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TigressLily -> RE: Strap-ons (9/13/2013 10:36:52 PM)
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ORIGINAL: SweetT88
My ex was big in to this bdsm, now I am. I was her slave, sucked her toes, got tied up, blind folded, whatever she wanted. But the craziest experience was the strap-on. I was her slave but we live very vanilla for the most part and this was a complete shock when I saw it. I complied with her wishes but it really hurt at first, but after the second time it was quite enjoyable, is that normal?
You don't say whether you had been using graduating-size butt plugs or dildos. From the way it sounds, she just one day whipped out a strap-on when you were least expecting it. Under those circumstances, a resounding NO, not a common response just the 3rd time around. However, if you & your wife had been engaging in ass play prior to that momentous event, and you had been properly prepped, then YEAH, no reason for you not to have enjoyed it while you were in a more relaxed state. Males have a prostate gland (as already mentioned by hylasEA--holla, over there in the Netherlands), which when stimulated can arouse different pleasurable sensations than they would otherwise experience via direct penile stimulation (although when combined, you will achieve optimal results). My last sub was able to reach orgasm solely by anal penetration, as a matter of fact, sans any stroking.
This is a touchy subject for most men, but what both men & women often haven't come to terms with is that many of us are anal-erotic. It's another dimension of sexuality which isn't contingent on sexual orientation. In other words, enjoying receiving anal sex doesn't make a man any less heterosexual, or a lesbian any less homosexual, and with straight females I suppose it's not relevant (unless they simply can't get into it). No, I didn't take a poll, but I'll take bets - and I don't gamble - that men who are fixated with giving anal are vicariously experiencing receiving anal, and can be quite obsessive about it. This would include quite a few male Dominants, as well. Based on the ones who contact me, despite my lack of interest in Topping Doms or switches, it's a toss up between wanting anal play & foot/shoe fetishes or both, I kid you not.
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