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LL1aintbehavin -> OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 11:42:53 AM)
i began exploring BDSM and D/s over two years ago, and to me, with the gradual learning and growing, there was one particular moment that will always stand out to me. It was the first time that my Dom tied me out to the bed for play or scening or however you refer to impact play. i was excited and nervous and exhillarated all at the same time. Once i was secure, He looked directly into my eyes, smiled, ran his hand lightly over me and said "beautiful". All i could think was OMG. The trust between us, the feelings, the emotions were almost overwhelming, and i knew that i was where i wanted to be. This is my first attempt at starting a thread so i hope i make sense. i was just wondering if there are others that have other such experiences as i have. This can be either in M/s, D/s or just in BDSM experiences in general. Thank you in advance for your replies. aintbehavin

JessieMe -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 1:01:58 PM)
I too had an OMG moment..It was with the first "real" dominant top I played with. I remember meeting him from an online chat room we both hung out in.. He seemed like a decent sort.. not really all that dominant LOL.. just sweet. The "idiot child" I had been living with at the time <referred to in other threads> just wasnt able to get me to the place I felt I wanted / needed to be in and so I was given permission to find someone else to play with. I chose this man. When we met it was at a restaurant and we talked about what I was looking for. I dont really even think I knew what I was looking for at the time as I was still pretty new except for said idiot and had no clue what I SHOULD be looking for. What I told him was I wanted to see where my pain tolerance was at that time since idiot couldnt take me far enough. We sat and talked for along time about different things and he explained to me what I should expect if he and I agreed to go through with it. It all sounded peachy to me, so we went someplace private in order to commence. That was the most exquisite spanking I have ever received in my entire life prior as well as since. I think he managed to continue the scene well over two hours and by the time I was done...I was nothing but a puddle. I think I floated in subspace for 2 days afterwards. THAT was when I KNEW .... this was where I wanted to be.. <little side note... this was also the time I learned NEVER to tell a sadist they hit like a girl...in my defense though.. prior to that.. I didnt know about warmups>

LL1aintbehavin -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 1:14:02 PM)
JessieMe. Thank you so much for sharing that wonderful story. It just seems to be something that happens that makes this feel so right. aintbehavin

aurora31 -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 2:50:09 PM)
I have had a couple of those OMG moments in the last year. My first one was the first time I scened with a Dom who actually knew what he was doing first in the play with him in being able to really let go. Then the next morning when he washed my hair while we showered I just knew that I wanted a Dom who was Sadistic enough to push me to the edge where I could let go...yet still got great pleasure from the tender little things. Hence the term Tender Sadist in my profile. The second was only a couple of months ago. I had been talking to and seeing someone new. I still have great hopes as the possiblities of where this could go but it is still to early to tell. We had gone to some friends of his house to play in their dungeon. I was put on the cross for the first time and again was really pushed to the edge of my limits pain wise then he got the vibes out and was playing me. As I got close to cumming I told him I was going to cum and of coarse being the CruelBastard that he is he denied me. Something I do not do well with, once I pull back I usually loose it completly and can't cum at all. But he continued to take me to the edge and away again...finally he said "cum bitch" and I lost it...was one of the most intense experiances I have ever had. Not only the physical response which was more intense then anything I have ever experianced but also the emotional respones and the fact that I was so wantonlly able to let go that particular night. Still to this day I can play those words over in my head, hear his voice as he says them, and I get all gooey inside. I look foward as I continue to grow in my submission to many more of those OMG moments. aurora

neverthesame -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 3:00:56 PM)
This is my first time posting in the forums, but I couldn't pass this one by. I had my first OMG moment when I was 18. I was still a virgin, but had a kind of boyfriend. We were rough housing at his apartment and he chased me down. He then dragged me to his bed and tied me to the headboard. I was laughing and telling him to stop until I saw the look in his eyes. OMG! The mood in that room was insane, intense. He knew I was a virgin and didn't press me for more, just fondled me roughly a bit then led me outside to my car with my hands still bound together. He kissed me roughly in the dark night air before he untied me. I knew that THIS was something I was meant to be. I should have let him take me...lol.

