SirDraco7
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Hello all.
I'm not very new to CollarMe, however I am new to the Forum here, So I figured that I would introduce myself.
My Profile says a lot about who I am and what I like in a vanilla sence, but not what I like or seek in a BDSM sence.
First of all what I desire is a 24/7 slave.
What I don't desire is a robot. I don't want a girl who needs to be kept bound and gagged 24/7. And I don't want a girl who doesn't or can't use her head.
24/7 to me does not mean naked all the time on your knees at my feet.
It can be cuddleing on the couch(clothed or not.. my choice), going to work, playing a game together, or even you going out with friends while I stay at home and relax. It can mean you can choose what you wear and eat, and what you do... at times.
To me a girl in 24/7 would have rules and rituals to abide by, but for the most part it's a normal relationship.... aside from the control.
BECAUSE any and all the above can and will change as I see fit. Out with friends and I call you home? Home you go. Pick someting to wear and I tell you to change. change. Etc Etc Etc.
Life is such that micromanaging someone's life would not be very easy, and it is something I do not desire, for that is the makings of a robot slave.
I want a girl who can think and do, one who sees I am having a bad day and makes me brownies to cheer me up without being ordered. One who can give me thoughts and opinions. "what movie would you like to see?" "what kind of food are you in the mood for for dinner?" Knowing that such questions are there because I value her imput, but also that the final decision is mine in the end.
That being out of the way more about me in a kinky sence...
I love bondage, and love control.(doesn't every Dom/Master huh?)
And bondage I love mostly because you have total control.
But to me it's more than a sexual high for me. It's more mental and emotional for me, it's fun and joy and excitement. At times it's a mental orgasm.(if you can understand that)
That is why I cannot do anything less than 24/7 slave. I have tried 'working with' relationships not of that sort and they never work, allways leaving me feeling empty, lacking and missing something. Knowing she held the 'safe-word' over me, or that she would only submit when she's in the mood totally does not do it for me as I know she can and would stop things at any point she desires.(and Master or no, if a Girl does not want to submit to something, or if she doesn't want to be a 24/7 slave I would not and never force her)
The thing with a 24/7 slave is that she would/should be willing to do anything. Should she not be able to for whatever reason she would/should talk about it with her master and He would work to resolve it. But a 24/7 should be willing to do and give up and submit to most everything... like it or not.
Ok another big Love of mine is... Orgasm Control and Denial.
I love to tease, I love to make girls cum, I love everything about it.
I see orgasm as one of the biggest and hardest to give up 'gifts' that a girl could offer her Master. For the most part it's easy to move, easy to get pierced, easy to give up control of her paychecks and money(LTR here btw)
Orgasms? not as easy. espesially when The girl is close to orgasm and needing it badly but not allowed. Espesially as she is being brought closer and closer to orgasm, by her Master, and having to fight it off and force it away because he doesn't want her to have one yet. Ever try to fight off something your body craves and aches for? Ever have it hovering there close but fighting not to give in?(ask a smoker who has tried to quit) Like I said, in my opinion, the biggest gift/sacrifice/offering.
And yes I have thought of and have been interested in long term denial, however, for the most part I will "play things by ear" depending on the girl and how her body responds. It is entirely possiable the longest denial would be not even a week. But then again just as much for much longer... ::evil grin::
Finally, The biggest thing to me about 24/7. TRUST.
Without it there can NOT be 24/7, there can NOT be a relationship, there can NOT be control.
Trust that I would keep her safe.
Trust that I would not go too far.
Trust that I know what is best for both of us.
Trust that I don't break her.(in a bad way)
and so on and so forth.
With trust I can tell her to do something and expect instant obedience.
There is no need to think, just do.
Anyways that is mostly it. I'm not sure if I have anyone left but if so feel free to reply /respond or debate my thoughts as you desire as I'm allways up for some healthy decussion. :)
Be well all and Thank you for reading my Rambleings of who I am and what I dream of......
Sir Draco
"Those who can not Master themselves, cannot Master others"
"NO! Try Not! Do, or do not, there is no Try"
"Trust is something which must me earned, not given away"(paraphrased)
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