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spaceageplayboy -> Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (9/24/2006 3:23:41 PM)

I enjoy to be bound and tickled, I have been told by other people that it is a fetish, just wanted to get a Mistress's opinion on it and whether they enjoy tickling or being tickled. and is it a fetish?



MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (9/24/2006 4:30:44 PM)

Well, I don't enjoy being tickled at all, but must admit I do love to tickle a submissive!  For some it may be a fetish, but for Me it is just something I like to do from time to time.
 
Lady Topaz



firefey -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (9/24/2006 6:00:42 PM)

by classic deffinition, if it get's you sexually stimulated but isn't sex then it's a fetish.  so i guess the answer would be yes.  why do i like to do it?  because it's silly, and fun.  and tickling a sub until they can't breath is a fun, and more or less safe, form of breath controll.  plus, it can be kinda humiliating to be tickled so hard you pee yourself.  and to know you are bound and can't get away no matter how you struggle, that sence of helplessness is fabulous.  and finnally, it's an amzingly good break from the seriousness of a traditional s/m scene.  doing them in public is the best, because the whole dungeon ends up laughing and having a good time.  just be sure to do it in a room where there isn't another scene to disturb.



Calandra -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (9/25/2006 9:20:49 PM)

Actually firefey, the word fetish can be substituted with fascination or obsession. Sex has nothing to do with the word fetish except in common usage, which is erroneous.

To the OP: Tickling can be sexually stimulating, but not necessarily so. I once had a person who simply could not relax completely unless he'd been tickled. It had nothing what so ever to do with sex at all... I asked around among my psychologist friends and medical friends and got a really interesting answer... When we are tickled, we release endorphins into out bloodstream. If you discover that you enjoy tickling as either a prelude to sex (foreplay) or on it's own outside of a sexual context, it would still be considered a fetish if you are fascinated or obsessed with it.

This poor guy I spoke of earlier actually lost a marriage over his need to be tickled. His wife insisted it was a kinky perverted sexual thing, and he was absolutely baffled, because it wasn't for him. I suggested that he mention his need for tickling early on in future relationships or personal ads. Several months later, he and his new fiance` contacted Me to THANK Me for My guidance. ~smiles~



lunamor -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (9/26/2006 1:37:44 AM)

I love tickling! I've noticed that guys who barely bat an eye at needles, strong beatings, whippings etc often fall apart at the mere touch of a feather - it's deeply satisfying to strap one of these guys to a cross and then see his wide-eyed reaction as he realizes the beating he had hoped for (and knows how to handle so well) will instead be something quite different. It's a great way to make a sub lose his self-control, and I get a thrill watching that tough wall of resistence crumble: I can keep him gasping for as long as I like, or even make him cry while tickle-torturing him (mmmm so intimate :)

If you like dialogue, tickling can be enhanced by verbal humiliation: I greatly enjoy teasing and mocking a slave as he's writhing, yelping, and pleading for mercy. It's also wonderful to know that he truly fears my lightest touch. A mere threat will often keep a slave in line very nicely, but if necessary I can tickle (and therefore humiliate) him even in the most public vanilla situations (I don't think I'd make a sub wet his pants in public, but I could change my mind!).

Another big plus about tickling: nervous newby doms can be ruthlessly cruel and heartless and never worry about really hurting their slaves too much.

Yep, I'm a fan: I love to tickle and I love ticklish subs!



MistressDolly -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (9/26/2006 6:15:38 AM)

Love it. 

Laughter's contagious.

It just cracks me up to see someone tied up thrashing about in a fit of uncontrollable laughter.

[8D]



firefey -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (9/26/2006 9:42:53 AM)

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Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.0.1) - Cite This Source
fet‧ish  /ˈfɛt[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/luna/thinsp.png[/image]ɪʃ, ˈfi[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/luna/thinsp.png[/image]tɪʃ/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[fet-ish, fee-tish] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation

–noun
1.an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.
2.any object, idea, etc., eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect, or devotion: to make a fetish of high grades.
3.Psychology. any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.        

 
the above is from from dictionary.com 
so, yes it is a fetish if it sexually stimulates you.  yes it is a fetish if you are obsessed with it.  and yes, if you need it to become relaxed enough to perform, it is a fetish.
 
and a damn fun one at that.



mellian -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (9/26/2006 4:35:55 PM)

Tickling is a form of torture some friends and some Dommes enjoy to use on me despite how I avoid it.

-mellian



Sissypinky -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (10/11/2006 7:50:17 PM)

it is and i love my toes tickled with a pink feather



MsKatHouston -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (10/11/2006 10:37:28 PM)

Tickling is fun...especially a bound, helpless slave who has no way to retaliate ;)



Mistrix -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (10/14/2006 8:27:14 AM)

Me too.  I love it and especially like saying...coochie coochie cooooooooooooooooooo...
or pounce on them like a cat with my long nails.
I wanna tickle now!!!!!!!!!!



joyinslavery -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (10/14/2006 10:05:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

Tickling is fun...especially a bound, helpless slave who has no way to retaliate ;)



I second that.  Then again, I'd agree with most anything that involves a bound, helpless sub/slave who has no say in the matter (and a gag can be most helpful here as well).   

But, that's just me.  [sm=smile.gif]



MsKatHouston -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (10/14/2006 11:52:36 AM)

oh no, part of the pleasure is hearing him...I'm afraid I couldn't gag in such an instance...unless he was disturbing the neighbors ;)




joyinslavery -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (10/14/2006 2:33:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

oh no, part of the pleasure is hearing him...I'm afraid I couldn't gag in such an instance...unless he was disturbing the neighbors ;)





The police would probably be called. 



MsKatHouston -> RE: Bound for Laughter-Is tickling a fetish? (10/14/2006 2:45:39 PM)

cool...the guys who patrol my area come equipped will all kinds of groovy gadgets



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