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CatBBW -> RE: Hello from a UK SSBBW! (9/24/2013 3:41:19 PM)
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ORIGINAL: TigressLily
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It's bound to happen, the cowardly déclassé types who leave rude, nasty messages. At first it was the ones who couldn't take no for an answer--subs, switches, Doms alike. Now every so often I get an out-of-the-blue rant from some dude who doesn't like what criteria I specified in my profile because he thinks it's unfair to be pre-excluded. Like WTF? Most of these guys don't even bother to read a Domme's profile; they could really care less what it is we are seeking.
If you've noticed the message hover feature, you can Delete Unread an objectionable message that really doesn't deserve a response. This tends to have the effect of a slap in the face. I didn't start doing this until about a month ago, and it's had 100% success rate. If someone is truly offensive or bothersome, then you'll have to open their message to block the sender (or access their profile via other mechanisms). You can use your discretion whether to report the message first before blocking. I've only had to do this half a dozen times. Well, actually 2-3 times I should have reported the harassing messages instead of Deleting Unread, because the senders were so vile. (One was a "sub" who showed his true colors by calling me a c*nt, 2 were psycho misogynistic "Doms".)
Most of your senders are attention-seekers, so good for you to take things in stride. Best of luck.
Thanks TigressLily :) I've had YEARS of experience on forums, so attention seekers are par for the course. Happy to say I know where my Delete button is [:D]
I LOVE the hover over message feature, but in this instance I wanted to block and hide everything, so had to wade on in. Which is fine, because it's still an "ignore". I did read the profile before though, and had to LOL that he spoke about how much of a respectful gentleman he is...I guess that's only afforded to the people HE finds acceptable.
I've received all sorts of messages, from people who want to date me (erm...does this LOOK like match.com?) through to people who want to eat my toilet waste. The ones that I bother to reply to, to point at my profile, come back with a whiiiiiiiiiine "but I don't WAAANNAAA, I just thought you would let me worship your pussy and use me as a sex slaaaaaaave, waaaaah". [8|]
Generally I've found the ladies are better at reading - which is good, because I am seeking female play partners and if they can read what I'm looking for, then I might get lucky ;)
Thanks for the welcome! :)
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