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submit2one -> One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 10:18:03 AM)

the boy contacts Her begging to be considered for service;

just once, the boy actually manages not to fuck up the email get acquainted process and he passes all of the initial hurdles with flying colors:

he's fairly well read (not an astrophysicist, just fairly well read),

he's pretty well rounded with a few shared interests (could be reading, novels, movies, art, science, politics, fishing, photography, music, pick any two of a myriad of real life interests that they actually manage to share in common...).

he's not chemically dependent on anything (no alcohol, no drugs, no snow, no crack no pot no nuthin thank you very much),

he's emotionally stable,

he has a job!  (any job, doesn't have to be a lawyer, doctor or indian chief, just something he enjoys doing enough to be dedicated to getting to work every day),

he's sincere (and really does get off on making a woman happy)

he's smart (smart enough to know that if he sends Her a picture of his nasty little pee pee via email before She requests anything of the sort that She'll block his silly ass)

he's willing to put himself out there (enough that he's given Her his undivided attention every time She contacts him; enough that he's given Her all of his personal ID info so that the background check came through without any hitches)

he's generous to a fault: (something She's rarely encountered in real life so it's a quality that has taken on huge import for Her),

he showed up at their first encounter with a token of his appreciation for her: (a simple bouquet of cut flowers, or a gift bag of scented candles or that new Clive Cussler novel she wanted to read or that latest Peter White CD or some other equally impressive token of goodwill),

he NEVER ONCE mentioned tribute or his disdain for Pro Dommes because he already knows She's in it for the long haul,

he's actually available and not married to the 'love of his life who fails him as a Domme',

he never uses the word 'women' in place of the word 'woman',

he never lies;

he doesn't cheat,

he enjoys making Her smile,

he's man enough to crawl to her feet and beg Her for a flogging,

...and he's smitten enough to want Her as much as She wants him,

and to top it all off, he's always humble when he realizes that She wants him the way She does....

Yep.

One Domme's fantasy.

submit2one ~ formerly somethingorother




Misstoyou -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 10:38:27 AM)

It happens. [:)] Well, my submissive didn't bring a "token" the first time we met, but that's not a big deal with me.

And for the submissive man who's fantasizes that a lifestyle Domme will contact him, intrigued from reading his profile because something in it spoke to her, that happens, too. Ask my submissive/puppy. [:)]




joyinslavery -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 11:36:18 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: submit2one

just once, the boy actually manages not to fuck up the email get acquainted process and he passes all of the initial hurdles with flying colors: 



Ah yes, the ever-elusive search for perfection.  I mean, holy shit, are you sure you didn't leave anything out?  "Just once..." huh?  Funny.  And then we all come on here and post about how we can't find anyone of quality or that is sincere, real, whatever.  Damn.  It's a wonder people get together at all with all the (unrealistic) expectations people seem to carry around.    




LASub4Real -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 12:34:24 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery
Damn.  It's a wonder people get together at all with all the (unrealistic) expectations people seem to carry around.    


Yet, in the post just above your own, Missto you confirms that it she has found just that, making the unrealistic attainable!

LAsub




BeachMystress -> Perfect sub, Santa Clause and the Easter bunny (10/1/2006 1:12:29 PM)

And I'll have that sub over for a nice dinner with Santa and the Easter Bunny. Then we'll all buy Enron stock, a NY Bridge and swampland in Florida. And after that, we'll fly to Neverneverland to hear PeterPan and the Lost boys rock out.

*smiles* Yes, perfect subs do exist. They're different for each. I found mine November 19 2004. I met him at the grand opening party for the local Club FEm dungeon. I'd been seeking for years. He'd been in the lifestyle all of three months. We had a fairy tale courtship, marriage and now life.

Domme hit on him, because he is their ideal of a sub/slave. He does the cleaning, cooking, laundry, chores and shopping. He bathes me, massages me, does my nails, fetches my clothes, pampers me, fetches my drinks, amuses me and more. We live a 24/7 with me as the head of household. Most of the time, hubby doesn't realize other women are coming on to him. When he does, he finds the person hitting on him dishonorable and lets it be known.

Fairy tales do happen. *smiles*




lilyophelia -> RE: Perfect sub, Santa Clause and the Easter bunny (10/1/2006 1:20:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BeachMystress
Fairy tales do happen. *smiles*


Your post is very cute, and wow...yay for You. There are definitely good subs/slaves, as well a bad ones...much like with Dommes, or anything else. And half the time, the problem isn't even with the individuals themselves, but with therir inherant incompatibilities. It makes me smile to hear how happy happy You are. Yay for You. ^^

-lily




joyinslavery -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 1:58:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LASub4Real


quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery
Damn.  It's a wonder people get together at all with all the (unrealistic) expectations people seem to carry around.    


