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Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 9:04:08 AM   
littlesubjess


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Everytime someone puts on a humiliation post, it always ends up with people suggesting things in public that could affect vanilla public, then someone argues that this is not acceptable blah blah blah ... so here is a completely DIFFERENT thread ...to avoid all that c**p.

So ... Humiliation Ideas ... that are for use when indoors, away from the public eye, children, vanillas, pizza delivery men (yawn), in the *comfort* (lol) of your own home, with no one around but your Dom/me ... nothing that incorporates public outdoors or ANYONE else lol ...

Any ideas anyone ? and also, ideas for humiliating oneself, perhaps for online purposes when away from Owners ? Self - humiliation ...

jess xxx


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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 9:06:52 AM   
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Waiting to take notes - this sounds like a fun thread!  Educational, too.

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 9:08:33 AM   
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Couldnt agree more becca  ... sit back and wait lol ...

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 9:22:39 AM   
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Being 'examined' or 'exposing' myself for him TO examine.  Ugg!!!
 
ESPECIALLY turning around, bending over and spreading!  OMG
 
ORRRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...  being told to use a litter box.  <cringe>
 
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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 11:39:18 AM   
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Substitute a bed pan for the litter box.

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 11:50:32 AM   
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I'm wondering to what extent it can be humiliating, exactly, when it's in front of someone you love and who loves you..? (or you've agreed to play with, or whatever is the personal dynamic).... and how much 'the public' or 'other parties' have to be involved in order for it to BE humiliating..?

I mean... where a loving or close in some way relationship is involved... is ANYTHING really all that humiliating..? And if so... why..? Isn't there a very small hump you get over and nothing is really that humiliating..?  Just as an example... old age and someone having to change your diapers... are you prepared to be 'humiliated' by that... or just grateful that someone cares enough to change them?

Just some random thoughts.

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 11:59:43 AM   
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Go into a porn shop and buy the biggest dildo in the place - better yet, two or three of them - go straight to the bathroom after purchasing - don't come out till your knees are weak.

Variations: go into Wal-Mart, etc., dressed conservatively - buy several boxes of condoms, lots of 'em, party packs.

Ditto, enemas by the gross, etc.


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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 11:59:53 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlesubjess

So ... Humiliation Ideas ... that are for use when indoors, away from the public eye, children, vanillas, pizza delivery men (yawn), in the *comfort* (lol) of your own home, with no one around but your Dom/me ... nothing that incorporates public outdoors or ANYONE else lol ...

Any ideas anyone ? and also, ideas for humiliating oneself, perhaps for online purposes when away from Owners ? Self - humiliation ...


Playing with piss, or drinking piss, your own, or your Dom's.

Dan

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 12:12:53 PM   
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quote:

Go into a porn shop and buy the biggest dildo in the place - better yet, two or three of them - go straight to the bathroom after purchasing - don't come out till your knees are weak.

Variations: go into Wal-Mart, etc., dressed conservatively - buy several boxes of condoms, lots of 'em, party packs.

Ditto, enemas by the gross, etc.


ROTFLMAO!!!! 

When I worked X-Ray at a hospital, I had a guy come in and ask me (in front of everyone) where he could purchase an enema tube with a balloon on the end that would prevent the fluid from escaping for a long period of time.   We were all so shocked...and he just stood there waiting for his answer, lol. 

Nowadays I wonder who sent him in to do that!

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 12:18:36 PM   
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Oops, violated the conditions. Not that I'm into this sort of thing, mind you, but what harm could there be to the public in buying a sheer nightie, 4 boxes of condoms and a gallon of Crisco?

I do have to admit there is something very fetching about a woman blushing.

I would, however, be more likely to simply whisper interesting suggestions into her ear in public, which is sort of a little of both, public and private.

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 1:18:25 PM   
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UMMM i always find the thought of being written on with permanent marker to be pretty humiliating, something like "slut" or "toilet" would be appriopriate in a place no one else should see!

UMMM eating out of a bowl on the floor, pretty obvious one, but what about being forced to orgasm in front of Him/Her and when you cum you have to meow or woof like a dog??

Anyway i am sure others can come up with much better suggestions!

Hugs

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 1:18:39 PM   
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If there is no 'harm' to the public... if another person is not going to think anything... then surely... it's all in the sub's mind..? And if the sub doesn't feel at all phased by what's happening... then what is the point..?

Are there any 'abolutes'... that don't involve societal mores..? And if they involve societal mores... then isn't it wrong to involve 'the public'?