sharainks -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 3:12:42 PM)
I had several OMG moments in my first bdsm experience. It went from OMG this is really going to happen, to that sensation of just giving myself over to what was happening. AllI heard was his voice instructing me and floating off into this world where only he mattered. Oh yeah!!

kyraofMists -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 4:06:02 PM)
Mine was the first time he touched me. I had been instructed not to speak until he told me to and to walk to where he would be standing. He was wearing sunglasses and gloves. He removed the sunglasses and then took off his gloves and with a trembling hand slowly touched my right cheek. Just a gentle caress that went around to the back of my neck and then he pulled me in for hug so tight I could hardly breathe. That was my first "Oh my God" moment; there have been countless since then. I surrendered to him then and there and each day since has just been validation of that choice I made. Knight's kyra

kyraofMists -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 4:08:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aurora31 I look foward as I continue to grow in my submission to many more of those OMG moments. aurora Hi aurora, Glad to hear things are going so well for you; you certainly deserve it. kyra

SirCumsSlut -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 4:36:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LL1aintbehavin i began exploring BDSM and D/s over two years ago, and to me, with the gradual learning and growing, there was one particular moment that will always stand out to me. It was the first time that my Dom tied me out to the bed for play or scening or however you refer to impact play. i was excited and nervous and exhillarated all at the same time. Once i was secure, He looked directly into my eyes, smiled, ran his hand lightly over me and said "beautiful". All i could think was OMG. The trust between us, the feelings, the emotions were almost overwhelming, and i knew that i was where i wanted to be. This is my first attempt at starting a thread so i hope i make sense. i was just wondering if there are others that have other such experiences as i have. This can be either in M/s, D/s or just in BDSM experiences in general. Thank you in advance for your replies. aintbehavin Hey aint s hugs.................OMG moments...there were many, but two stick out in particular.......... Sir and I went to a gathering in Philadelphia called Dominion....It was my first real time at any such dungeon event. There on the main stage was a horse and a cross.....Sir first tied me bent over the horse, ankles wide apart. He then took the riding crop and began to tenderize and awaken all my senses. After he had me warmed up with the crop, he took the new deer skin flogger that we had bought and flogged every inch of my backside, thighs, knees, calves and feet. Everything that was exposed was his....Then Sir brought out my most dreaded (at the time) and yet most favorite tool. THE WHEEL!! He proceeded to start at my neck and down my back with that vicsious instrument. He ran it over my bright red cheeks and tender areas. The people in the crowd were amazed at just how much I could take of that wheel....and the OMG was just knowing that all the people that were in attendance were watching as Sir put me through my paces for the first time. The second OMG of that night came a short while later....In another room there was this wondermous webbed table. There was a lovely opening for access to my ass cheeks. As Sir had me tied there and working me over with that lovely deer skin flogger, a gorgeous red headed submissive joined us on this table. She asked Sir if she may join in and naturally Sir said yes....between Sir, the gorgeous red head and the other Doms and subs in the room (who were complementing Sir when we were finished) let us say that a record was broken that night...[:D] You see I am pretty sure that the others in attendance had figured out what it was that I was counting out loud, as ordered by Sir. So those are two of my OMG! moments.........Sir tries to see to it that I have a few....... Great topic to hun....

LL1aintbehavin -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 4:53:03 PM)
The replies so far are so wonderful and touching. i was looking for something that truly touched people on a deep personal level that was awe inspiring and changing. i am very glad that i am not the only one that has felt this way. aintbehavin

crouchingtigress -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 5:17:53 PM)
i just wanna say thanx to everyone sharing on this thread it is so inspiring![image]http://www.collarme.com/htmlarea/smileys/0568.gif[/image]

