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MisPandora -> RE: pro dom question (8/8/2006 5:32:14 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong
Jasmyn,
Do you hink you could share the downside of pro domination with our freind here? It's hard work and it's not always fun and games.
Being a retired pro, I can share some of the headaches:
-- no shows
-- persistent requests for sexual services
-- never being able to rely on clients
-- never knowing where your rent is coming from
-- having to pre-pay ads and pay for things incash because you're not a trusted business person in today's society (you're a sexworker, like it or not)
-- people who think you make a million when all you do is put it right back into the business
-- having to stay pals with the landlord because of what you do
-- having to stay pals with the neighbors to protect yourself
-- having to be really careful with directions that you give clients because they're dimwits and walk into the wrong places, ring the wrong doorbells and ask, "I'm looking for Mistress Pandora, is she here"?
-- clients stealing your fetish gear
-- employees (other doms) stealing your stuff or cheating you out of money
-- being excluded from certain lifestyle events or being thought of as a "problem" in the BDSM community because you take money and provide a service to people who really aren't even involved in the mainstream BDSM community
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