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afeathr -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/22/2006 8:36:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

they may be unsure themselves or trolling in deeper waters...............


Trolling might be a good reason... trying to get the most bang for their buck when people are doing searches...




kc692 -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/22/2006 8:37:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: wouldlike2

i can tell You some profiles - same pic - same person one as Dom/ Master other one as sub/ slave..

i once asked this person if He is sure about what He is..

i got the answer thats my twin brother [8D]

ok...

but i see that often... a couple of weeks Dom.. a couple of weeks sub

i don't understand - but may thats a new way of being switch?? who knows??

pet



I had one email me the other day accidentally off his dom profile,stating he had always been submissive. The search feature makes it possible to narrow things down when the little light goes off notifying you things aren't kosher.  I thought hmmmm, went and seached, and at least it was different poses, probably taken on the same day, think he had the same shirt on.  I actually responded and told him he might want to make sure he was on the right profile when he emailed a domme, because we actually have sense, and although he might be fooled that easily, we were not.  Amazingly, he hasn't responded back, lol....




Daddysredhead -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/22/2006 9:53:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

not to mention that i've seen alot of mean, cruel and overly sadistic Dominants in the past 10 years



Doesn't mean you have to be one of them.  You can just be yourself. 




Owned1 -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/22/2006 9:54:36 PM)

Two answers to one question.

Online jaded answer~~they are trolling to get wanker material

Real life~honest person answer~~they are developing and learning who they are and trying to sort it out.

Take your pick

Owned




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/23/2006 7:37:35 AM)

Switching orientations will hardly lead to mental damage of someone.  If they are leading someone on, they are obviously doing a piss poor job of it by obviously changing their profile around- it's obvious to anyone who looks that they are searching for what works for them. 




MisPandora -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/23/2006 7:46:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: subbieblueeyes

I have been keeping my eye on someone and have noticed that they keep bouncing from switch to sub and was wondering what everyone's opinion/thoughts are on this and why someone would keep bouncing back and forth and/or around.

Or perhaps they're doing it to get more dates....?




LadyHugs -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/23/2006 8:42:30 AM)

Dear michaelGA2,
 
Lad, do not give up on your nature.  Of course being dominant at one time does intimidate other dominants, as you know 'the look' -- But,
don't give up!
 
You have a lot to offer someone.
 
Respectfully submitted with concern,
Lady Hugs




LadyHugs -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/23/2006 8:49:36 AM)

Dear subbieblueeyes, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
As far as opinions on why an individual bounces like an out of control ball in a box, you will have plenty of assumptions as well as opinions.
 
So far, others have addressed the possiblities fairly well.  Only the individual who has these many profiles knows for sure as well as their intent being evil or honest.
 
With so many reasons possible-- Unless, there is time to invest in them personally; their discoveries must be done themselves. 
 
Should they be looking just for easy or kinky sex, their motives will soon show.  Some individuals just are struggling, as they feel they could dominate someone and with another, be submissive.  I just wish that those who haven't discovered where they fit into the life style and or scene, state so up front; so that the helpful and kind nature of the community can be there as to lend a hand.  With being a 'want to be' being so difficult, it is hard to extend their hand out; as it may very well be slapped hard more than grasped kindly.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs




raiken -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/23/2006 8:55:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHugs

 I just wish that those who haven't discovered where they fit into the life style and or scene, state so up front; so that the helpful and kind nature of the community can be there as to lend a hand.  With being a 'want to be' being so difficult, it is hard to extend their hand out; as it may very well be slapped hard more than grasped kindly.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs


LadyHugs,
 
This is a very good point.  In almost every forum or group i have participated in, i have found, almost and even number of those who will offer help, and those who will slap a wannbe's outstretched hand with an arrogant dose of self righteous atttiude.  i believe that some folks forget that in some way we all start off as a "wannabe" at something.  




Liar -> RE: Changing Status.... (10/23/2006 9:29:51 AM)

I remember one of the incident once in party We were playing this game Truth and Dare, and when My Brother wanted to do a Dare, I told Him to serve His own slave, He did that. Just sharing tho it has no realtion to your question, and about your question there can be two things, one they are confused about themself, what they are, they are trying to find out or they are just having fun, trolls.




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