Musicmystery
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I think it would be a small and harmless step. It would be the well-mannered thing to do. Don't make a big deal of it, just do it, and move on. I do very much believe in good manners in social policy - strange, not to say trivial, though that may sound. As a sociologist friend of mine once said, 'good manners lubricate social interaction'. (He really did speak like that, bless him.) It's like a bit of a handshake and a tiny, tiny hint of, 'I'm sorry, that was somewhat shitty, what happened, back then'. Such little things can help an awful lot, IMO. You go to a pub some time later and find, to your surprise, that there are black blokes and white blokes sitting together, as pals, the edge between them now fluffed away just enough for that to happen. I agree. Sometime it is just a manner of manners and yet, there are people who do make a big deal out of it. Such is the power of privilege and tradition. Still, I remain hopeful that eventually the right thing will be done and the New Onodaga (the capital of New Iroquois) Lacrosse Team will drop the name "Pastyskins," despite their claim that it honors the English as worthy opponents. As I live in the middle of that territory (between the Onondagas and the Oneidas), I can tell you that "Iroquois" is the French name and they don't like it. Their name is Haudenosaunee. As long as we're at it.
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