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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 4:16:05 PM   
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Thinking a real dilemma would be no bondage......Tempting

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 4:26:38 PM   
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Here's a simple one a friend told me about ...

Submissive on his knees nude.  Lady in a chair before him.  Nipple clamps are placed on submissive's nipples and attached to chain that she holds in her hand.  Lady puts her stilleto (sp?) clad feet on his chest, pressing her heels into his chest.  If he moves back, the clamps pull on the nipples.  If he moves forward to relieve his nipples, he feels the discomfort of the heels.  A nice side benefit is that as she becomes aroused from this, he's close enough to smell it ... yum!!!

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 4:44:18 PM   
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Tying your sub spreadeagle to the bed and gagged.
You tie a powerfull wand vibrator tightly to her pussy and turn it on and order her not to cum or you'll leave it switched on after she cums.

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 4:47:48 PM   
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Clover clamps to the nipples, leading chain tied to an overhead point. Make sure she is up on her tiptoes. Hang a spreader bar and run some chain through the ends to attach wrist cuffs. Run another chain/rope from the end chains to the overhead point. Attach it to the nipple chain chain. attach some clover clamps to both labia and attach it to the floor or a weight(heavy for the slave).
Now proceed to flog both the front and back of said slave. Starts out innocent enough but gets more and more demanding.
Or if it is just a bedroom scene, just use some floss around the nipples and tie it to another small rope. Thread it through the hook in the ceiling. Tie it to the big toe when the legs are about six inches off the bed. Blindfold is optional.

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 4:50:14 PM   
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popeye, works better if she is out and it is a remote vibrator

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 5:01:34 PM   
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Could we get diagrams with some of these?  (smiling)

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 5:02:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Tying your sub spreadeagle to the bed and gagged.
You tie a powerfull wand vibrator tightly to her pussy and turn it on and order her not to cum or you'll leave it switched on after she cums.


oh man that is evil... also one of my bigest fantasies

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 5:03:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

My favorite example is as follows:  (I like to opt for "cute" at times)

I made my slave quite comfy on the bondage table. I tied his hands out to his sides. His legs were straight.  I tied a loop of nylon rope very tightly around his balls.  I then tied the ends, one  to each big toe that was flexed completely back and had him keep his feet in that position.   No biggy

The rope was taught to begin with.  As long as he kept his toes back toward his head... the rope would not be pulling- but after awhile, he gets tired.  When your feet relax a bit... Then the tugging increases. 

Then you embellish by  teasing him to MAKE him loose his concentration.

Much like water torture, it starts out innocent enough :)  



I think I saw Catwoman do that to Batman once. Or I fantasized about it. Or I dreamt about it and Catwoman was doing it to me. Or...

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 5:07:10 PM   
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I have a couple of things to add if I may...

First, a male sub is placed on his back, hands and feet bound, of course.  A rope is attached to his balls and run up through a one-way pully, with a weight attached to the other end of the rope.  The weight pulls on his balls, but if he raises his body to get releif the rope slips through the one way pully and won't pull back, thus adding some of his own weight to the pressure on his balls as well as causing him to constantly try to arch his back to gain releif.  If he again raises his body to gain releif it adds even more weight and more arch to his back.  On and on.

The second thing involves electrical play (like a tens unit) and  two subs, and works especially well if the two are lovers.  Electrodes are hooked up to both subs while they are bound and can't move.  Each is then given access to a button type switch.  The wiring is such that if niether sub presses a button they both receive shocks.  If BOTH subs press their butten they both get shocks.  But if only one sub presses their button the other one receives the shock.  The only way to NOT be shocked is to press the button that shocks the other sub and hope they don't press their button.  I've only read about this and have not experienced it, but the psychological as well as physical delima was very intriguing to me.

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 5:07:41 PM   
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1. Fastening the ankels of a sub to a device that folds inwards and upwards 
when she brings ankles and legs together. In other words, as she brings
her ankles together, a gradually tapered dildo is forced further into her. 
 
