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MistressEvilfair -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 12:29:09 AM)

Also be into fetish and participating in fetish are two different things.
It isn't like I was experimenting at 15 I just knew the ins and outs and enjoyed them.
I started to participate when I was 16.




Rawni -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 12:29:18 AM)

Now who is jumping to conclusions? You did it earlier too. Assuming that others aren't valid in what they do and you are. Assuming that at least I judge you because you didn't live the same way I did. Wrong.

I am not per say judging you... however, I might be judging your parents.




MistressEvilfair -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 12:30:52 AM)

Firstly I wasn't saying you were judging me. I do apologize on that note and should've stated.
Secondly I don't think my parents been open about sex is wrong.
I guess people live in different ways.




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 12:42:50 AM)

FR
'You're a fake', 'omg ur a man unless you show me your titties' and 'These bitches just want money they're not asking for pay piggies in the honorable way I am!' have been around as long as I've been on the internet. I can't quite believe this is still surprising to you with your vast experience.




MistressEvilfair -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 1:02:08 AM)

I haven't actually been searching the internet for that long.
The only site I have been on regarding fetish is fetlife.
I signed up on that site 4/5 year ago and didn't return to it til last year.
I just didn't see the point. I kept it in chat rooms.
As for the I'm a man, that isn't my sore point. It's the fake comments that piss me off.
I'm just gonna stick to fetlife where most of my subs are.
It's easier than getting hate messages.




MariaB -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 1:10:07 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Rawni

So now child abuse is acceptable by calling it open minded parenting?

Interesting.


Exactly this ^

If your parents had you fully into BDSM by the time you were 15 you were an abused child and all the years before 18 don't count as experience.




Rawni -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 1:25:26 AM)

The op can't even keep her story straight. She started experimenting and participating at 15 in one post and then it went to 16. Besides a few other things.

Sad. The whole thing is really, really sad. But hey, maybe not too sad... if she was just elaborating. [;)]




ThePrincessKali -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 1:42:36 AM)

Profile not found. Damn, I wanted to see it. I'm betting she was trying to advertise herself.




ResidentSadist -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 2:46:49 AM)

Look, I was 15 when I entered the lifestyle. I don't think you are lying. But at your age, vanilla or otherwise, why do you get touchy about strangers thinking you are a fake? I mean, isn't an "instaDomme" a derogatory term for a fake? Don't you list yourself as a Finny, the very thing you think so many are faking? Why blame them for thinking the same way you do?

Change your profile and stop complaining instead of hiding. It really makes you look hypocritical and unbelievable.




MistressEvilfair -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 3:41:31 AM)

Okay, this has clearly gone on a little too long. I am sorry, I shouldn't have posted it.

I wanted to see peoples reactions to what I said.

I am so sorry. I only changed that profile this morning to see what people said. I am only here seeking slaves for trampling and a mistress to multi trample.

I was picking up on what someone had written on fetlife about instadommes and I wanted to see what people actually said.

I have been on the scene for 9/10 years and yes I did participate in my first real fet session at 16 (legal age in UK)

My other domme friends and I were curious as to what others thought about it.

I am so sorry.





Blonderfluff -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 3:57:00 AM)

You just posted on another thread, looking for someone to trample. Change your mind about us "crazy " people over here, or have you not had quite enough attention yet?





MistressEvilfair -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 4:01:38 AM)

Actually I was told there were a few ladies on here who do trampling, hence why I am here in the first place or I wouldn't be on here at all. I will only be looking for two weeks on here and if no luck I am going to give it up as a bad job and hope that in the future I make his dream come true. The only reason I posted on here is as I stated earlier was to see reactions of the people who are actually on here. I sincerely apologize, my friends and I were a little pissed and decided to gauge the reaction (one of them is a findomme herself,I however stopped doing it around 6 months ago) we did it because of the post on fetlife and I suppose she was seeing what the site was like. Not all of those posts were my own, they were written by my girl friends too.

I do apologize, booze does funny things to you!