mstrjx -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 6:12:00 PM)
Cheers all, I have a couple of tales I would like to share. I call these defining moments. I have been very blessed over the years to have several of these, but these two (in separate posts if you don't mind) I think are special in making me who I've turned out to be. A bit about me. I was always raised to treat people, especially ladies, with respect. Never to hit them, try not to anger them, the usual. My nature is to be very communicative, very pleasing when possible, comforting and empathetic. I would probably make a great slave, but that's not the direction I've taken. Having said all of this, I discovered the joys of how bondage affected me from a very young age (probably 5 or so). At the time of this story I was probably 26, and still a few years before I discovered the depth of the kinks of the lifestyle. I still only knew about bondage, thought it 'was' the end (rather than the means), and as interested as I was did not seek to participate full-time. I was dating a woman who I shared my interest and she was receptive. So, from time to time, I would tie her up, and loved every minute of it. But I could sense that there was something that she wanted to explore. I finally got her to admit that there was something unspoken between us, but she would never go further in conversation. I sensed that it was something that she was ashamed to admit. This really bothered me, because I do place a great deal of importance in communication. I had shared, why couldn't she? This defining moment occurred in bed, naturally, on one of our vanilla evenings. I was on top, and a very unusual thought came to me. I have no idea what came over me, but I (in mid-stroke) decided to slap her full across the face, fairly soundly. This was SO not like me. She started crying, nearly hysterically. As I recall, I probably started crying too (sensitive bastard that I must be). Finally she composed herself, looked up at me, and queried (wait for it) 'How did you know?' Wow. Not what I expected. Yet, I had discovered her secret all on my own. So, I would trade off playing my game (bondage) and playing her game (slapping her during intercourse). She was extremely animated when I would slap her, and I must admit I rather got off on it, too. But eventually she stopped me. Didn't want me to do it again. I was puzzled, extremely so. Remember, I'm a pleaser and even though she couldn't communicate this desire to me, I had discovered it on my own. So why prevent me from doing this in the future? 'Because for you it's not real.' At the time, I didn't know what she meant. It would be another 4 years before I discovered the entirety of BDSM, and by that time I had moved 500 miles away. I had actually discovered my first submissive woman, and I wasn't defined as we know it as dominant. Just a pleaser. Be back in a while for defining moment #2. Jeff

aurora31 -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 6:16:18 PM)
Smiles....thank you kyra. it has been so long since Ilast talked to you. Sounds like all is well for you to and I am glad to hear it. BTW I bit the bullet and made to move to StL. Please pass on my reguards to Knight and alandra too. aurora

mstrjx -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 6:44:20 PM)
This defining moment occurred probably 5 or so years after I entered the Lifestyle full-time. I was unattached at the time, and was involved with a group of Dominant men/submissive women. Sometimes I hosted play parties in my home. The woman in this story and I knew each other more by reputation than anything. I had gathered that she was an advanced level player (liked pain) and by this time I had oodles of toys to choose from and the skills to use them well. We only played a few times. I think this was our second. We were alone in my house. I had a playroom set up in the spare bedroom. I had a bondage cross on a platform. Her wrists were restrained to the sides of the cross and her ankles restrained to the sides of the platform. I believe she was blindfolded, possibly gagged through part of it (I don't recall), and she was facing the post of the cross with me behind. As I have a variety of implements, I usually mix up textures during a scene such as this. I might use one thing for 5-10 minutes before moving on to something else, usually a little more, um, intense. Of course, during this time I'm also stroking and whispering some sort of nasty somethings and basically keeping the mood going. All told, this particular session probably lasted the better part of 2 hours. I would alternate between whipping or cropping or flogging her upper back and her ass and thighs. It was getting towards the end of the session, and I started using a fiberglass cane on her ass. I don't recall exactly how many times I had used it, but she was marking noticeably and I knew she was in a lot of pain. Personally, I thought she was done. I thought I would be a little naughty, so I whispered in her ear 'Do you think you've had enough, or would you like some more?'. Of course, since she's done, she'll stop me now, right? 'I would like 10 more.' WHAT? She's not allowed to raise the bar on me? Fine. I'll raise it back. 'OK, you can have 10 more. But since this is something that you have asked for, no safe words will be permitted. Do you understand?' 'Yes.' All righty then. So, the 10 commenced, and of course if you know about caning, and especially these whippy little fiberglass canes (very, very narrow), she was now marked up but good. And crying. (Tears don't stop a scene. Safe words or my own actions stop a scene. I think I might have heard a safe word 1 or 2 times in 15 years. Even if I don't know someone very well, I can see fairly quickly what interests them and what doesn't.) Usually I would stop a scene after the most intense 'pleasure-pain' had been endured, but this time I went to something much lighter. I'm pretty sure I moved away from her butt and back to her upper back. After a few minutes I took another pause, and I somehow knew that if I did anything, anywhere on my body, that she was going to use a safe word. That's never my goal. I stopped. I released her, and we spent some time in aftercare. A little while later she told me that right there at the end she had decided that if I touched her with anything, anywhere on her body, she felt she was going to use her safe word. I was wrong in thinking she was 'done' the first time. I wasn't the second time. Very intense, very memorable. All true. For the record, I'm not a sadist. I play at the level my partner is comfortable with. Limits sometimes get pushed. But I treat everyone individually, as they should be. Jeff