2. Demonstrating two seemingly different theorems in logic are really equivalent,
    in effect tying two lemmas together (Di-Lemma Bondage).  Oh, I'm so bad and
    so sadistic.
 
I woonder if the Dalai Lama ever engaged in dolly llama bondage.
 
Can anyone guess what Dolly Parton and Dolly Llama have in common?

 What did "e. e. commings" say just before he was about to orgasm? 
"i. i. cuming"
 
I could torture the good folks here all day with my humor.
 
 

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 5:24:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

have you seen the movie, SAW?

something on that order.

Ron


That would make you one sick twist Ron... Ha Ha

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 5:26:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressKaren51

Delimma bondage or predicament bondage is a situation where the sub is bound in a particular way that if he/she tries to move or makes the slightest change of position sometime unpleasant, pleasurable or possibly both will occur.


My Dom wants to tie my hair so that if I relax my elbows it pulls my hair, so I have to keep my elbows bent slightly. One time he had me on my back and pinned under him in such a way that if I tried to move my head it pulled my hair (my hair was pinned under me, and it made me just slighly uncomfortable).. is that what is meant by it?

That kinda stuff just makes me hot.

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 5:27:43 PM   
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I've been growing my hair for a year and a half now hoping to get it long enough for a ponytail.  The inspiration for that was a seminar on CBT at Desert Dominion put on by Lolita Wolfe, in which I had the honor of serving as the demo model.  One of the things she said, when I was actually able to pay attention to what she was saying, was what sort of fun predicament bondage scenes can be done with ponytails and testicles.

I'll leave the specifics to your imaginations, but hope to be able to actually experience this pretty soon.

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 5:37:35 PM   
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I love the HUMILIATION combined with the delimma bondage!  You ROCK, Ms.Karen! 



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ORIGINAL: MistressKaren51

In answer to the question, what is your favorite delimma bondage situation, there is one that I did several years ago that comes to mind quite often when the subject of humiliation is brought up.

A man (I won't call him a gentleman) called to set up an appointment for a session. He had been around the block once or twice and was quite experienced but said he had never been humiliated to the point of satisfaction and said that he doubted anyone could ever do it to him. Almost in the same breath, he said that though he doubted I could do what he was looking for, he would pay me a visit anyway. To be honest, he was quite insulting, mentioning that he had been in dungeons that had cost well over $100,000. I was good, kept my mouth shut but agreed to see him the following day. He was to arrive at 2pm sharp and have a very full to bursting bladder when he arrived. He wanted to know why and I told him it was none of his business so don't ask again.

He arrived on time, I did several bondage scenarios with him, all sort of basic, (boring to me) and used them as the lead up to the grand finale. Several times he mentioned he needed to relieve himself and I refused to allow it, but did relent when I could tell he was in abject misery. I handed him two clear plastic Solo picnic cups and told him to use them to relieve himself. When he was finished, I set them to one side and was ready to proceed with my very wicked predicament  bondage setup.

I had him lie down on a table that was situated between two posts, secured his hands so that he couldn't move them, and then had him raise his butt off the table with his knees bent and feet flat on the table. I shoved a big and very firm pillow under his butt to hold it up. I then took some Hefty plastic wrap and wrapped his head in position so he could turn it. Once this was done, I took a small rope and tied it between the posts (no slack in it) and positioned the table so the rope was directly over his head. I then tied a rope around his balls, ran it up overhead through a pulley, and then used some duct tape to tape the end of it to a 5 quart plastic ice cream bucket that I had hung on the rope with a double snap. A clothespin on the rope on either side of the snap kept the bucket in a perfect position over his face. Now, when I taped the end of the rope to the bucket, I tilted the bucket just a bit so it hung at an angle. Making sure everything was just as I wanted it, I went over, took both cups of his pee and poured them into the bucket. Looking him straight in the eyes, I smiled and removed the pillow out from under his butt. He said to me, you're not very nice. I laughed and said, I never said I was. lol So, there he was, in an impossible situation, his ass in the air, his balls tied to the bucket full of pee and if he should tire and try to put his butt back down on the table, he would then dump the pee right on his face. I sat down to watch after fixing a nice cup of tea and enjoyed the show. I have to give him credit, he lasted a very long time in that position, but in the end, it had to happen, he finally gave in, let his butt down to rest his legs and he had a very nice shower with his own pee. When it was over, he said he owed me an apology, that I was definately the queen of humiliation and would remember this sessions for as long as he lived. I still remember this with alot of satisfaction even after several years.


