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RE: Bad Kisser - 9/26/2006 1:45:45 PM

ThunderRoad

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Wow that would be a tough one! I would think I would be forced to bring it up in what ever open communication forum we have agreed on. Either a sit down conversation and even if desparate writing it in a journal.

My hope would be that any relationship, regardless of D/s dynamics, would have enough communication in it to be able to discuss something that is important. A lot of people just haven't learned properly, or never learned at all, so it's all based on instinct and movies and nobody bothering to say "hey, it's all fun, but I like _this_ type of technique; let's try it". No need to be confrontational about it; it's instead a way for everyone to grow together.

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RE: Bad Kisser - 9/26/2006 2:00:09 PM

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It helps if mouths are a comparable size. I used to have a girlfriend whose mouth went from ear to ear. I didn't so much kiss her as put my head in her mouth.

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RE: Bad Kisser - 9/26/2006 2:03:41 PM

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WOW, now that gives a whole new meaning to 'giving head', doesn't it!

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RE: Bad Kisser - 9/26/2006 2:03:47 PM

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Cold-hearted that I am, I've dumped guys who couldn't kiss. I figure, if they aren't sensual in the kissing department, going the rest of the way isn't going to be very sensual, either. I'm talking about the guys who were REALLY bad. Most of the rest of them just needed a little polishing, and I love the ones who gave me some polishing of my own.

But what if they don't KNOW they are bad?

That's a good point. Perhaps we should modify "bad" to "bad for ME". Someone who kisses "badly" to me may be a perfect kisser to someone else. In that case, we shall just wish for them to find one another and live happily ever after!

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RE: Bad Kisser - 9/26/2006 3:33:01 PM

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That's a good point. Perhaps we should modify "bad" to "bad for ME". Someone who kisses "badly" to me may be a perfect kisser to someone else. In that case, we shall just wish for them to find one another and live happily ever after!

So you never bothered to tell them they were bad for you or try to improve things, you just gave up on them and moved on.

Kinda sad actually.

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RE: Bad Kisser - 9/26/2006 5:19:17 PM

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This thread made me laugh. *g*

The question: "Kyra, do you think I am a good kisser?"
My response: "My Lord, I was hoping that you would never ask me that. No, I don't my Lord."

Thank God the man has a healthy ego. lol

Sorry ladies, he looks fabulous in leather pants, but he isn't so great in the kissing department. He is getting better though. *eg*

Truthfully, it was not such a big deal to me. I love kissing and have been told that I do it very well, but it certainly isn't a deal breaker for me. Not to mention that if I asked, he would consider giving me to someone so I could make out with them.

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