Yet, in the post just above your own, Missto you confirms that it she has found just that, making the unrealistic attainable!

LAsub


Well, I suppose ANYTHING is possible now isn't it?  (Goes back to editing my extensive laundry list). 




DiurnalVampire -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 2:04:46 PM)

I have found most of that list with my boy.  The token on the first encounter wasnt physical, it was something we did together. I am not pro, so he doesnt worry about that, and he is still amazed that I want him as much as he wants me some days.
But we met when I made a smartass comment about a journal entry of his, not ebcasue I was touched by his profile. 
But it does hapen.

DV




Misstoyou -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 3:18:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LASub4Real


quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery
Damn. It's a wonder people get together at all with all the (unrealistic) expectations people seem to carry around.


Yet, in the post just above your own, Missto you confirms that it she has found just that, making the unrealistic attainable!

LAsub


This made me re-read the OP's post to double check if I missed something. lol

Okay, I'm not sure I'd call him generous to a *fault* (and that's certainly not to say neither he nor I don't have faults, [;)]) but I'm sorry, but what the heck is so unrealistic? Is it cumulative? Because I don't see one thing that the OP listed that I would consider unreasonable to expect from any man I'm involved with, especially that he actually reads. lol

I certainly don't think men are less capable of providing a "total package" just because they are submissive, though as BeachMystress points out, it's different for each.

P.S. BeachMystress, I remember your posts from when you both first met. It was very cool to let us all read along as the fairy tale developed.




iamdownonmyknees -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 3:37:32 PM)

A good friend told me of her dominant side so I confessed my many submissive fantasies. Everything flowed from that moment of mutual confession.

Richard




LTRsubNW -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 3:50:24 PM)

(Revised...punctuation retained for the sake of continuity {not however, accuracy})

The Domme responds to his request to be considered for service;

Just once, the boy actually hopes that she'll read his entire prose without preconcieved notions: 

She responds to him in a fashion that indicates she has some nominal concept of nouns, verbs and a modicum of grammar (not necessarily enough to quote Robert Frost from memory...but enough to be able to at minimum, pursue a shopping list without more than three errors),

She's pretty well rounded and has at least a limited ability to discuss at minimum the things that interest her...with some level of precision (for instance; she knows that most double wides are made with 1/4 inch plated steel I-beams as support structure, but doesn't aspire to one).

She's not chemically dependent on anything (other than sour cream, butter and of course the natural inclination to believe that they are 2 of the 4 known food groups and is eager to get off of them),

She doesn't stutter when she talks to herself,

She has a job!  (any job, doesn't have to be a lawyer, doctor or indian chief, just something she enjoys doing enough to be dedicated to getting to work every day and not intend to live off of some guy),

She's sincere (and really does get off on being a participant in the two of their lives, so much so that she believes she has as much responsability for his happiness as she expects he'll have for hers),

She's smart (smart enough to know that if she sends him a picture of her various appendages via email before he requests anything of the sort that she'll understand without any ongoing bullshit that not all subs think with their dicks and that she may just as likely be flushed with all the other effluvia as not),

She's willing to put herself out there (enough that she's given him her undivided attention every time he contacts him; enough that she's given him all of her personal ID info so that the background check came through without any hitches and so he can verify she isn't a leach sucking the life out of him only for him to discover she uses a drop box and changes email addresses or screen names as soon or as often as she changes her hair color),

She's generous to a fault: (something he's rarely encountered in real life so it's a quality that has taken on huge import for him {see above}),

She showed up at their first encounter with a token of her appreciation for him: (a touch of the hand, a gentle smile, or some other equally impressive token of goodwill),

She NEVER ONCE mentioned tribute or her disdain for other previous subs that have dissapointed her because she already knows he's in it for the long haul (and assumes as much),

She's actually available and not scamming him pretending to be the 'love of his life who will never fail him as a Domme',

She never uses the word "boy" in place of the word "man",

She never lies;

She doesn't cheat,

She enjoys making him smile, in fact, she lives for it,

She's woman enough to accept him for what and who he is and to initiate some form of tactile effort on her part towards him because she knows he's tender and wishes for her to make the first move,

...and she's smitten enough to want him as much as he wants her,

and to top it all off, she's always humble even as she realizes she has the upper hand....

Yep.

One subs fantasy...




joyinslavery -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 3:58:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

(Revised...punctuation retained for the sake of continuity {not accuracy})

the Domme responds to his request to be considered for service;

just once, the boy actually hopes that she'll read his entire prose without preconcieved notions: 

She responds to him in a fashion that indicates she has some nominal concept of nouns, verbs and a modicum of grammar (not necessarily enough to quote Robert Frost from memory...but enough to be able to at minimum, pursue a shopping list without more than three errors),

She's pretty well rounded with a few shared interests (she knows that most double wides are made with 1/4 inch plated steel I-beams as support structure, and doesn't aspire to one).

