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blondesassyslave -> Need a few suggestions.... (8/8/2006 8:06:18 PM)
Okay, heres my deal. I was out of the lifestyle physically for a little while and lost some of my pain tolerance. Master is attempting to work on this with me, but I am fiesty and strong and I seem to wiggle or move entirely to much. I'm the type of girl that needs some extreme restraints to stay still. Even though I know its not safe for me to move while He's caning me or whatever painful thing we are doing at the moment, I still do it. I know once my pain tolerance has came up a little more I will be able to do it without anything. (I've done it before and I can do it again, I just need a little work) I've found a million things online that would be wonderful, if W/we could afford them. I'm in school and He's supporting my daughter and I at the moment so funds are limited. Does anyone have any cheap suggestions for Him? W/we've thought about building a few things W/we've seen but W/we really don't have much space for things and my daughter is growing and starting to notice things a little more so everything needs to be in the bedroom, or able to disassemble and rebuild without taking hours. For those of you who will tell me maybe I'm not a true slave or yada yada because I won't sit still, please keep your comments to yourself. I just need and want restraints.

mstrjx -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/8/2006 8:12:46 PM)
Just because this answer is short, don't think it's not serious. Duct tape, with the areas to be struck not covered. Jeff

DelRey -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/8/2006 8:47:01 PM)
zip ties

diamonddreamlove -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/8/2006 8:47:49 PM)
Lol doesn't mean you are a bad slave means it hurts! And duct tape might curb the idea of moving atleast when i think of the removal i think i could restrain my movement just a bit more without the added help lol. Dang i hope something is under that duct tape besides skin!

mstrjx -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/8/2006 9:24:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: diamonddreamlove Dang i hope something is under that duct tape besides skin! Did I forget to mention the Saran Wrap underneath? Well, it's less succinct of an answer, but it's still cheap and easy. I popped for the industrial-size wrap. Jeff

blondesassyslave -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/8/2006 9:57:31 PM)
Duct tape would be useful, but i could still wiggle around ... not my body parts but my entire body... i was browsing thru a site and i'm curious if anyones tried this... those long belt looking things, maybe buy a few of those... put them around my body not cover areas to be used, and then put a chain under the bed and attach one end to one side the other end to the other side of each belt.... anyone tried that? or have any suggestions of where I could get some?

KnightofMists -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/8/2006 10:20:07 PM)
I fail to see the problem with wiggling around.... I skilled Top should be more than capable of handling such an issue.... and frankly... the idea of hitting a living statue is rather boring to me.

DoctorDubious -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/9/2006 7:51:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blondesassyslave Okay, heres my deal. I was out of the lifestyle physically for a little while and lost some of my pain tolerance. *Master is attempting to work on this with me, but I am fiesty and strong and I seem to wiggle or move entirely to much. I'm the type of girl that needs some extreme restraints to stay still. . Does anyone have any cheap suggestions for Him?* W/we've thought about building a few things W/we've seen but W/we really don't have much space for things and my daughter is growing and starting to notice things a little more so everything needs to be in the bedroom, or able to disassemble and rebuild without taking hours. For those of you who will tell me maybe I'm not a true slave or yada yada because I won't sit still, please keep your comments to yourself. I just need and want restraints. Dear blondesassyslave.... Yes, I have a "cheap" suggestion for him. In fact, it's cheap in every sense of the word ...... Suggest... gently.... kindly... that he should.... *Practice* DD, .... or, just tell him that a bossy old goat with entirely no business sticking his nose in said it....

bluelace001 -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/9/2006 7:55:18 AM)
He can try shibari . Rope bondage can be a lot of fun and can also limit your movement. (personally, i don't think there's much wrong with moving around though, it adds to the scene imho.)

Littlepita -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/9/2006 10:15:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists I fail to see the problem with wiggling around.... I skilled Top should be more than capable of handling such an issue.... and frankly... the idea of hitting a living statue is rather boring to me. I agree with this. Why would your Master want you to be unable to move at all? I do know for me I need to have my hands bound if we are going to do anything very painful because I have a tendency to want to reach back and grab my butt or try to stop him. That could just be dangerous and get my fingers banged really hard.

