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Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 10:54:33 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Should Collarme be devided into different groups. Single, married, age or disability challenged, ect. Seems so many people have a bitch about each type of group. Should it not register and seperate them into different groups. Would not it make it eaiser to find the type of person you seek?  
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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:02:17 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		You already can self identify as most of those and search for people based on those criteria.  Profiles are for the rest.

People who bitch about having to spend SO MUCH WORK just searching for people shouldn't worry- they are obviously too lazy to even make a relationship work in the long term.

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:07:35 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Then people would bitch if they divided it... people will always find a reason to bitch about something

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:09:54 AM   
Iskander


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Status: offline 		Yup, it should be divided into groups...

I have come up with 3 possible methods...

the first consists of 2 groups;
1: those that ask stupid questions
2: those that don't..

the second of 3 groups;
1: those that count
2:those that can't

Iskander...


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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:26:30 AM   
raiken


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Should Collarme be devided into different groups. Single, married, age or disability challenged, ect. Seems so many people have a bitch about each type of group. Should it not register and seperate them into different groups. Would not it make it eaiser to find the type of person you seek?  


Seems like folks are always looking for ways that divide instead of for ways that unite...says something for the high rate of divorce and amount of short term relationships...  For the most part, things that are worth something are worth making the effort for.  Most folks tend to value something that they had to work a bit to attain, and tend to treat it with more care.  There are already enough divisions within the group of folks who enjoy alternative lifestyles as it is....Just my thoughts.

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:28:30 AM   
Tikkiee


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Should Collarme be devided into different groups. Single, married, age or disability challenged, ect. Seems so many people have a bitch about each type of group. Should it not register and seperate them into different groups. Would not it make it eaiser to find the type of person you seek?  

ABSOLUTLY

Let's see...on this side we have those who are underweight
On this side, overweight
On this side we have those who are over 40 but under 60
On this side we have those who are over 20 but under 40
On this side we have those who are religious
On this side we have those who are not
On this side we have Dominants and Masters who are overweight but under 40
On this side are the opposite
On this side we have .............

on and on and on it goes

and the main rule to always be observed is that NO ONE IS ALLOWED  to converse with those who are OUTSIDE their target group.

I mean come on, if we are going to do this, let us do it right.

What  an idiotic question. Should they be seperated into groups. Sure, let's bring back segregation in a HUGE WAY. Oh, and while we are at it, lets make sure that EVERYONE gets the proper label while within their target group. We can't have any misunderstandings now can we?




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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:30:41 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Those that love to eat cheesecake yet do not bake it.

Those that love to eat cheesecake and CAN bake it.




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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:31:19 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		That people will  bitch about anything goes without saying. But would not devideing into groups save a lot of usless searching and frustration.

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:32:58 AM   
Tikkiee


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Those that love to eat cheesecake yet do not bake it.

Those that love to eat cheesecake and CAN bake it.




I am coming to your house for cheesecake. So make sure that I am in your divisional group please.
/slips you a $50 to make sure you understand
/nods


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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:33:20 AM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		You can't stop people from lying in their profiles.

Better yet... let's do a section for "Those ADD people searching for mates- only profiles of SAL"

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:35:04 AM   
raiken


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

That people will  bitch about anything goes without saying. But would not devideing into groups save a lot of usless searching and frustration.


You missed the point of my post.  i did not mention bitching at all.  *grin

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:40:22 AM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Can anyone point me to the moron line?

Oh, I see it's already started forming.

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:40:33 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Yes and no.

Personally I enjoy meeting all sorts of people wether they are a potential mate or not. I am not specifically here for that. I enjoy getting to know people with different backgrounds, different life perspectives, different everything. If I were stuck in a group of people all like me I would end up killing all of us. I love diversity.

Now, I suppose if you think you already know everything you want to know and are only interested in getting to know a very narrow criteria of human being then, yes, it would be helpful. I don't know that is the bulk of the population here though. My god, I try and imagine if I only had CM contact with single lesbian sub/slaves in a specific age group with a specific body type. Hell if I had that mindset I would have never joined CM in the first place! I used to think I wanted something entirely different than I feel I want now.

All in all I like having the mixture, it is enlightening and educational.



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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:41:29 AM   
Iskander


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

That people will  bitch about anything goes without saying. But would not devideing into groups save a lot of usless searching and frustration.


There is nothing useless in searching...
Things that come easy are useless..
I was given a car once.. i ran it into the ground..
Then I saved all my pennies and managed to buy a car, I treated it like it was the most valuable item on the planet...

Iskander...


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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:42:11 AM   
mstrjx


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Those that love to eat cheesecake yet do not bake it.

Those that love to eat cheesecake and CAN bake it.





Does that mean that you can bake your cheesecake and eat it too?

Inquiring minds, and all.

Tenderly,
Jeff

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:45:20 AM   
juliaoceania


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There is nothing useless in searching...
Things that come easy are useless..


Very true

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 11:58:49 AM   
LaTigresse


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Does that mean that you can bake your cheesecake and eat it too?

Inquiring minds, and all.

Tenderly,
Jeff


Why yes dear Jeff it does. And if you are lucky you get to eat some of it too.......if you are really REALLY lucky you get to help bake it....(remembering one very kinky day in the kitchen)


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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 12:27:41 PM   
Bearlee


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Hmmmmmmmmm...  A roomfulla masterbakers would be fun to watch!

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 1:01:27 PM   
mstrjx


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

Does that mean that you can bake your cheesecake and eat it too?

Inquiring minds, and all.

Tenderly,
Jeff


Why yes dear Jeff it does. And if you are lucky you get to eat some of it too.......if you are really REALLY lucky you get to help bake it....(remembering one very kinky day in the kitchen)



Well, now that the masterbakers are all done, cheesecake all gone......

HEY, WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING WITH THAT SPATULA?

Oooh, I didn't know that could fit there.  Feels sorta nice.  Don't lose the handle, there.

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RE: Lifestyle divisions - 10/5/2006 1:55:23 PM   
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Oooh, I didn't know that could fit there.  Feels sorta nice.  Don't lose the handle, there.


Drill a hole in the end of the handle and thread a leather thong through it. Then you have an instant pull string and you'll never lose the spatula when it's where the sun don't shine.

Celeste

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