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machinegunBANG -> RE: More than curious - Newbie (10/12/2006 1:40:56 PM)
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Master/submissive relationships can have different dynamics, but personally i prefer (as a submissive) a Master or Mistress that is both nurturing, and strong in will and character. i do not believe that narcissism is necessarily an inherent trait within a Dom(me), but an understanding and joy in not only training someone to please Yourself in many respects both mentally and physically, but also in the process and skill in helping Your submissive learn their role through self-discovery and personal growth. i find the pushing of limits until they can be overcome by the submissive one example of how to help and find joy in the submissives own growth. In order to enjoy this growth You must have a certain amount of nurturing and lovingness within You, in my opinion. Please remember that i can only speak from the prospective of an educated submissive, however.
Other important traits are directiveness, confidence, self-control, patience, and decisiveness. Masters and Mistresses must be very strong Characters in order to be able to be the 'Protector' and 'Owner' of Their submissive.
i do hope that some of this helps You in Your journey of discovery.
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