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LotusSong -> Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:01:10 PM)
Have you ever taken pity on a submissive that has been hanging around for years at the local dungeon and only gets played with on occasion... then find out WHY they don't get played with? Case in point.. there was a guy, male submissive, that was a fixture at the local club. Very nice personality. I wasn't all that busy one night and he asked me to spank him, so I said sure. There he was bare assed and in the middle of the spanking.. I started to notice an odor... seems there was a hygene issue I didn't know about.. That one really advanced my learning curve! Get references.. get nosey.. ask WHY before you take pity on someone. Lotus

juliaoceania -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:25:10 PM)
Perhaps you might have informed him of his "issue" and tell him that this might put some off on spanking him?

bandit25 -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:27:49 PM)
That's a good idea

puella -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:37:17 PM)
What is truly honest to me, is that you have hit a nerve of merit. What I can say, as the dummie who has waited for so long... is that you are doing no service. What do you suppose happens then, besides devoting the rest of your life to something that was nothing more than what you call/ a 'mercy' fuck?... Which in reality, got you off, and got them thinking they had a reason to hope... hope.. which is the cruelest Mater of all? My only advice is, do not toy, even if it gets you a quickie.

Caretakr -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:41:49 PM)
Nodding, I will never ignore being told that a girl is a nutcase-due to her being cute again. Live and learn.

puella -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:43:06 PM)
Hmm... I am not sure what that means.. but so be it.

juliaoceania -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:44:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr Nodding, I will never ignore being told that a girl is a nutcase-due to her being cute again. Live and learn. I never take someone else's word on the character of another, and I have never regretted it.. yet. Some people have alterior motives for sniping someone's backside.. and to be honest, I do not respect people that talk about the mental health of others without a doctor's diagnosis... but I have known many catty individuals in my life that delight in spreading bad news because I grew up in a small town.. so this is just my experience

Caretakr -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:44:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: puella Hmm... I am not sure what that means.. but so be it. That favoring mental illness can be contagious.

LotusSong -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:46:16 PM)
NO.. I didn't do it to get off. In my early days, I was more compassionate. Just a case of being "too nice". I'd see people that were members of the "komunity" who attended all the functions and basically a fixture of the place. I had no prior knowledge that this guy had a problem. I was well into the session when I found out. In short.. I was embarassed for him. Then I was embarassed for myself.. These days I would stop and hand him a wire brush and tell him to go scrub the crack of his ass if he wanted to play.

puella -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:46:30 PM)
Uh huh... What ever you need to do, which you can conscience, to serve your own needs, have a good time.

Caretakr -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:49:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr Nodding, I will never ignore being told that a girl is a nutcase-due to her being cute again. Live and learn. I never take someone else's word on the character of another, and I have never regretted it.. yet. Some people have alterior motives for sniping someone's backside.. and to be honest, I do not respect people that talk about the mental health of others without a doctor's diagnosis... but I have known many catty individuals in my life that delight in spreading bad news because I grew up in a small town.. so this is just my experience I got warned numerous times, they were not catty. They were my friends.

LotusSong -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:53:44 PM)
What is so prevalent in the "kommunity" of the mantra "now, don't make anyone wrong". I no longer buy it. If someone has a problem.. I'm going to tell them, because if one person thinks so, there are other probably out there that think so. But SOMEONE has to have the guts to stand up and say so. When I mentioned it to someone who played with him in the past.. I got a "oh, didn't you know that about him?" BTW: This was not a "fuck".. it was a play session. A simple spanking.

Caretakr -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 7:58:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong What is so prevalent in the "kommunity" of the mantra "now, don't make anyone wrong". I no longer buy it. If someone has a problem.. I'm going to tell them, because if one person thinks so, there are other probably out there that think so. But SOMEONE has to have the guts to stand up and say so. When I mentioned it to someone who played with him in the past.. I got a "oh, didn't you know that about him?" BTW: This was not a "fuck".. it was a play session. A simple spanking. Same here, if it saves another grief. Too many people get away with shit because we are too "nice".

orfunboi -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 8:08:27 PM)
Missed the whole point of her post...didn't ya

Caretakr -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 8:12:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: orfunboi Missed the whole point of her post...didn't ya It would not seem the best place for selfless indulences of altruism.[;)]

enigmabrat -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 8:23:27 PM)
thats sad... you know it may hurt and be embaressing but with something like that you need to tell them or they will never know!!! How could he know his ass crack smelled :P

LotusSong -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 8:23:27 PM)
I found if someone is being bounced around from partner to partner and not being claimed by any one person for any length of time, there is probably a REASON. That goes for both sides of the coin. I don't think this side of the darkside of the Dark Side gets talked about enough. THESE are the things the newbys need to know. Lotus

LotusSong -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 8:27:05 PM)
I can't remember now if I told him or what I did.. that was like 8 years ago. LOL. He was the sweetest little guy otherwise.. and really.. how can you kick a puppy like that? You just mop up after it and hope it finds a good home eventually. HOWEVER.. I am NOT like that today! If your butt is stinking.. it's gonna be on CNN!

michaelGA2 -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 8:32:25 PM)
i hear alot about people and punishment in the lifestyle...witnessed online and a couple of real life scenes, but thus far, have only been on the watching end of it. not sure i see the fascination

LotusSong -> RE: Mercy Sessions (7/12/2006 8:36:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 i hear alot about people and punishment in the lifestyle...witnessed online and a couple of real life scenes, but thus far, have only been on the watching end of it. not sure i see the fascination ?? Ya lost me there on that one big guy :) The only one getting punished was ME! LOL (hmm.. was he actually topping from the bottom.. or WITH his bottom??)

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