ExquisiteStings -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 4:35:44 AM)

To Mistressevilfair: Blaming it on the booze?? Gee, there's one we haven't heard before! However, with the way your posting seems to go on endlessly, maybe have your liver checked out, cuz the hooch is still affecting you, it seems.




angelikaJ -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 4:41:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ExquisiteStings

To Mistressevilfair: Blaming it on the booze?? Gee, there's one we haven't heard before! However, with the way your posting seems to go on endlessly, maybe have your liver checked out, cuz the hooch is still affecting you, it seems.


Blaming it on booze and other people posting under her account; I can see that personal responsibility really isn't all that high on her list.

(Which is a flaming red flag regarding one's suitability as someone to do dangerous BDSM-y things with.)




ResidentSadist -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 4:45:56 AM)

OK, "multi trample" is not inline with the OP but, I gotta' ask because I have never seen it. I have seen a group of Dommes gang up on a slave but, they were beating him. So I looked up some videos and the ones I found, only one person was on top at a time. In this multi trample thing, are you all on the slave at once or one at a time? Won't that squish'em flat if you more than one of gets on them? Curious minds want to know.

[;)]




MistressEvilfair -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 5:18:17 AM)

I have never done multi trampling only myself. I know a few people have had more than one woman stood on them at any one time. My partner has a high pain tolerance, I should know, I have kicked the guy in the balls and he didn't budge. Was kinda creepy. I also worry I will squish him too much but he is adamant he will be fine, so I soldier on to make his wish come true. The only worrying thing is he wants both to stand on his head at the same time, I have enough trouble just doing it myself!
I would however been intrigued to do multi trampling the other way round with two on the floor and one on top. That would be interesting to see how long they could last.
If you must know we were celebrating the memory of my granny who recently passed away. So yeah, we had been drinking since 5pm last night and I still have yet to sleep.




windchymes -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 5:18:19 AM)

It's like she just keeps adding sticks to the fire, one at a time, just to see how long it will keep burning.




ExquisiteStings -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 5:35:58 AM)

Angelika - amen to the "red flag" annotation.

Resident Sadist -  trampling by multiple Dommes on one guy or whatever the genders of the giving & recieving parties were: it all depends on how big, muscular or pain/squish/discomfort level the tramplee is/has & a huge factor goes to the tramplers in how heavy or dainty they might be in structure.
I've seen it done by a few in the commerical dungeon where I used to work in So. FL.  For part of the time, there were a few on the guy at once/ for the other part..just one really big Dominantrix who dwarfed ME at 6'5".
To Wyndchimes - I'll just take a hose to the fire..I'm going to sleep.

'night ya'll

ES




MistressEvilfair -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 5:40:27 AM)

I ain't the one that keeps posting, I just reply to a question anyone asks.
Thankfully I won't have to visit this site, I truly did google collarme and holy shit the amount of people that hate this site is just astounding.

So yeah. wade through a mountain of bullshit just to hit one diamond in the rough. Not really worth the effort in all honesty.




ResidentSadist -> RE: Instadommes (1/7/2014 5:46:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressEvilfair
. . . I also worry I will squish him too much but he is adamant he will be fine, so I soldier on to make his wish come true. The only worrying thing is he wants both to stand on his head at the same time, I have enough trouble just doing it myself! . . .


What a great set up for a mind fuck. Get two of the biggest, heaviest Dommes you can find . . . waltz them in and tell him they are gonna do the macarena on his ass.

My respect to granny. RIP

Good luck cleaning up the chaotic first impression you made on the forums with everyone. We are pretty tired of the Findom complaints and meaningless or silly post from Findoms or about Dindoms. The membership is also rather astute at verifying stories, backgrounds and pictures... ot keeping your story straight will find you in disfavor rather quickly around here. It's best to play it straight, say what you mean and mean what you say. This isn't a group that likes being toyed with, and underestimated the IQ of the membership is a mistake. Many are quite sincere about their time and posts here. They feel disrespected when they feel some asks them to reply sincerely but it's just BS. They do respect accountability and some of these mean old bastards and bastradettes can be forgiving on a good day.






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