She's not chemically dependent on anything (other than sour cream, butter and of course the natural inclination to believe that they are 2 of the 4 known food groups and is eager to get off of them),

She doesn't stutter when she talks to herself,

She has a job!  (any job, doesn't have to be a lawyer, doctor or indian chief, just something she enjoys doing enough to be dedicated to getting to work every day and not intend to live off of some guy),

She's sincere (and really does get off on being a participant in the two of their lives, so much so that she believes she has as much responsability for his happiness as she expects he'll have for hers),

She's smart (smart enough to know that if she sends him a picture of her various appendages via email before he requests anything of the sort that she'll understand without any ongoing bullshit that not all subs think with their dicks and that she may just as likely be flushed with all the other effluvia as not),

She's willing to put herself out there (enough that she's given him her undivided attention every time he contacts him; enough that she's given him all of her personal ID info so that the background check came through without any hitches and so he can verify she isn't a leach sucking the life out of him only for him to discover she uses a drop box and changes email addresses or screen names as soon or as often as she changes her hair color),

She's generous to a fault: (something he's rarely encountered in real life so it's a quality that has taken on huge import for him {see above}),

She showed up at their first encounter with a token of her appreciation for him: (a touch of the hand, a gentle smile, or some other equally impressive token of goodwill),

She NEVER ONCE mentioned tribute or her disdain for other previous subs that have dissapointed her because she already knows he's in it for the long haul (and assumes as much),

She's actually available and not scamming him pretending to be the 'love of his life who will never fail him as a Domme',

She never uses the word "boy" in place of the word "man",

She never lies;

She doesn't cheat,

She enjoys making him smile, in fact, she lives for it,

She's woman enough to accept him for what and who he is and to initiate some form of tactile effort on her part towards him because she knows he's tender and wishes for her to make the first move,

...and she's smitten enough to want him as much as he wants her,

and to top it all off, she's always humble even as she realizes she has the upper hand....

Yep.

One subs fantasy...


Okay, LTR, gotta give you props on that one for sure!  Locally, we call that, 'reversing the whip' and it's greatness! 




Misstoyou -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 4:54:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

(Revised...punctuation retained for the sake of continuity {not however, accuracy})

The Domme responds to his request to be considered for service; ...

Just once, the boy actually hopes that she'll read his entire prose without preconcieved notions:

and forgives the typos understanding his nervousness at even attempting to contact the superior being that she is

She responds to him in a fashion that indicates she has some nominal concept of nouns, verbs and a modicum of grammar (not necessarily enough to quote Robert Frost from memory...but enough to be able to at minimum, pursue a shopping list without more than three errors),

or reduces her vocabulary to the single-syllabic words he's the most comfortable with

She's pretty well rounded and has at least a limited ability to discuss at minimum the things that interest her...with some level of precision (for instance; she knows that most double wides are made with 1/4 inch plated steel I-beams as support structure, but doesn't aspire to one).

(and I thought "well-rounded" was taking this discussion in a different direction. My mistake. lol)

She's not chemically dependent on anything (other than sour cream, butter and of course the natural inclination to believe that they are 2 of the 4 known food groups and is eager to get off of them),

And one can't forget chocolate!!!

She doesn't stutter when she talks to herself,

as the submissive will be listening to every word as each is a pearl of wisdom he ignores at his peril

She has a job! (any job, doesn't have to be a lawyer, doctor or indian chief, just something she enjoys doing enough to be dedicated to getting to work every day and not intend to live off of some guy),

which is damn generous of the sub not to require her to be independently wealthy

She's sincere (and really does get off on being a participant in the two of their lives, so much so that she believes she has as much responsability for his happiness as she expects he'll have for hers),

by communicating clearly and precisely what will make her happy, because everybody knows a true submissive can only be happy if his mistress is happy

She's smart (smart enough to know that if she sends him a picture of her various appendages via email before he requests anything of the sort that she'll understand without any ongoing bullshit that not all subs think with their dicks and that she may just as likely be flushed with all the other effluvia as not),

exceptions to the above are pictures of a crop held between her ruby lips...oh, wait...those might or might not fall under "appendages"

She's willing to put herself out there (enough that she's given him her undivided attention every time he contacts him; enough that she's given him all of her personal ID info so that the background check came through without any hitches and so he can verify she isn't a leach sucking the life out of him only for him to discover she uses a drop box and changes email addresses or screen names as soon or as often as she changes her hair color),

but exceptions are made when it's in conflict with her "woman of mystery" persona.

