LoveBostonSub
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I've been on CollarMe for around a month now and haven't yet ventured over onto the forum section - so I figured why not try making a little post here. I'll take a roundabout route to introducing myself, and just say a bit my feelings towards certain things and the reason I feel like I'm here.
The sad fact is that it seems submissive men are a dime a dozen here, while a strong and beautiful dominant woman is a rare treasure. Not to say that all the guys seem to be subpar, nor that there is a total scarcity for woman, just that a lot of people of both sexes fall into pretty dull and predictable categories. Note that I'm talking mainly about sub guys and Domme Woman, as those are the only two I really know about.
For the guys: They like to list their kinks like this is some sort of 'pick-your-fantasy' site where all women will be happy to oblige them. I guess this makes a little more sense if you're dominant, but as far as other subs go, I think they need to get their priorities straight. For me, one of my #1 rules is: my kinks don't matter! If, as a sub, I'm truly there to satisfy the Domme's kinks, then it's quite irrelevant what my particular favorites are, unless I'm asked directly for a specific reason, like say, to deny me what I like most or to make sure a 'punishment' isn't actually something I love. After all, if I love being paddled or whipped, then that's hardly a punishment at all - if anything, that's a reward. I'd say that's as much use as a Domme really gets out of her sub's kinks, and that comes later in a relationship anyway. And a bit of advice to the guys out there: Learn to spell!!! I'm obviously not a woman, or a Domme, but I can't imagine it's enticing to begin a conversation with a sub with worse grammar than a 4th grader. Cock pics, "Hey ur hot" messages, or anything else of the sort also show a huge deficiency of character, so I think some guys need to wake the **** up.
For the women: Well, it's hard for me to criticize, as a sub male on a site called CollarMe, much of anything about the domme woman here. I'm not a fan of financial domination - not because I'm too broke or anything like that, but to me it just kind of crosses a line into using a guy where it's questionable if the Domme even enjoys her position or just considers it a paycheck. For that reason, this is the one kink I won't indulge. Taking a Domme out for a fancy dinner, good champagne, etc., all make sense, but sending money through the internet as a form of servitude is something I won't do.
Woo, well I already wrote more than I intended to for that brief introduction, as I haven't really even gotten to me yet. So let me stop the extraneous chatter and get to the matter at hand - although I will say that I think some of my above comments might do a better job telling you who I am then me doing it directly. Nonetheless, I will try.
I'm a 26 year old male, currently in school because I took a number of years off working before I really had an idea of what I wanted to do. Now that I've figured that out (and I'd be happy to get more specific privately, but for now let's say I've settled on biological sciences, and I quite enjoy it), I'm really enjoying school a lot more than I did as an 18-20 year old with no clue why I was attending classes. Very luckily for me, while I was taking some time off working I had the good fortune to inherit enough cash to make sure I can get through school to the Doctorate level, and live in comfort meanwhile. What's missing is a dominant lady who can enjoy that comfort that I will work diligently to provide.
Physically: I'm tall (6'4") and thin with short brown hair and blue eyes. I'm a white male, and while I never considered myself very good looking I think I've had the good fortune to be one that gets better with age. I think I clean up very nicely in a well tailored suit and a nice shirt from a store like Pink. P.s.: I do have pics available for anyone that is interested, I'd just rather not post them here for all the world to see.
So, like I said, I don't think there's any point going on about my kinks, which are myriad and flexible. For one, it seems like that's just considered bad form in this introduction section. But second, ideally I'm looking for a relationship with a D/s basis, normal to outsiders but with her in charge whenever she decides to exert her power. I love the idea of taking a trip somewhere exotic and never knowing when I'd be made to kiss her feet, give oral on the spot, or don a maids outfit to clean the hotel room. Granted, those 3 examples must be somewhat tailored to my kinks, but the point is it's very exciting when woven into daily life as the sub will always be on edge, not knowing when the next task or humiliation may be. There's something especially fun about doing it when traveling - after all, you generally never see anyone again from a trip and are therefore a little more free to do whatever. Having to bend down and kiss both of the Domme's feet in the middle of a nice hotel lobby is just one thing that comes to mind.
Besides traveling, I love fine dining and trying new foods - if any really good restaurant has a Chef's menu or tasting menu, I love going through course after course of small but absolutely delectable foods. Movies, theaters, and a nice night out with a bottle of wine are all things I enjoy as well. I'm just here hoping I can find someone that will enjoy all these things with me, and then use me as they see fit.
Anyway, I suppose that's enough for now. Hi from Boston! Thanks for reading.
< Message edited by LoveBostonSub -- 8/30/2013 11:00:48 PM >
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Hello All! Boston Area Sub, hopefully not run of the mill - 
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