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Argentopal -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (10/3/2006 9:50:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Fantazmaster

Signs Of The MultipleOrgasmic:
1.Your neighbors keep calling Animal Control about a wounded panther in the throes of death in the neighborhood.
2.The nearest EarthQuake Monitoring Station writes and asks you to move
3.Overturned Furniture
4.Footholes kicked into the ceiling
5.Pictures Knocked Off The Walls



DAMN!!!! You have seen our house!
lol, this was funny!






sharainks -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (10/3/2006 2:02:06 PM)

I'm multi-orgasmic too.  To me its no different with or without BDSM.  Some vanillas are excellent lovers and good at making women climax, some doms are not and vice versa. I've never had an orgasm from BDSM alone. 



subsue6 -> multi-orgasmic? (10/23/2006 7:22:16 PM)

I'm somewhat like you in that after and during punishment, and intense humiliation, often public or semi-public, I have my most powerful orgasms, one after another. I can't help it--my dommes know I need it.



subsue6 -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/1/2006 6:35:39 PM)

" I sometimes have an easier time with someone I am maybe not so connected with. It just depends. "
Yes, that is often true, I think, especially of subs, to have more intense orgasms with women you are not that connected with, almost anonymous sex, as in bars or at the "Y".
It can be dangerous and wild but it's part of the BDSM scene.



subsue6 -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/1/2006 6:38:13 PM)

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No I do not think that is necessarily true. It was easier to find sex partners when I was vanilla, but unsatisfying


Definitely true about it being much more satisfying sex with dommes. Initially when I got into the lifestyle, it was easier to find partners in the vanilla world, but now that I know my way around the scene with lesbian and bi dommes and subs, it's just as easy to find dommes to have sex with as before in the vanilla world.



LadyOunce -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/1/2006 7:06:29 PM)

I am but BDSM doesn't cause it to happen more. In fact, it tends to happen less often, but more intensely than it does with mere sex.

I don't think those in the lifestyle are more active or sensitive though I do think they tend to be more aware of their bodies and what does it for them.



SweetEscravo -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/1/2006 8:59:13 PM)

Those on the bdsm side of sexuality may not be more sexual, but I think, in general, they are more aware and physically sensitive.  I've never found that there is much to really think about in vanilla sex.  "Stick your penis in here, and move around a bit til we both orgasm" works for vanilla sex, but in bdsm, there is a lot to think about.  When you consider the huge array of  fetishes, limits, kinks and sexual orientations (whether its bi, gay, straight, trans, dom, sub or switch), there is a lot more to be aware of and to work with. 



Hercuckslave -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/2/2006 1:14:41 AM)

So God gave women the ability of multiple orgasms, and men the ability to pee while standing up.  I think we got seriously short changed on the deal fellas.

Mistress is amazingly multiple.  When she gets going, she can cum pretty much continuously for hours.  Literally.  And she generally cums in measurable gallons.  It is quite frankly the hottest thing in the world!!!  To be perfectly honest, I get to do that for her....so who gives a shit if I only get one (or many times, none as per her command)?  For me, seems like a very small price to pay to experience that, and be able to give her sooooo much pleasure.  I'm a lucky boy.

M's m



SweetCaleigh -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/2/2006 1:47:01 AM)

i think it depends on your partner.  i have had multi-orgasms with one Master that just kept me going and going non-stop and the only way for them to stop is if He stopped.   Then i have only had one with others.

i also think it depends on your mind set.   it's not often, but i can  make myself multi-orgasm with certain fantasies and not with others.  Go figure..... lol



Celeste43 -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/2/2006 4:59:17 AM)

I am as easily multi when we have vanilla sex as when I'm all tied up. The difference for me is that I arouse faster when tied.

Is the average BDSMer more sexually than the average nilla? Certainly not. There are BDSM women who still don't orgasm and nillas who don't, BDSMers who multi and nillas who multi. BDSM is more intense for someone who is wired that way, it would be a turn off for someone who isn't wired this way.



Siona -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/2/2006 10:55:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

I am as easily multi when we have vanilla sex as when I'm all tied up. The difference for me is that I arouse faster when tied.



Same here.



Mercnbeth -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/2/2006 11:03:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: gardenbluebird

...Are you (or your partner) multi-orgasmic...


yes, this slave is orgasmic, including multi, under one certain condition.

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 ...and does BDSM enhance the frequency and duration of your orgasms?...


the BDSM component IS the certain condition, either played out live or as a mental fantasy, it is the ONLY way this slave orgasms...multiple times or just once.

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...do you think that the average person who is into BDSM is more sexually active, aware, and physically sensative than the average 'nilla?... 


absolutely not



daddysprop247 -> RE: multi-orgasmic? (11/2/2006 11:05:59 AM)

i'm barely orgasmic much less multi-orgasmic...lol. it's extremely rare for me to orgasm at all, and has always been that way. i don't know if it's a physical/sensitivity thing or more a mental block, but being in the lifestyle and especially being a slave i think has sort of enhanced what was already there. meaning, i've always felt self-conscious and guilty about expressions of sexual pleasure, and now as i slave i feel that X100. so the frequency of my orgasms have gone down slightly (from about once a yr to once every couple yrs). but it doesn't bother me as i would rather not orgasm anyway, and it doesn't effect my Master's pleasure at all, so for us it's a non-issue.



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