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Not the most welcoming realm for an East Indian sub in ... - 7/15/2006 10:17:22 AM

exploringmyself

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Late 20s, male, submissive, craving for exploration, growth and discovery.

So it happens to be that I have an ethnic origin, with East Indian and Mid-Eastern roots. Unfortunately, (and sadly), women in my cultures are generally not dominant and often suppressed and repressed by sad excuses for men. (I consider myself a female supremacist). I know this may sound like a broad generalization, and there might be people who would like to point out the exceptions but for the most part, I believe that BDSM is somewhat alien to those cultures.

I myself am not a good representative of any culture. My tastes in music, movies, and literature are eclectic and diversified.

My problem, even in a city like Toronto, is that I am having problems connecting to a Domme (one is quite enough!). Most dommes do not seem to be too eager to interact with a submissive with ethnic variation (or at least, that is what I sense). Not that I have a problem with that, since it is only too understandable and easy for me to respect their tastes and preferences (as I have some exclusive tastes as well).

However, another factor that seems to work against me is the age, as most Dommes here are older than me, and looking for submissives in an age range beyond mine too.

That narrows down the 'pool' for me, hence the reason that there are very few local profiles that I find myself thinking of responding/replying to. My own physical tastes and preferences, if taken into consideratin, would narrow the pool even more.

So, well, that is my introduction. I can almost anticipate some of the "here-don't-lose-heart-and-try-connecting-to-the-fetish-community-in-munches-clubs-bdsm-events" etc replies. It is very kind of those who do take the time to understand, empathize and reply but I am not a true 'lifestyler' and while I can see myself some day interacting in munches and clubs, I need (and prefer) a one-on-one and personal interaction.

Good luck to everyone here, and hope you all find what you are looking for.

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RE: Not the most welcoming realm for an East Indian sub... - 7/15/2006 1:34:36 PM

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Welome to CM..and to the boards. I wish you much luck in your search.

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RE: Not the most welcoming realm for an East Indian sub... - 7/15/2006 5:03:38 PM

fyrekittyn

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Welcome to the forums! Good luck in finding what you search for.

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RE: Not the most welcoming realm for an East Indian sub... - 7/15/2006 7:47:36 PM

ElectraGlide

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Hey welcome to CM. Hang in there someone will accept your different race sooner or later, or perhaps you may even meet someone of the same race seeking here also. Who knows keep your head up and stay positive.

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