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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 6:46:29 PM   
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What another benefit of dilemma bondage is.. the male isn't thinking "when do I get to cum?"....  it's secondary.. and usually forgotten about and if he was a very very good boy..  he can be rewarded... IF she wants to :)

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 6:56:43 PM   
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Make sub kneel on the floor with a 1 1/4 or 1 1/2 inch diameter dowel.  Put thumb tacks in her bra and secure the back to the dowel (if she leans forward to release pressure on the legs the thumb tacks puush into her boobs.   Make her hold her arms straight out and secure them to her hair.   If her ams drop, then her hair will pull.   Insert a 2 headed dildo into each hole and secure it to a vibrator and watch her wiggle.   MMMMMMMMMMMMMM

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 8:05:33 PM   
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A rather simplistic dilemma bondage (and I use dilemma loosely here; it is more at you can pick only one in a choice between your favorite cheescake and your favorite ice cream)

But semi-crucified (they have to stand to get air, at a height that just clears a spanish horse.  works for men or women, a good way to get the height is string them up while in really high heels (especially after having them wear them all day) and remove them when the hi and low is  set, they play out pretty fast.


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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 8:51:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

What another benefit of dilemma bondage is.. the male isn't thinking "when do I get to cum?"....  it's secondary.. and usually forgotten about and if he was a very very good boy..  he can be rewarded... IF she wants to :)


Actually, at my age, I very seldom think "when do I get to cum?"  Unless, of course, I've been locked up for more than a few days.

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 9:51:48 PM   
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I've always found the wooden pony to be an amazing dilemma (although I have only been on one twice). You stand on your tip toes until your feet and your calves are aching so bad, when you sit to rest....ouch!

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RE: Dilemma Bondage - 8/13/2006 10:17:12 PM   
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angielouwhos said:  I've always found the wooden pony to be an amazing dilemma (although I have only been on one twice). You stand on your tip toes until your feet and your calves are aching so bad, when you sit to rest....ouch!


I was surprised no one mentioned the wooden horse earlier.  It is one of My favorite dilemmas. 

A few other simple ones:  there are several shibari ties that get strategically tighter when the submissive wriggles.  You tie a tight breast bondage, for instance, and then with a flogger or wax make her move laterally...and the ties tighten.  and tighten.  She stops rocking, you start waxing....etc.

Of course ginger root when a sub is being spanked is a perfect, simple dilemma.  If she is sensitive to the chemicals, then when she clenches her cheeks, it burns.  When she lets go, you SLAP! and she clenches again.

A final simple one -- this is used for punishment, when a girl has committed an infraction and has some "metered out" punishment due (say 40 whacks with a hated paddle, or 10 minutes of some specific, unwelcome torture).  Then have your submissive hold five dimes (one between each pair of her fingers (like a "Steeple"?).   Set a timer (I use a large photo lab timer that the girl can see, with a sweep second hand).  Tell her that for every minute she lasts, you'll reduce the whacks by one...or whatever works.   And then simply tell her to raise her arms over her head.  (the dimes give the exercise some focus, and you can play games with hearing them hit the floor, etc.)  It is somewhat enthralling to watch a girl fight her own body, and gravity, in an effort to lessen her punishment (or to please her Dom).

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