LadyWhisper
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I am known here as Lady Whisper, I joined this group in hopes to find some sincere people, that are in my lifestyle as well. I must say I lived in the BDSM world most of my life, from childhood I was of course the submissive, as well as some others here, that part of the life was uncontrollable accepted and moved on by that, but now as the adult, I am the dominant one. I am in charge of my life, as well as others that wish to be collared by me. I have grown to know the diffrence between abuse and BDSM. Some I am sure experinced abuse growing up, I know I have, but I learned by this, and no way do I use such for my lifestlye now. I do know the diffrence. In which I have found some do not. I have found some want to continue their abuse from childhood into adult hood, and my opinion is that this lifestyle is NOT about abuse, but love all the way. I guess you learn this as time goes by. I have grown to love the lifestyle and I live such in a everyday, twenty-four hours situation. I have never felt so free, and so cared for until I reached my understanding of BDSM. Excuse me from rambling, I just found that some of the notes I been recieving from Collarme have been quite disturbing in that nature, I wish to find some great friends, and perhaps even some that are more then friends that do understand the true meaning of this lifestlye. Thank you for your time, Lady Whisper
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