LL1aintbehavin -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 7:10:38 PM)
Jeff. Thank You for sharing those two moments with us all. Its nice to see that Dominants also share those mind blowing OMG moments as i like to call them. Just something that happens, but sticks in your mind and your heart as we continue on in our journeys where ever they may lead. aintbehavin

KittenInterruptd -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 8:57:32 PM)
I had an "OMG moment" a couple of years ago at work. I was folding some linen to stack on trolleys to be ready for the morning shift at work (I am a nurse who works night duty) and while I was folding pillowcases and towels I was thinking about how important it was for me to be doing even this most menial of tasks to the best of my ability. Not because it was important for them to be folded well, I mean as long as the thing is on the trolley it isn't an issue as to how evenly they are folded; but I was thinking that if I do everything that I do as well as I can do it then perhaps one day someone will notice the care that I take with things. Then, when they notice that care they might also notice how well that I've been trained by my Master, and that would bring him honour and praise as he deserves to have. I wanted people to know that my Master is wonderful, and I would do everything that I can to be a wonderful reflection of his training. Now I wish that I had a Master to reflect his teachings again.

SavageEu -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 11:09:46 PM)
I feel like such a young pup here at times :) I was just starting out as someones Master and was not really sure I really wanted to dominate someone 'for real'. Most of my life it was pounded into me that people are always equals, basically that it was bad to make the descisions without input from everyone involved. If you did not compromise someone would get hurt. Assertiveness should be pushed aside so that you can get along with others. I had done domniance in the bedroom with a few former girlfriends and it was pretty fun but it always revolved around the sex and sexual pleasure. When I commanded them it was only to change positions or to do something I knew they wanted to do. It was completely about us having fun and them in particular enjoying themselves. I had questioned whether someone could serve another with out it being abuse, I had no real contact with a BDSM community so me and my former Pet were mainly just seeing how it fit. She wanted to be a sub but I was unsure if I wanted to be a master. Since I had no real clue what to do I decided to be selfish. Have her do things to see if she would do them or just laugh it off like I was an idiot. Do so many push ups, stand up right now and spin around, just little feelers to see what she would do and how I felt about it. At first I felt a bit bad, I was being selfish after all and as Catholic school taught me, being selfish is bad. One night I was sure she was just having fun with it, a diversion and a little roleplaying. So I told her that her task for the night was to push her bed through the floor and that she could stop after 10 minutes if she did not succeed. I talked to her the next day, seeing how she was, she said her shoulders and arms hurt like hell. Then she told me that the bed would just would not go through the floor. I was stunned, she had done what I told her to do and not only that she did it to the best of her ability to please me. And she was so happy for it. I just sat there not knowing what to think. I felt this warm sensation in me, it wasn't sexual at all, it wasn't happiness, I was proud of her. I was smiling and knew that my Pet was a good girl. That obedience and earnestnest had given me a new feeling, that I was really her Master. It opened up areas in me I hadn't ever explored. I suppose I still am just starting to explore them. Though I have found, much to my amusment, that so many people at work, when faced with a clear voice and right attitude do what I need them to do so that I can get work done without question. Just today someone was telling me that she had all this work, her boss was breathing down her neck and of course the peices of work had to do for me, and I just looked at her said 'But my stuff comes first' and she was looking right in my eyes and smiled a bit and said 'Of course.'. Not being as ass about it or anything, just stating it as simply fact. I found that rather interesting.