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 1:44:37 PM   
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I like the fact that you want some humiliation ideas that do not involve the public KNOWING about it.
 
Here are some things I have done:
 
Called a "real man" while the slave was orally servicing me.
If the real man knows about the slave, I make the slave beg him to fuck me.
Tell the real man "he is just a slave"..
 
Take the slave's money from him and refuse to let him buy anything. 
 
Keep a used condom in the fridge (tied up) and make him use it as a ball gag while he pedicures my feet.
 
Order for him in a restaraunt. 
 
Have him announce at a munch that he is not my boyfriend, he is my slave.
 
Make him wear pink panties with a butt plug, while in public.
 
Make him beg me to have pleasure, in specific ways that do not involve him.  I like to give him specific sentences, and make him beg.  Making him beg for things he finds unpleasant is very humiliating for him, as well as totally exciting for us both.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 2:42:43 PM   
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Well, lets see... personally I like (if it's a non-chaste sub) of a sub being made to video tape himself jacking off on his meal and then eating it, and providing me the video tape upon my return.

Also enjoy having a sub who cannot be ever-present, or cannot be kept chaste for whatever reason made to put his jizz in an ice-cube tray, and frozen, then I enjoy making him use those to chill his own drinks.  and I also like using them to ice down a dick and balls as a form of punishment, and I like seeing tapes of them melting them on various body parts, and inanimate objects and having them lick it off, all while looking at the camera and telling me that they are doing this for me, and how embarassing it is, etc.  if I doubt their sincerity I will simply invite over some of my friends who are not (but can act) vanilla, to do a real life group humiliation session.

If it's my sub who's out of town, I like having them call the front desk of their hotel and tell them that they need to know where to buy an enema locally, and then I like to have them ask where a local laundromat is because their 'wife' sent the laundry with them, after all it's their job. *grin*

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 2:43:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElektraUkM

I'm wondering to what extent it can be humiliating, exactly, when it's in front of someone you love and who loves you..? (or you've agreed to play with, or whatever is the personal dynamic).... and how much 'the public' or 'other parties' have to be involved in order for it to BE humiliating..?

I mean... where a loving or close in some way relationship is involved... is ANYTHING really all that humiliating..? And if so... why..? Isn't there a very small hump you get over and nothing is really that humiliating..?  Just as an example... old age and someone having to change your diapers... are you prepared to be 'humiliated' by that... or just grateful that someone cares enough to change them?

Just some random thoughts.

When it is something that goes against your internal workings/teachings/acceptable things to do....then yes, one can be humiliated.  Your mind ends up struggling not to combat those things which you naturally view as embarrassing or "beneath you."  What happens, however, as with many things, is that once you have experienced something scary or embarrassing a few times, it no longer has that effect, so you move on to things that might be deemed as more severe.  Things you once felt unfathomable, are now on your "Sure, I can do that" list.

Here are a few items which some may find humiliating, which do not involve anyone non-consensually:

Peeing in a bucket
Golden showers or scat
Stay at a hotel and invite a bellman or janitor to come in and be entertained
Leash training
Eat from the floor
Eat only his (her) scraps
Be his table, or ottoman
Be his doormat, literally, as he wipes his feet on you
Lick the floor clean before he walks on it
Sleep on the floor rather than in bed with him
Try to seduce something that can not be seduced
If he has dogs, sleep in the dogs bed
Dance for him seductively, sleazily, etc.
Body inspections
Refer to yourself in a degrading manner (pig, cow, etc.)
There are all sorts of things/insults he can say that might humiliate you
Snort, grunt, bark, moo

All of these things are in the context of the relationship. They are not damaging if all parties in the relationship are secure and confident in the dynamic, and if the submissive/slave knows that she (he) is valued by her Dominant/Master.  Still, such activities/references may cause her (him) to become shocked or surprised, and even pained.  Humiliation is a mix of emotions - pain, confusion, fear, excitement, surprise, arousal, etc.   The submissive/slave may feel like an invisible barrier was penetrated, and it may be extremely uncomfortable, and even upsetting.  However, she/he may find herself craving it again, or even craving more...daring her/himself to handle it again.  It is an excitement that not everyone enjoys or relates to, but this has been my experience with humiliation.

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 2:47:14 PM   
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If it's my sub who's out of town, I like having them call the front desk of their hotel and tell them that they need to know where to buy an enema locally,

This reminded me of one time I was in his town and had forgotten to pack enemas so I went to a local store.  I could not, for the life of me, find them on the shelves, so I had to ask a girl who worked there.  She did not know what an enema was, and asked me to describe it to her. 

