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Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 12:34:11 AM   
Kahri


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Status: offline 		I think the typical expectation is that men who cross dress are either vanilla in the rest of their sex life or they are submissives into forced femininization.  At least that's what I encounter most often.

But are there any doms out there who like to cross dress as part of their domination?  If so, how do you incorporate this into your scene or lifestyle?
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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 4:12:01 AM   
heartfeltsub


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Status: offline 		i know one, but he classifies himself as a switch. 

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 4:16:33 AM   
sissifytoserve


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Status: offline 		Crossdressers come in all different BDSM flavors.

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 6:41:53 AM   
Phoenixandnika


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Status: offline 		I have known many who cross dress, both vanilla, dom/me, and submissive. Cross dressing truly has nothing to do with weather they are submissive or dominant in my opinion.

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 6:51:16 AM   
MLskajira


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Status: offline 		this girl's Master is a crossdresser.
what He is wearing has nothing to do with O/our position with each other.
He is "always" Master, even in panties.
this girl is "always" slave, even in nothing.


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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 9:15:25 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		We have a very good friend who as a male is a switch, as a female is Dominant.  Basically, anything that you can think up has happened and does happen with someone in this lifestyle.

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 12:42:35 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		yeah i agree

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 3:15:16 PM   
DreamyLadySnow


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Status: offline 		A friend of mine, who is very dominant, does cross dress. His dressed side is submissive, but his male side is dominant. He also has a slave. It works for them.


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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 3:22:42 PM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I've known a dominant male who cross dressed.  He was very good, not a switch and loved how he didn't fit the "norm". 

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 3:32:40 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		My current sub is an ex Master and he recently discovered that he likes to cross dress. It gives him a sexual thrill and adds to his submissive feelings he says. I think as along as a person enjoys it that its harmless.

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 3:50:49 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I know male and female Dominants who enjoy crossdressing. What we do doesn't necessarily define who we are.

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 3:59:10 PM   
MsKatHouston


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quote:

What we do doesn't necessarily define who we are


AMEN...and that can be applied to just about any of the "am I [insert role here] if I like [insert activity]" questions being bandied about. 

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 4:04:47 PM   
onceburned


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Status: offline 		A quick check of the Collarme profiles show that there are 121 trans dominants who have visited Collarme in the past month.  Now granted, some of these are transsexuals  or non-CD transgenders, but casually checking those profiles reveals  that a significant number of them are cross-dressers. I hope some of them see your question and speak up.

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 4:34:35 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		Funny this topic came up.  I was just watching Eddie Izzard this afternoon and thinking he would be a fun Dom:)

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 4:38:17 PM   
WhipTheHip


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Status: offline 		Sounds like a Jerry Springer show:  "Doms who cross-dress."

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/17/2006 6:19:30 PM   
mellian


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Status: offline 		Reminds me of this fictional story of how a Football Quarterback and Cheerleader team captain get this loner of a pitsqueak home and get to dress like a Dominatrix so he can dominate them. Quite a role reversal. :p

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/18/2006 1:32:47 AM   
darkinshadows


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Funny this topic came up.  I was just watching Eddie Izzard this afternoon and thinking he would be a fun Dom:)

Just SWOONS.... and nods - ALOT.
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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/18/2006 1:44:22 AM   
Kahri


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Status: offline 		I agree that there's no harm in it and that cross-dressing (or anything else a person may like) doesn't define who they are.  But I was hoping that someone who enjoyed doing it would stop by and talk about why they like and the ways they use it in their activity.  I'm sure there are people out there doing it - I'd like to hear from some of them.

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/18/2006 4:43:53 AM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		I only know one, and I have to say I found it remarkably unusual the first time I heard about it; until then I thought it was purely a sub thing, being forced to wear women's clothes (though I'm yet to find any male who needs much forcing in that department!)

He takes on the persona of an older aunt figure to his sub wife, and they do fairly normal domestic things, such as one might do with one's aunt, but with obvious variations compared to normal life. Fairly unremarkable all in all compared to a lot of stuff, but psychologically fascinating!

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RE: Doms who cross-dress - 9/18/2006 5:05:13 AM   
Mistresscarmen1


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Status: offline 		I am Mistress Carmen Dominta ( a T -girl Dominatrix) and many many male subs want a session of submitting to a dominating female persona and having their "bi-curious" or "forced feminization" fantasies become realities. A gg domme girlfriend of mine says about "forced feminization" the only thing forced about it is to "FORCE" the subs OUT of the female clothes/wig/makeup etc.Even a few women subs like to session with me as I am "girl with something extra in her panties" SO as the saying goes "MY kink is not your kink but YOUR kink is fine with me."

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