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ScorpionEyes -> RE: Hey there (6/13/2013 8:10:57 PM)
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I apologize for my indirect comments. Most of the time, I just talk like that when I'm uncomfortable.
Our relationship is probably the best thing that's happened to either of us in a long time, so I'm not really talking about that. The idea of us engaging in BDSM sex more and more is important to her. When we've tried, I end up very uncomfortable with the whole situation. Me getting better, more comfortable, and more informed, and thus able to give this experience to her is important to her. She wants me to understand something special to her and to bring me into that world, so I can experience it with her. That will make her happy. Why wouldn't I want to do that? If my babygirl wants me to tie her up and treat her like a slave - it's obvious why I'm very apprehensive about that, but it's not the worst thing she could ask of me, and I'm willing to learn.
Thanking whatever Gods may be, communication is excellent with us. We both know our limits, soft and hard. I've had two women before her and her two men before me. But, due to the age difference, that's still more cumulative experience with her. Judging by how difficult it is for her to walk most of the time, I think I'm learning pretty quickly.
My lovely girlfriend hasn't been pushing things, allowing me to do this as I'm ready. But, I know this is something she wants. I'll explain more when I can sort out what I know she's into and maybe have another discussion so I'm not mistaking anything.
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