Best I could come up with was, "It's like a douche, but for your back side."  Her upper lip actually curled, as her eyes widened.

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 2:47:34 PM   
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And by the way, I save the tapes for later, which they know, so at any time, in company or down the road, I could show their tapes to anyone I wanted.... *grin*

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/18/2006 4:00:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ElektraUkM
I mean... where a loving or close in some way relationship is involved... is ANYTHING really all that humiliating..? And if so... why..?

Yes, because humiliation is an inner sense of being humbled towards another.

quote:

Isn't there a very small hump you get over and nothing is really that humiliating..? 

Umm let's just say it's very difficult for people to humiliate me, which makes it very intense and special when it does happen.  Part of why I love it.

Part of why a thread like this is frustrating for me is because no one's idea of humiliation is the same and very LITTLE changes can make something humiliating into something damaging, or into something boring.

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/19/2006 1:59:14 AM   
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okay .... thanks to all for their ideas ....

whilst i do understand that everyones ideas of humiliation are different, and that different people cope with different ideas in different ways depending on the dynamics of their relationship, their frame of mind etc, I was just asking for a general list of ideas, just to see if anyone else could come up with something that Mistress or I have not thought of ...

Deminstress had lots of good ideas ... the only thing is, hardly any are suitable for fem subs ... lol .... I highly doubt Master wanting to spunk on his food and eat it afterwards heehee ... .... I'll ask him, bet he says no lol ...

jess xxx

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RE: Different Humiliation Post ... - 9/19/2006 4:43:19 AM   
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Along with the ones already posted, Ownedgirlie's are great by the way, here are just a few things I've enjoyed with male and female subs:

I love sharpie markers... writing "slut", "whore", "fuck me here", "slutty hole", etc on to his/her shaven body, where no one else will see it,  kind of like body grafitti ...is exquisite, but the best part... is not allowing them to try to wash off what they can when they leave, and being made to wear white granny panties or white tighties home, and the sharpie bleeds onto the white cloth.  Now they have a little memento.  I've also restrained them, naked, blindfoled and written " Use Me I'm a Slut" in big letters and had them stand next to the front door as a hat or coat rack... and told them to wait there til the plumber, cable repairman comes for his pre scheduled appt, and then pretended or had a "friend" come to the door, knock, open the door and act if they're coming in.

Using cheap deep red lipstick to draw lips around their asshole, when it starts to wear off, make them re apply.

Spitting or smearing cum on their face, not allowing them to wipe it off.

Placing a mirror where they can watch their face, while getting an enema, reminding them why they need an enema.

Audio record them reading from a script, that you've written beforehand, informing their mother, boss, etc., that not only are they a horny naughty little submissive, they just can't control themselves either, that's why their masturbating during the phone call.

Playing games, using the sub as the entertainment... such as;

Shooting gallery -  subbie is naked, shuffling side to side either on his/her knees or feet .. while you "shoot" at them with a toy foam nerf  or rubber tipped dart gun or a water gun (one of those water blasters work great  !!)  Never aiming for the face.  Dom/me gets points for hitting the "target" and subbie gets punished if You don't.    And, just like at the carnival, you have to pay for so many "tries", I love using a dixie cup suspended from either the subs cock/balls or nipples ( depending on who you're playing with) and that's where I deposit the tokens for continued game play.   Bonus round is when the subbie faces away from you and you try to hit the "hole" to get extra points.

Confessionals - Have the subbie write out their "sins" or "infractions" for the week, in detail, have them kneel down, naked to confess reading it out loud, while you audio/video record it, over a spanking bench or the chair, etc.   Ask them questions/ridicule each confession and issue punishments accordingly.   ( you have to know you're subbie for this one).

and My personal favorite.. is the treasure hunt parlour game.  Subbie is naked, on all fours, blindfolded, collared and leashed.  Lay a multitude of "toys" (i.e.; dildos, clothes pins, sharpie markers, butt plugs, paddles, flogger, etc) out on the floor through out the house/area.  Guiding the subbie with a riding crop {you're getting closer, go left).  Have the subbie put their nose to the floor and sniff out the toys.  Each time they find one, they have to pick the treasure up with their mouth, sit up into a squat and wait for you to take the "treasure", then beg you to use it on them. Depending on the toy, I use it on them right then, or layer the treasures on them, or opt to use it on them later.   If they find several clothes pins first, they continue the game with the clothes pins on their nipples/cock/balls, etc.  If they find the butt plug next, it gets inserted and the game goes on, etc. 



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