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hello - 6/18/2013 4:12:17 PM

starly87

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hello so new to the site ...but not to the kink in my blood ........
someone told me to come here ima threshold dom or something like that and i need more info

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RE: hello - 6/18/2013 5:03:04 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Greetings and welcome to Cm and the forums. You have come to the right place to learn more about the lifestyle as there is a real good group of folks on this side with a vast knowledge about it all. Don't be afraid to ask questions, though sometimes newbies may need a thick skin here. Some of the people are really kewl and others not so much, but please take each advice given and no matter how it comes across knowing they are sharing their knowledge with you free of charge.

A couple of things that might help you....
-Have questions... they may have already been answered. Use the 'Search' function (upper right), and go through some of the older threads you might find an answer there.
-Check out ResidentSadist book list, its a great list and can help you get info on WIITWD.

Hope to see you stick around and become part of the poster here and that you enjoy your time here well doing so. Always nice to have a new face among us.

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RE: hello - 6/18/2013 5:41:38 PM

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You are safe, you don't have to do BDSM because there is no such thing as a threshold-dom in our world or on this site. Now if you are sincerely interested in BDSM, well, in that case, welcome aboard. But the person who told you that you are Threshold Dom is wrong to advise you to come here to a BDSM site. If you want to be a Threshold Dom, you have to go back to OK Cupid the vanilla dating site . . . which is the only place in the world that term exists and the only place you can be a threshold-dom. I suggest you tell your obviously vanilla friend to stop playing Dr. Phil and get their facts straight before they send people plummeting into the world of BDSM with misinformation because neither your friend, their terminology, their advice or their information source (OK Cupid) have anything to do with real BDSM.

"threshold dom" is a personally test result category from the Dom or Sub Test at OK Cupid

Don't bother taking it. I looked at it and it is totally ridiculous. Some user created test that has nothing to do with BDSM, the leather lifestyle or dominance and submission. Test result can be:

Highly submissive
Total sub. You're on a very short leash, my friend. Your partner controls everything you say and do in bed, and probably out too. Do you even have willpower of your own? (Not that being submissive is ... Read more

Threshold - sub
During sex, you like to be the one who does the pleasuring or takes the brunt of your partner's desire. You can be domineering, but you prefer the submissive life because, hey, it's just fun. Now get ... Read more

Perfectly balanced
You and your partner share equal power. Neither of you is completely dominant or completely submissive. You have reached that beautiful harmony in your relationship that others are so jealous of. You ... Read more

Threshold - dom
If you're in the mood, you'll be the sub, but you tend to take on the dominant role in the relationship. Whether your partner just enjoys pleasuring you or they (or you) have serious psychological pro... Read more

Highly dominant
Yeow! You know what you like and you know how to get it. Your partner is on their knees every night (whether because they crumble under your awesome sexual power, or you force them down), and probably... Read more

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RE: hello - 6/19/2013 3:56:47 AM

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Welcome star!

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