srllile7 -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 11:34:43 PM)
Erm my OMG moment was great. It was my, I think, 3rd meeting with my one and only Dom to this point. I was kneeling and getting my hands tied behind my back and I looked down at the red welts on my chest from where he had just swatted me with the rope and OMG ive never felt that sexy or that comfortable in my whole life. It was amazing I wasn’t thinking about ohh I need to suck my tummy in, and what the heck am I doing, is he looking at my dimples etc etc. All I could think is this is perfect, this is me.

ownedgirlie -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/24/2006 11:44:52 PM)
My first "OMG" moment with Master...was the first time we met in person. I was kneeling and waiting for him. He entered the room and I felt his presence but I could not look up. I remember my heart began racing, my breath became rapid, and yet I could not look up. He walked past me and set his things down, then walked around me, slowly. I was trembling inside. He stopped in front of me and reached down. Taking my chin in his hand, he tilted my head upward, for me to face him. It was the first time I looked in his eyes. The feelings I had at that moment were overwhelming. I remember it like yesterday. Everything felt right. Everything felt good. I felt I was exactly where I had always needed to be. It was a life changing moment. There were many of these moments to come, but that was probably the most significant, as it was the beginning of my life with him.

MzMinx -> RE: OMG Moment in D/s, M/s or BDSM (7/25/2006 12:29:55 AM)
hmmm two sides of the equation for me as I started this journey exploreing submission... and now domination..... its hard to choose just one or two OMG's smiles but here goes The first at the begining of my bdsm journey ....one of the first times I was alone with my Mentor ... with whom I went on to share 10 years of amazing journeys with ... me sitting on one of my couches .... Him .. standing 3 feet away ... all 6'3 huge bear sized male that he was ......... his toy bag open and some of his toys already out on the side table.... and then the change in his voice as he took out a heavy chain ... and started, absently mindedly wrapping it around his huge strong hand as he spoke to me .... His tone lowering .. showing a glympse of his own passions and desires....... and the instant realisation ... that not only could he kill me with one blow (he was military trained as well as many other things) ..... that nothing I could do would be anything but the slap of wind against him... that he was so much more skilled and more capable than I .. and that I had allowed him to be where I couldn't control the outcome ..... not something I had ever had as a thought before .. me the capable, independant controlled individual ... but that I also knew with absolute certainty that he would give his life rather than harm me .... his energy and focus to hold me safe ... and use every skill he had to help me learn and grow... no matter where he took me it was the most amazing rush into trust I have ever experinced ... and a lesson in healing and learning I will never ever forget grins* it also told me how much power is an energy I feel and love the taste of and then the other side .... the first time I indulged in my control and sadism .... no longer feeling like I had to watch my skill level ...or worry about did I know what I was doing etc .... but completly ... utterly within the moment with a lovely boy ...... after we had spent several hours playing at quite deep and intense levels ....... I had just released him from his bondage ... and he sank to his knees of his own accord.... the feel of his lips pressing into the soft leather of my boots ... as he looked up .. his eyes still moist with tears ... smokey soft with his submission .... and he spoke his voice huskied but so very submissive and filled with yearning ... Please my Lady ... please .... the jolt of extra power and control .. when although he begged, he didnt beg for anything specific .. just to be where ever I desired him to be ... in what ever state of control, pain.. pleasure or mixture of such I desired It made me growl smiles .. I purrr often when I am enjoying things,.. but this made me growl in a primal response to his submission .. that was when I knew to the depths of my being ... that even though One had had my submission .... I wasn't a top with some liking for pain .... I was indeed a dominant, that I was also a sadist .. that I was extraordinarly delighted in being who I am great question .... and thank you for drawing me into remembering what are such wonderful special moments .. even if it is hard to choose only one or two

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