Hi there, I am sapphire, belonging to Master Tazz, who is also my real time husband. We love the BDSM lifestyle, but as we have children we can not be 24/7. It would be great to hear from people with ideas on how to overcome this...was not sure where to post this...sorry if incorrect
Hello sapphire, and welcome! Being childless myself I can't offer any real wisdom on this, but I'm sure there are those who can. You might want to re-post your question in the General BDSM Discussion forum--you'd probably get a lot more response there. But by all means welcome--may you find what you seek here.
Being 24/7 is a state of mind. Even those without children have daily life that has to be contended with. Children have to be protected and therefor orders have to be made in such a way that they dont' know that they are orders but simple things can be a daily part of your life. His picking your clothing, leaving notes of things to do, deciding on meals, running his bath, not going to bed without his permission. You can ask for permission for things when the kids are in the other room. All are things you can do even with kids around. If you would like more suggestions feel free to e mail me directly. Hope this helps. Good luck and have great fun