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kiska -> I'm back, didja miss me? (7/26/2006 3:32:51 PM)
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OK so I was only gone for like a month or so while I was getting settled into the new place and stuff ...
(For those who don't know what I'm talking about, JamesGrim dumped me after a little less than a year of living together.)
But I'm back now! Didja miss me?
Don't answer that, I'm sure you all did ... Terribly so but I'm back now so its ok.
So, anyway ... I really do have a point for posting today!
My new roomate is exploring her switch side after being a submissive for as long as she's been interested in kinky stuff. Which got me to thinking ... Now that I'm totally single and can do whatever makes my little bits feel yummy, maybe I should explore *my own* switchiness ...
Now, before you start shaking your heads ... I've been told by several close friends that I should at least try out being a dominant since I tend to have those dommly tendancies ... I usually just kind of smile and nod at those people.
But ...
When I was 16 I had a 2 year relationship with a submissive guy. It was a great relationship ... Which, could have just been the guy and not neccessarily have anything to do with him being submissive. We didn't ever actually have sex ... We played a lot ... He taught me how to use a flogger on him and he loved candles and being 'forced' to wear my panties and stockings to work under his suit ...
Did I enjoy these things? Most definitely ...
So I guess I'm asking ... How do you get started (exploring your dominant side after being submissive for almost 8 years) and get taken seriously? Is there anything (besides the obvious) that I should NOT do ... Or say ...
Any advice would be appreciated.
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