RE: Thoughts of A Dominant.

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onestandingstill -> RE: Thoughts of A Dominant. (8/9/2006 12:56:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hvnleyscent If Doms would be "brutally" honest with their partners UP FRONT, it would save the heart from being hurt and a process afterwords that wrenches it. True words there hvnleyscent. I hear you loud and clear on this issue & am in FULL agreement. I'm so very sick of the insecure lazy fake Doms who find out what you want & pretend to be those very things just long enough to hook and deceive you. The only saving grace I have from being resentful is I know Karma can be a Bit*h. Those that do these intentional things suffer somehow for the energy they put out there when it comes back and bites them back. I'm a firm believer in the energy you send out coming back at you like a boomerang. That's where I find the strength to let it go when bad things happen to me at the hands of others. Suzanne

marieToo -> RE: Thoughts of A Dominant. (8/9/2006 1:04:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasDom Does any one think we become callouse when it comes to dealing with the relationship part in our life style?... Maybe some do. Some Dominants may use the Ds dynamic as a clever way to keep walls up around them, or to avoid intimacy. However, I dont think its necessarily a negative thing. In some ways, I tend to be drawn to the types who seem closed off, or cold. I like the challenge of trying to 'reach' them. Though when someone proves out to be totally heartless, it kind of loses its lustre. Some people are not wired to care about anyone/anything other than themselves.

LotusSong -> RE: Thoughts of A Dominant. (8/9/2006 2:45:10 PM)
A dom/me gets callous when they let thier position go to their head. It is said that "Absolute power corrupts absolutly" - the giver and the taker in our case. Here is a check one can do : When you feel you are of some importance- try ordering someone else's dog around.

zenofeller -> RE: Thoughts of A Dominant. (8/9/2006 3:13:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong It is said that "Absolute power controls absolutly" absolute power corrupts absolutely.

CatNmouse2002 -> RE: Thoughts of A Dominant. (8/9/2006 3:14:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Homestead quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists No... in fact... I have found I am becoming more empathic... maybe because that is a personal desire to do so and not because of anything inherent in the process. Empathy is key to domination. You cannot control what you cannot know and feel. You Grok this ? ++good stuff .

Homestead -> RE: Thoughts of A Dominant. (8/9/2006 3:29:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CatNmouse2002 quote: ORIGINAL: Homestead quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists No... in fact... I have found I am becoming more empathic... maybe because that is a personal desire to do so and not because of anything inherent in the process. Empathy is key to domination. You cannot control what you cannot know and feel. You Grok this ? ++good stuff . One learns.

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