email where I tel them I am not looking, they always respond as surprised.
Set your filters, that'll help.

DV




Emperor1956 -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 7:32:32 PM)

Wait...Mistress Sassy will pick you up at the airport in Egypt and snowblow your dad's driveway?   And something about a gash?   I gotta stop shooting Nyquil.

E.




PiercedDaz -> RE: Respected Profile? (10/29/2006 7:36:04 PM)

Of course no one is going to take any notice of a profile! Its human nature. Look at it this way....

You see a large blank wall. In the centre of the wall you see a red button with a sign saying 'Do NOT press the red button'. Come on, be honest with yourself - what is the ONLY thing you desire to do????  lol

My profile is an excellent example of this. I have left it open that I would like to chat to ANYBODY. Who emails me? NOBODY!




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