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Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 2:43:36 AM   
illuminati1


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Status: offline 		Ok, o i am looking to having my VERY FIRST scene EVER with a Dom. Now i have a few concers but most of them are because it will be my first scene. Now, all my concerns have been discussed with the Dom. Now, for my own personal reasons and to make me feel better about it W/we have decided that doing my first scene in a dungeon with other people would be better to ease my tension and what not about having my forst scene. What i would like to know is if A/anyone knows of any dungeon's or public places to have a scene near the Kansas City Topeka area....

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 2:59:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry, being in Australia I can't help you with a specific location but generally, I think this is a good idea. you will have other people around to make sure you are OK. I would hope that the Dom has agreed that He will let the Owners of the Dungeon/Dungeon Monitors know that this is your first ever scene (not just with Him) so that they will be aware and keep a discreet eye on you. That's what I have done with people in the same situation at a party at Our Dungeon. I also hope you have a safe call arranged and have discussed your limits and safewords etc too.
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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 4:54:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		How long have you known this dominant, since a little more than 24 hours ago you started a thread complaining that you were owned by someone online and were bothered that they showed you no attention? 

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 5:59:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		I read that thread by her as well ... interesting.  Care to comment illuminati?

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 7:11:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hmmm, interesting that people can't seem to treat others like grown adults on a adult sex site. Quite frankly, if this girl wants to have a scene with somebody she just met or has known for years, it's none of anyone elses business. She doen't need to explain herself. She's a god-damn adult, fer Christs sake.
 
To the OP: here's a link that might help. Not the best but it's a start.
 
http://www.darkheart.com/usalist.html#Kansas

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 7:22:53 AM   
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Here is a link for you, hope this helps finding a dungeon...no need to explain to anyone about what you want to do or with whom, and as you have already negotiated with the top, You have done what should be done, good luck and enjoy....
                                                                         MasterLon

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 7:29:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

Hmmm, interesting that people can't seem to treat others like grown adults on a adult sex site. Quite frankly, if this girl wants to have a scene with somebody she just met or has known for years, it's none of anyone elses business. She doen't need to explain herself. She's a god-damn adult, fer Christs sake.
 
To the OP: here's a link that might help. Not the best but it's a start.
 
http://www.darkheart.com/usalist.html#Kansas


well it might be that these people have been quick enough to note some inconsistency in the OP's posts in general and not just consider this thread in isolation due to those inconsistencies....  

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 7:30:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		To the Sir's that replied kindly, i thank You Both. For the T/two that replied with the effect of trying to bash me. i was merely trying to find out more about my area and the lifestyle. i was asking about it becuase i am curious and more then anything because i was thinking about -my- safety when i do decide to have my first scene. i was merely trrying to gather information about my area. and i think You BOth Sir's for the help very very much appreciated. -smiles-

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 7:35:25 AM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		It's funny how a person takes your own words and asks you about it... and you turn it into people trying to bash you...

truth is girl... you bash yourself with your words.... and being a young pretty girl you just might beable to lead  a few guys around by the cock.  However, some are not so leadable.

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 7:52:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
well it might be that these people have been quick enough to note some inconsistency in the OP's posts in general and not just consider this thread in isolation due to those inconsistencies....  
And maybe they're just not quick enough to note that things happen behind the scenes (on the other side,as they say) without their knowledge or need of their approval. <gasp> Imagine that, people actually living lives their the way they want without having to have the approval of annomious people on a message board!!  Whats the world coming to!?!

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 7:54:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
you just might beable to lead  a few guys around by the cock.  However, some are not so leadable.
Yeah, like the guy that has to jump into a thread to defend his "girl" when she gets stiffled for something she states. Some are just so leadable by their cock, I guess.

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 7:56:17 AM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
well it might be that these people have been quick enough to note some inconsistency in the OP's posts in general and not just consider this thread in isolation due to those inconsistencies....  
And maybe they're just not quick enough to note that things happen behind the scenes (on the other side,as they say) without their knowledge or need of their approval. <gasp> Imagine that, people actually living lives their the way they want without having to have the approval of annomious people on a message board!!  Whats the world coming to!?!


yeah .. i guess for some that is a good excuse to out right lie. ..   especially when they are thinking about her hand around their cock

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 7:58:52 AM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
you just might beable to lead  a few guys around by the cock.  However, some are not so leadable.
Yeah, like the guy that has to jump into a thread to defend his "girl" when she gets stiffled for something she states. Some are just so leadable by their cock, I guess.


your a fool.. as usual

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 8:01:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm going to go against my better judgement here and say the following.. it's funny how one simple question can turn into the most complicated of things. Bur yes, i thank the Two that gave me the web address.

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 8:02:55 AM   
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your a fool.. as usual
And as usual, when your debate gets slapped in the face and your pride is hurt, you resort to name calling and innuendos. LOL, poor lil Knight. I'd pat you on your head and send you on your way but somepeople just aren't worth the kind jestures.

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 8:03:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		Personally I was hoping this meant that you were making a forray away fromt the computer screen and finding a suitable dominant in the real world. Life is too short to wait on an IM...smiles... good luck to you!

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 8:07:11 AM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
your a fool.. as usual
And as usual, when your debate gets slapped in the face and your pride is hurt, you resort to name calling and innuendos. LOL, poor lil Knight. I'd pat you on your head and send you on your way but somepeople just aren't worth the kind jestures.


of course that is your judgement... and your judgement as never been of any value.  so we can put it in the trash with the rest of the crap

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 8:08:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: illuminati1

I'm going to go against my better judgement here and say the following.. it's funny how one simple question can turn into the most complicated of things. Bur yes, i thank the Two that gave me the web address.


it's actually rather simple...

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 8:10:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Aside from the posturing testoserone........

 I am glad to see someone moving from the imaginary world of the net into a real physical experience and wanting to do so SAFELY.

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RE: Dungeon's. - 9/16/2006 8:13:50 AM   
SweetSarijane


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Status: offline 		Something you might want to take into consideration in deciding to go to a dungeon is age. Your profile says you are 19. Some have a rule of 21 and up only. While I know people in Topeka and am involved in the KC scene, I don't know of any dungeons in either area. I attend play parties and get togethers myself. Good luck and take your time experiencing and learning.

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