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Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 11:04:53 AM

michaelGA2

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this would probably get more responses if it had come from someone else, since most of the forums i start tend to die out rather quickly, but here goes:

there's alot of Father/daughter type roll play going on and, in light of the recent Mother/daughter forum, i thought i would find out if this is something that may be plausible in the lifestyle and whether or not anyone has ever heard of it, been a part of it or have any interest in it whatsoever?

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 11:12:02 AM

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I see this in profiles all the time. There are AB's who want to find their Mommy. Or others who do not identify as an AB, but they are still searching for their Mommy Domme.
It is an interesting question. I am not sure how many Ladies are interested in the Mommy Dommy scenario. From what I see on message boards and groups, those that participate mostly are not into it. However, I don't know how realistically representative this is of Domina's as a whole.
I am not personally interested in being called Mommy, or catering, even in scenes, to a baby boy or a little one. Been there, done that.
It is not My thing, but I know it is sought, and I am sure it is found.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 11:14:13 AM

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ok Im beeing devils advocate here :) but you god daddy/daughter mommy/daughter and even mommy/son ok i see something missing here what about daddy/son???

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 11:16:05 AM

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quote:

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ok Im beeing devils advocate here :) but you god daddy/daughter mommy/daughter and even mommy/son ok i see something missing here what about daddy/son???

Not to hijack the thread, but you see quite a bit of that in the gay leather community. Not too many people in these forums are of that bent. (Myself included.)

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 11:19:53 AM

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Umm Sir what do you mean by "that bent" Sorry Sir if Im reading it wrong but it sounds like your saying that Daddy/son is worse then any other things that go on here.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 11:28:31 AM

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What I meant is that you don't see as many gay men in these forums as other sexual orientations. That's all.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 11:33:18 AM

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Ok Sir thank you for clearing that up for me, though I wouldnt know how many there really are because they were never anything I searched for.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 11:33:26 AM

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personally, i was never very close to either of my parents, so, even though i started this thread, i'm not really sure what my take is on it. just thought i would cover yet another aspect of this roll play.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 11:52:17 AM

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I was pretty close to my parents, so I have a hard time "getting" this kind of play. I don't really understand the dynamics or the interest. I just fundamentally don't understand why someone would want to call their Mistress "Mommy" or be treated in that way at all. Or "Daddy."

That isn't a judgement on those who like it, more a comment on my own limitations of imagination.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 12:00:33 PM

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it was once explained to me that, those people that are interested in this bit of roll play never really had a good parental relationship and they seek to recapture what they missed out on.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 12:05:46 PM

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I have a fairly new sub who is interested in a domestic disciplinarian style relationship including some shades of mother/son roleplay. I personally have never ascribed to this particular role play, but I am open to exploring it if this particular sub works out for serious consideration. I am not sure what the driving force is for him, other than perhaps having a strict/stern mother who molded his life, and then after he was left to his own devices fouind it was much easier having a woman at the wheel.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 12:08:14 PM

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someone in a chat room once said that he loved the AB thing...because of the regular breast feeding...LOL

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 12:33:28 PM

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I call my dom dadda because it fufills me. And is emotionally satisfying. It also fits into my age mind set of very regressed needing guidance and cause plain and simply I like to.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 1:02:16 PM

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I know, or have met, a few Mommies. One was a former nun. That was kinda interesting.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 1:16:13 PM

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Ronald Reagan called Nancy "Mommy", so it does exist!

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 1:33:37 PM

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Slight detour in the thread...the comment on Daddy/son talking about gay men brought to mind a lesbian dominant I know and her sub. She is called Daddy by her sub and they've been together over 10 years now.

Back on topic. I've not heard very much on Mother/son dynamics, but I did talk awhile back with a man who was really into the Mother/son dynamic. It felt right and satisfying to him.

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 2:00:12 PM

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Some of Us wish to engage in Mommy roles to provide and receive nurturing, bonding, caretaking, domestic needs, unconditional love, family and forever unbroken circles of trust which we may or may not have received in our past. We are trying to create a new Leather Family because we live this lifestyle. Just as being Dominant is a natural personality trait for some of us, so is being maternal. Some are trying to capture something never had, some are trying to recapture an overly involved (is there such a thing?) parental situation that they now feel unable to de-stress without. I am/have been involved in situations where their parent is simply dead and they miss Her. Some exploit these scenarios because they wish to remain irresponsible and extort, use people for material things, security and committments they themselves are unable or unwilling to offer. That would be a SugarMommy or a SugarDaddy. In the latter case, the sugar is never sweet enough. Take away the Sugar and they usually disappear (no material gain, no motive for a relationship). Either way, its never seemed to be about age or age difference in my observation. More about integrity (or lack thereof). Where in the true bonded relationship you are put on a pedestal in the parental role, looked up to, honored and respected. In the exploited situation you are used, dehumanized as any object of utility, opportunity, financial gain and selfish motivations. It can be an ugly thing or a beautiful thing. Its the intent.

Breastfeeding is the best part tho... find a boy who loves, takes care of and respects his own Mother and it works out great. Send the confused back where they came from with no titty, no spanking, a baggie of Cheerios some crayons and a JuiceBox to go for some parenting or therapy ;o)

There are some who are always Daddy's to men but still babies for Me. With gay/bi Tops, especially very Dom tops... especially very Dom tops with money are sometimes called "Daddies". But I am still their Mommy. They go someplace different in their relationship with a Woman they respect. Boys will be boys. That's just My experience.... I have a female sub who calls Me MaMa also, but you didn't ask about her. She is just precious and real :o)

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 2:10:49 PM

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I remember once, when I was about 19 or 20 (wayyyyyyyyyyyyy before I discovered kink), my boyfriend and I came around the corner in a house (perhaps his room-mate; I don't remember), to find his pal stretched out on the couch, head in his girl-friend's lap, pillow under shoulder in the classic breast-feeding hold...nursing. She was certainly holding him like a baby. I have no idea if she was actually lactating, but both sure seemed to be enjoying themselves...

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 2:39:48 PM

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sounds like fun to me

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RE: Mother/son D/s - 9/12/2006 2:43:05 PM

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Yeah, well...you’re incorrigible!

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