INVENTIVEMASTER -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/9/2006 2:28:03 PM)
Do you have a four poster bed, or similar? If so you can buy leather wristbands from any heavy metel/goth type shop. Next a trip to a hardware store should be able to provide you with four lengths of chain and padlocks. Simply have your master lay you face down on the bed and chain each wrist and ankle to a different corner of the bed. If he stretchs you far enough you'll be hardly able to do anything apart from wiggle your bum. Whilst he has full reign over your back legs and bum without the fear that your struggling will lead to him accidently catching you anywhere else

raiken -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/9/2006 2:37:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blondesassyslave Okay, heres my deal. I was out of the lifestyle physically for a little while and lost some of my pain tolerance. Master is attempting to work on this with me, but I am fiesty and strong and I seem to wiggle or move entirely to much. I'm the type of girl that needs some extreme restraints to stay still. Even though I know its not safe for me to move while He's caning me or whatever painful thing we are doing at the moment, I still do it. I know once my pain tolerance has came up a little more I will be able to do it without anything. (I've done it before and I can do it again, I just need a little work) Aside from the restraints you feel you need, there is the mental aspect that needs to be retrained, (thoughts need to be restrained) and that just takes practice and self discipline, will and determination if you want to get yourself to that place where you can become almost stoic in response. It is in the way your receptors work and receive the pain. Just something else to consider, since someone already stole my thoughts on good ole fashion rope tying. Also, ask your Master to use toilet paper as mental restraints to help you train your thoughts. *smile

zenofeller -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/9/2006 2:42:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx Duct tape, with the areas to be struck not covered. spoken like a true engineer. duct tape. the real deal, and the solution for all your problems. when heroin doesn't work anymore.

blondesassyslave -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/9/2006 8:48:18 PM)
quote: I fail to see the problem with wiggling around.... I skilled Top should be more than capable of handling such an issue.... and frankly... the idea of hitting a living statue is rather boring to me. _____________________________ Knight of Mists Ok i guess you fail to see the point or I failed to mention it. Its for training purposes ONLY. I need to regain some tolerance and re learn how to sit still, inorder to start that with me, knowing me and knowing how i act restraints will be needed for the first month or so. After that we'll let some loose or take some off, and eventually ill be able to withstand it all without anything. It's the same way I was trained before and it worked wonderfully. He doesn't mind a little fight, but I got totally out of hand and he just doesn't put up with that shit. I'd much rather be re trained then fight like hell and get him pissed off, as a slave I NEVER want to see that! EVER!

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/9/2006 8:49:25 PM)
Some of us like wigglers... Its a turn on for me. my 2 cents DV

KnightofMists -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/10/2006 8:11:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blondesassyslave He doesn't mind a little fight, but I got totally out of hand and he just doesn't put up with that shit. I'd much rather be re trained then fight like hell and get him pissed off, as a slave I NEVER want to see that! EVER! aaaaaaaww I see... so he blames you for getting out of hand... and disregards his own contribution to that result. You don't need to be restrainted... you just need a Top skilled in appling the appropriate cause to gain the appropriate effect and increasing such cause in the appropriate increments to build your tolerance and still maintain the desired effect.

blondesassyslave -> RE: Need a few suggestions.... (8/10/2006 9:07:25 AM)
quote: aaaaaaaww I see... so he blames you for getting out of hand... and disregards his own contribution to that result. You don't need to be restrainted... you just need a Top skilled in appling the appropriate cause to gain the appropriate effect and increasing such cause in the appropriate increments to build your tolerance and still maintain the desired effect. I'm sorry but in our relationship there is NO blame. No ones blamming anyone for anything... are you just playing devils advocate here or are you just trying to bash on Master? I have the WANT to be restrained to begin with, and the want to be restrained especially during the painful things i'm building up to. I want the gags, i want the ropes, i want the chains, i want it all. He likes them as well. No one blames anyone for anything in this relationship. Do me and yourself a favor and leave your comments on our relationship, and thing not pertaining to my question... OUT OF IT... I asked for suggestions, not your opinion on mine and Masters relationship.

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