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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 8:43:13 PM   
Caretakr


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I found if someone is being bounced around from partner to partner and not being claimed by any one person for any length of time, there is probably a REASON.  That goes for both sides of  the coin. 

I don't think this side of the darkside of the Dark Side gets talked about enough.  THESE are the things the newbys need to know. 

Lotus


But people go through partners the way they change underwear in most scenes. It's pretty difficult to tell, when EVERYONE is with someone else in six months to a year.

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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 8:47:26 PM   
LotusSong


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Caretakr

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I found if someone is being bounced around from partner to partner and not being claimed by any one person for any length of time, there is probably a REASON.  That goes for both sides of  the coin. 

I don't think this side of the darkside of the Dark Side gets talked about enough.  THESE are the things the newbys need to know. 

Lotus


But people go through partners the way they change underwear in most scenes. It's pretty difficult to tell, when EVERYONE is with someone else in six months to a year.


Damn.. I wish THIS guy would have changed underwear ROFL  (I'm having fun with this.. can you tell?)

While what you say is true.. when a Dom/me finds a "keeper".- they pretty much lay claim for a spell.  No?

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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 8:48:41 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		While it wasnt at a club, I have been guilty of mercy-play. I gave in to the begging after a while and finally let a fairly good friend get into my lengerie. He was exmilitary, very diciplined and straight in his little vanilla world... and a complete and total attention slut in private. Problem was, even at his most submissive... tat military streak came out. I realized really quickly into our playtime why no one wanted to Domme him. He was aweful. No clue what he was doing, no ability to listen and follow directions...
All looks, no talent *sigh*

Dont think Id do that again, though I am still a sucker for an attention slut. Especailly a pretty one.

DV

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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 8:54:08 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		quite simply, i have not had any punishments since childhood and those were not pleasant at all. not sure about them today. maybe, psychologically, it is something missing in my life (good or bad) and i just find it mildly fascinating that submissives tend to be drawn to it, in some cases.

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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 8:55:08 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		Yup. and you don't know sometimes until you are right in the middle of it all.  I think we Dommes may be more susceptable to it.  It's what I call my MommaDomma glitch.   Bug me enough and  smooze me and I cave.



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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 8:58:14 PM   
LotusSong


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quite simply, i have not had any punishments since childhood and those were not pleasant at all. not sure about them today. maybe, psychologically, it is something missing in my life (good or bad) and i just find it mildly fascinating that submissives tend to be drawn to it, in some cases.


Ahh gotcha.. Thanks for clarifying.  This guy's fetish was to be the little school boy.  My spankings were rather nice I was told :).  I wasn't too much into punishment per se, I liked to combine a balance of pain and pleasure..you know, tweek one end.. and caress the other at the same time.

< Message edited by LotusSong -- 7/12/2006 8:59:28 PM >

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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 8:58:41 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		thing is, when it does occur, i don't wish to get any spankings or anything of the like, unless i have done something wrong that calls for such action. i'm not into pain.

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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 9:03:40 PM   
Caretakr


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

quote:

ORIGINAL: Caretakr

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I found if someone is being bounced around from partner to partner and not being claimed by any one person for any length of time, there is probably a REASON.  That goes for both sides of  the coin. 

I don't think this side of the darkside of the Dark Side gets talked about enough.  THESE are the things the newbys need to know. 

Lotus


But people go through partners the way they change underwear in most scenes. It's pretty difficult to tell, when EVERYONE is with someone else in six months to a year.


Damn.. I wish THIS guy would have changed underwear ROFL  (I'm having fun with this.. can you tell?)

While what you say is true.. when a Dom/me finds a "keeper".- they pretty much lay claim for a spell.  No?


You try to. It helps if you both get away from the sharks and the backstabbers for a while.

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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 9:11:11 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		sounds intriguing, i have heard of such things occuring but never withnessed them nor expeienced them firsthand. something to look forward to someday, i suppose.

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RE: Mercy Sessions - 7/12/2006 9:17:07 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		this is going to be off topic for a second:

Now with you Michael.. knowing that physical punishment would not really work on you  if you needed to be corrected,  All a Domme would have to do is turn her back on you for awhile and walk away.

When I am REALLY upset with my slave (and it isn't often at all these days).. that is what I'd do.  But I knew him well enough  to know when enough was enough. 

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