She's generous to a fault: (something he's rarely encountered in real life so it's a quality that has taken on huge import for him {see above}),

and she generously fulfills every fantasy in his wish list for so long as he wishes, unless she drops from exhaustion or an appendage falls off

She showed up at their first encounter with a token of her appreciation for him: (a touch of the hand, a gentle smile, or some other equally impressive token of goodwill),

with the location of touch of the hand determining the extent of the goodwill

She NEVER ONCE mentioned tribute or her disdain for other previous subs that have dissapointed her because she already knows he's in it for the long haul (and assumes as much),

which is actually the wrong way to act, because everybody knows assumptions are a bad thing.

She's actually available and not scamming him pretending to be the 'love of his life who will never fail him as a Domme',

as it's not his fault that the submissive, in his enthusiasm, believes that the Domme actually is a "perfect," and therefore inhuman, person,

She never uses the word "boy" in place of the word "man",
but then, of course, being the superior being she is, for her a word can mean whatever she wants it to mean (reference Alice in Wonderland - the book, not the Disney movie.)

She never lies;
see above

She doesn't cheat,
see above

She enjoys making him smile, in fact, she lives for it,
or grimace in pain. Sometimes it's difficult to tell one from the other

She's woman enough to accept him for what and who he is and to initiate some form of tactile effort on her part towards him because she knows he's tender and wishes for her to make the first move,

so long as the tactile efforts fall within his appoved list of desired interactions

...and she's smitten enough to want him as much as he wants her,

in precisely the same way he wants her

and to top it all off, she's always humble even as she realizes she has the upper hand....

Yep.

Yep

One subs fantasy...


You lost me with the trailer dimensions. [:D]




MisPandora -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 7:03:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: submit2one

*snipped wonderful dreamy impossibilities about male submissive*

And then he vanishes......




LASub4Real -> RE: Perfect sub, Santa Clause and the Easter bunny (10/1/2006 7:39:21 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

And I'll have that sub over for a nice dinner with Santa and the Easter Bunny. Then we'll all buy Enron stock, a NY Bridge and swampland in Florida. And after that, we'll fly to Neverneverland to hear PeterPan and the Lost boys rock out.

*smiles* Yes, perfect subs do exist...
Fairy tales do happen. *smiles*



Actually BeachMystress is probably THE premier example I would have raised (I didn't because it wouldn't have been polite) But now that she has raised it, I have been aware BeachMystress' posts, comments, and profiles, out there in the internet for years, we've even traded emails a few times. She was just out there doing her thing and WHAM, suddenly she's hooked up with her dream sub! I have to say that it made me smile to hear of it and I was really quite happy for her although we've never met in person. But BeachMystress has been around in the scene for long enough to prove that sometimes if you wait, things really do work out! Go figure!

LAsub




MisPandora -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 8:14:56 PM)

Anyone else find it interesting that the OP's profile doesn't exist on the other side?




Misstoyou -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 8:19:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

Anyone else find it interesting that the OP's profile doesn't exist on the other side?



She had it up earlier.




Silvermoon -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/1/2006 8:21:14 PM)

I don't always have my profile up either. Since I'm not here seeking anyone, it gets kind of tiresome. Some of us just like to keep in touch on boards and/or chat. *s*

Silver




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/2/2006 2:35:25 AM)

I hate to tell you Joyinslavery (though you don't sound joyful ever) that my first slave was exactly like the description above, except we didn't have enough of the chemistry thing to make it last...  So am here to tell you, it is not an unrealistic fantasy; besides, what is the point of settling for mr "you'll do" when a toy would do much better and not piss you off regularly, LMAO.

I hope you understand that no one is saying you need to be anything that you aren't.  In my opinion what submit2one described is general good manners and courtship of someone whom you care for, respect, and who makes your heart beat faster with joy, desire and anticipation.   JMO,   M





joyinslavery -> RE: One Domme's fantasy.... (10/2/2006 7:13:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

I hate to tell you Joyinslavery (though you don't sound joyful ever) that my first slave was exactly like the description above, except we didn't have enough of the chemistry thing to make it last...  So am here to tell you, it is not an unrealistic fantasy; besides, what is the point of settling for mr "you'll do" when a toy would do much better and not piss you off regularly, LMAO.

I hope you understand that no one is saying you need to be anything that you aren't.  In my opinion what submit2one described is general good manners and courtship of someone whom you care for, respect, and who makes your heart beat faster with joy, desire and anticipation.   JMO,   M




And I hope you understand I could give a rip what you think or of your opinion.  I do so hope my positng annoys you greatly.  THAT would bring me joy!   

Chemistry?!?!  You know, I bet I could hazard a guess or two as to why your little relationship didn't last. 

And if you're going to address me in your post, try spelling my nick correctly.  Talk about manners. 

Now, go away.



Edited because I still can't spell.




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