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Gauge -> RE: The Drop and Long Distance (11/3/2014 1:50:50 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CherryPirate214
I am not new to bdsm. However, my Master and I have hit a small wall. We are currently in a long distance relationship. The issue doesn't happen when we're in person. However, when we have phone sex this issue has happened twice now. I have reached very intense sub space. I have an incredibly hard time with the drop. I cannot talk. I do moan and/or whine. He doesn't realize just how far gone I am. When I semi realize this I go into a scary place. I wind up feeling scared and alone. I cannot verbally tell him. He still talks to me. He still is calming and soothing and loving, but it's not enough. I thought I'd ask you lovely people. Any tips or advice on how to better handle this? The times it's happened it's right before bed. I start to fall asleep and then jolt awake to make sure he's still there. The next day I am still reeling in the drop as well. I'm extra clingy and needy. It scares him because he doesn't want me to be in any pain or a scary place, but it's such a hard drop because the sub space is deep and I'm full opened with him. I don't want us to stop. I'd love some advice on this. Thank you! :)
Then don't bother with our opinions, talk to him. He is the one who should understand what this does to you and how it affects you overall. This is your relationship and as a dominant, I would want to know if something negative was happening due to something I was doing with my submissive.
Communicate.
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