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Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in mis... - 12/6/2013 6:02:21 PM   
Ladytisha


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Status: offline 		I recently noticed a switch viewing my profile a number of times a week. When I finally sent this switch a message asking "interested?"
he immediately sends a message back stating he and I can only be friend because of the distance and good luck with my search. I am a little throw off because
I only asked a question. when I said he was assuming and that I had no interest in him, I figured if you going to view me 3 or 4 times a week say something.
I was then given attitude.

My question is, Is 3-4 times a week view of your profile by the same person a log in error?

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 6:11:16 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		It's entirely possible that he bookmarked this site as a favorite while the browser was
opened on your profile. Stranger things have been known to happen. :)





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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 6:11:57 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ladytisha
My question is, Is 3-4 times a week view of your profile by the same person a log in error?

Nope. But, on the other hand, what you described wasn't "attitude." Maybe the way he phrased it was obnoxious, and that's not coming across. But telling someone directly, "Because of the distance, I'm only interested in looking at your profile and enjoying what I can't have," seems like an honest and decent thing to do.

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 6:13:23 PM   
Ladytisha


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Status: offline 		to add icing to the cake he tells me im hiding your profile I can see my error is bothering you.

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 6:25:48 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I think that was very polite of him.

You write him, not to say hello but to ask if he's interested.
He explains that because of location, that's not a possibility.

And you got shirty.

Since you seem to think that everyone has to get your permission to look at your profile, he agreed to put you on hide so you won't be offended by him viewing yours.

If he wants to view it a hundred times a week, he can. You can't control that. Either accept that people do things which may seem senseless to you or don't view who looks at your profile.

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 6:27:23 PM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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Status: offline 		There are several subs (and sometimes Dominants) who return to view My profile weekly or at least monthly. I don't make much of it except that perhaps there is some content they enjoy reading (some of them have told Me this is the reason). In some instances it may be a person's photo that draws them, but for whatever reason they aren't looking to actually connect. I'm fine with people just looking.

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 7:43:30 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I view people's profiles from time to time. Sometimes often, usually because their profile is so fucking stupid or hilarious it's like watching a train wreck. Doesn't mean I have an interest. It just means there's something about your profile that is entertaining to me and probably not in a good way, more like Jerry Springer entertaining.

I think it was you who presumed too much.

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 7:51:49 PM   
Ladytisha


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Status: offline 		So sending a message saying interested? Is presuming too much? I in no way say stalking or hey I know your interested in me you keep coming by my profile. I don't presume anything.
quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I view people's profiles from time to time. Sometimes often, usually because their profile is so fucking stupid or hilarious it's like watching a train wreck. Doesn't mean I have an interest. It just means there's something about your profile that is entertaining to me and probably not in a good way, more like Jerry Springer entertaining.

I think it was you who presumed too much.


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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 7:58:08 PM   
Ladytisha


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Status: offline 		No one needs "permission" and shirty in no way. Could of been disrespect but for what? Assuming someone wants to make a connection off a question? Wow.....
quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I think that was very polite of him.

You write him, not to say hello but to ask if he's interested.
He explains that because of location, that's not a possibility.

And you got shirty.

Since you seem to think that everyone has to get your permission to look at your profile, he agreed to put you on hide so you won't be offended by him viewing yours.

If he wants to view it a hundred times a week, he can. You can't control that. Either accept that people do things which may seem senseless to you or don't view who looks at your profile.


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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 8:00:07 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Or you could have just ignored it and if they were interested they would have written to let you know. Personally I couldn't care less how many times someone views me. I just don't even look to see who has viewed me except to clean it out every once in awhile because the red words annoy the hell out of me. It's an OCD thing.

Plus that person was not being rude or have an attitude. He was simply honest with you. I would have written back and said "thank you for your honesty and I wish you the best of luck in your search". Why throw a fit about it?


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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 8:00:42 PM   
Ladytisha


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Status: offline 		That's fine just as easy as you pointed that out, could of said something to that effect rather then thinking its a pick up line
quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

It's entirely possible that he bookmarked this site as a favorite while the browser was
opened on your profile. Stranger things have been known to happen. :)






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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 8:03:57 PM   
Ladytisha


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Status: offline 		Throw a fit for what? Over the Internet? Lol....dam my laugh for the night. Thanks for the input......lol
quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Or you could have just ignored it and if they were interested they would have written to let you know. Personally I couldn't care less how many times someone views me. I just don't even look to see who has viewed me except to clean it out every once in awhile because the red words annoy the hell out of me. It's an OCD thing.

Plus that person was not being rude or have an attitude. He was simply honest with you. I would have written back and said "thank you for your honesty and I wish you the best of luck in your search". Why throw a fit about it?



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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 8:12:20 PM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ladytisha

That's fine just as easy as you pointed that out, could of said something to that
effect rather then thinking its a pick up line
quote:

ORIGINAL: poise
It's entirely possible that he bookmarked this site as a favorite while the browser was
opened on your profile. Stranger things have been known to happen. :)



I can certainly see why he decided to hide your profile, as you seem to be suffering
from a severe case of supersuckyreadingcomprehensionitis.

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 8:37:07 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		So you're not throwing a fit but you post a complaint about someone viewing your profile and then when no one agrees with you, you decide to have a few rude words of your own. ookie dokie then.


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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/6/2013 8:39:10 PM   
Blonderfluff


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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ladytisha

That's fine just as easy as you pointed that out, could of said something to that
effect rather then thinking its a pick up line
quote:

ORIGINAL: poise
It's entirely possible that he bookmarked this site as a favorite while the browser was
opened on your profile. Stranger things have been known to happen. :)



I can certainly see why he decided to hide your profile, as you seem to be suffering
from a severe case of supersuckyreadingcomprehensionitis.

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/7/2013 6:37:29 AM   
thishereboi


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Maybe he just likes looking at cock pics. Only one of the pics is actually you and you can't see much in that one. The rest are all men. He might just be into porn. Personally I think it was nice of him to hide you since it was obviously an issue.

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/7/2013 7:03:22 AM   
freedomdwarf1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ladytisha
...I am a little throw off because I only asked a question.

...I figured if you going to view me 3 or 4 times a week say something.


Those two bits in your post show that you have a huge chip on your shoulder and have instant attitude problems about it.

And yet, in post #9, you say "...and shirty in no way" - but you were!

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/7/2013 7:45:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		You probably caught him perving you and touching himself. That's why he's so touchy about it.

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/7/2013 8:10:54 AM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		I would go with him being gay or bi and liking the photos...all of yours are of submissive men's penises and in ladies' underwear....he may just be a "closet" case who has not admitted to himself he likes men... He is looking at a woman's profile but inside it is all guy...kind of like having a Hustler magazine cover with Playgirl pages inside.

BTW-does anyone else occasionally look at their "who is viewing you" & think WTH. Sometimes I seem REALLY popular with couples and lesbians and think..."this is why I can't meet men...I am more attractive to women than men"...next thought though is " Murphy's law-if I WAS a lesbian then only straight men would perv me!"

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RE: Does viewing your Profile 3-4 times a week a log in... - 12/7/2013 9:01:09 AM   
Spiritedsub2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
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BTW-does anyone else occasionally look at their "who is viewing you" & think WTH. Sometimes I seem REALLY popular with couples and lesbians and think..."this is why I can't meet men...I am more attractive to women than men"...next thought though is " Murphy's law-if I WAS a lesbian then only straight men would perv me!"


God yes. I am very popular with gay male and trans subs. And I don't have squat for pictures to perv.


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