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NastyDaddy -> RE: Fishing and bait? (9/22/2006 12:59:55 PM)
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This is something non-poly people do not understand, and it's frankly amusing to see non-poly people explaining poly people's actions... all the rationale, and all the conjecture... usually based on their own non-poly insecurities. What happened to the old "it's not my kink" attitude as opposed to explaining the kink by those who do not enjoy or practice it... but often deplore the kink?
In my own personal experiences, it is something I allow my bi-sub to pursue... not something I demand she pursue. It's totally consensual between the two of us for her to seek a second female for play, or to join our household if that be the case.
The bottom line in reality is that the females will need to be compatible in many more ways, so effectively it's easier for them to conduct an initial weeding process. It also pleases them in most cases to be allowed the opportunity, as opposed to taking whoever the Dom may decide, whether she be compatible or not.
Covert "fishing" by stealthy Doms? Nahh, that assumption is not the typical scenario for a couple seeking a second female. Granted, there are pimps who's livlihood drives a need for them to instruct one or more of their "girls" to function as a recruiter to keep their workforce staffed. The latter would more so be the exception rather than the rule.
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