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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 5:56:49 AM   
TVMistressHelen


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Status: offline 		Maybe for such people as the OP talks about the Hide Member function could be expanded beyond its current capacity.

I once tried hiding all those members in my local list whose requirements I did not fit but it seems that there's a limit on how many you can hide.

I suspect that if I had hid all such members then there'd be no-one left but at least I'd see when someone compatible came up. So how about it, admin, give us more room to hide folks?

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 6:04:29 AM   
twicehappy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

And then you tell them to go shit in their hat.


Lol, this could cause a problem; what if they are into that?

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 6:09:47 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		And wear said hat.

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 6:18:59 AM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		LOL! Yes, it takes all types.
Hopefully I won't get anyone who's into it and wants to be "friends" with me!

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 6:27:56 AM   
happypervert


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Status: offline 		I give those doms a lot of credit -- at least they're reading the profile and getting the message.  Otherwise they would be writing to claim you as their own slave, ask for phone sex or make other clueless advances.

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 6:28:09 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Although said hat might take the place of a full toilet slave!

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 6:29:57 AM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		happypervert: You are so right. Next they'll maybe be doing things, like eating food with utensils, and answering people in complete sentences. It's up, up, up from here on out.

- Susan

< Message edited by SusanofO -- 8/28/2006 6:37:16 AM >

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 6:32:00 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		You've got a point. 

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 6:45:17 AM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		i read a lot about people getting rude messages in the threads here. i have to say i have never gotten a rude message sent to me. In fact just the opposite, i have had wonderful messages of encouragement sent, welcoming me, remarking on my profile and sometimes my responses to the threads. It's been a very positive experience so far.

If  people want or need to be rude - just delete them, block them and go on your merry way :-)

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 6:46:26 AM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Yes, just my luck! I'll have a toilet slave stalker!
"But Officer, I know he was looking in my window, I could SMELL him and he left a chapaeu with his calling card in it!"

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 7:31:33 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:


Ok, where is LA?

LOL sleeping as a good girl does when she's been tucked in.

We've actually been pretty lucky on this summer with fewer "Someone said something stupid to me and they suck" posts. 

This was a good one though:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_161082/mpage_1/key_owned/tm.htm#161082
Why is it




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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 8:00:23 AM   
masochistecstacy


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Status: offline 		Heh. I was pretty tired when I got the message, so instead of sending the guy a witty, sarcastic letter back like i usually do, i just basically told him to bugger off and get over himself. But I liked the example letter. And i guess that's also a point. At least they read, and weren't one of the ones sending the other idiotic messages i tend to get. Lol.

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 8:35:04 AM   
pup75


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Status: offline 		I think we male subs are luckier than the ladies on this subject -- we get very few solicitation messages at all, and letters like this are almost unheard of. I know zumala, on the other hand, has gotten loads of them, including ones telling her we (as a couple) should leave collarme if we're not looking for sex with others.

What can you say? It's the internet. There are those who bounce onto the site and start sending out messages like this is a porn palace, and the rest of us are operators awaiting their request for free pics.

Perhaps the simplest solution (aside from ignoring them) would be a searchable Not Looking checkbox added to profiles that would allow lookers to easily filter out already-taken community members.

pup75

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 10:55:05 AM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: masochistecstacy

Okay, so i log into collarme to check messages. i've gotten some strange messages before, from trolls, idiots, stupid people, and people who don't read my profile. i've gotten messages from people asking the strangest and most outlandish things. i figured nothing would suprise me anymore. That was, until i saw a single message sitting in my inbox. Want to know what it said?

"Then get off this site."

*imitates Michelle from Full House* How rude! So just because i'm collared, i'm not allowed on the site? Apparently you're not allowed to stay on the site to make friends. *shakes head* Anyone else ever had random troll messages like that? Or is that a majority feeling? Personally, i don't get it.


Mine was ...... sense you're not actively seeking.... get off this site..... I laughed... and went about my business...LOL


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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 11:14:13 AM   
Aine


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Status: offline 		Hell, I'm not even collared.  I just ain't a free whore like so many people think that we females are on here.

Indeed there are many who seem to think that. I've gotten a few in the past after their obvious lack of attention to my profile and ask me to "play".  I ask them right back if they know how to read.

Then I get the "Then get your stinking,stupid profile off the site, dumb bitch!"

*grins*  Then comes the inevitable block so I can't respond to their "You're a poopyhead" remarks.


< Message edited by Aine -- 8/28/2006 11:15:35 AM >

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 12:35:25 PM   
liljoy


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Status: offline 		lmbo

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 12:50:04 PM   
ToServeIsToLive


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Joined: 11/16/2005
Status: offline 		I think pup hinted at the best way to fix the situation.  Get a sex change so you can list male and the random rudeness will drop down to about once every year or two.  Of course, you also get almost no nonrude messages either, which is kind of boring : (

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 1:33:57 PM   
Sunshine119


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Status: offline 		LOL....I had one Dom write me a very nice letter telling me all the wonderful things about him and how we would make a perfect pair.  Since it was a well-thought out letter, I in turn wrote him back a very nice letter, referring him to my profile and stating that it said clearly that I have been involved with someone (not collared) for two years now and am not looking.

He wrote me back a nasty, vicious letter telling me to get off the list if I wasn't looking and because I'm not collared after 2 years, I'm not real anyway.  I could have just blocked the bastard, but I was feeling kind that day (??) and wrote him back that, if he felt my profile was unclear, perhaps he could suggest ways that I could improve it so that there would be no doubt that I was involved.  However, since my Dom and I view collars as strongly as wedding vows,  I'm in no hurry to commit myself forever to anyone.

Funny thing is that he wrote me back, apologizing for his actions and told me that he didn't expect me to be so polite, but, now that he read my profile, he understood that I am with someone and wished me luck.  Because he was so nice following his little hissy fit, I wrote to some of my fellow submissives here and suggested they might want to give him a look. 

Others, have been far more rude.....they just get blocked!

Sunshine


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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 1:39:06 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		To the OP
I get things like that often, the "why are you still here if youve already collared someone and dont want to increase your stable" type stuff.
Also, a lot of "If your stil on, you must be looking for something"  Yeah, conversation.
Go figure.
The boy gets almost nothing, so I think it tends to be mainly a female thing.
Hnoestly, my opinion is, if you dont think I should be here... just dont talk to me.  Becasue, believe it or not.. just because YOU tell me to leave... doesnt mean I am going anywhere. Sorry

DV

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RE: So... not allowed on the site unless you're uncolla... - 8/28/2006 1:40:54 PM   
MmakeMme


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quote:

ORIGINAL: abytchgoddess4u

I get it...jealousy often turns people into big, fat, ignorant poopyheads.

Particularly Doms...



~ chuckle ~

I've had a few less-than-welcoming messages, but for the most part, everyone has been quite polite and supportive including Doms. I generally ignore the more ignorant ones, sending a message to say that perhaps our personalities clash and that it's probably best we do not stay in contact.

Life's too short. Don't let it rip yer tit off. Move on and wish 'em well. (They'll need it.)

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