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MaleModel -> Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 12:35:32 PM)

I haven't seen much about Dommes wanting to "show off" their subs.  Do many Dommes like this?
 
My Mistress loves to do that to/with me.  It ranges from my wearing pink dress shirts to work to pink thongs at the beach, and semi-fetishwear sometimes (parties/clubs).  When she's feeling particularly frisky or Dominant, I'll have my pants tented or even stained with pre-cum--she loves the look that others give us as I follow her around.
 
Just curious whether many women like this.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 12:43:05 PM)

Some do, some don't.  I love getting attention and showing off my keen fashion sense, and definitely enjoy when someone shows me off.

But my partners are far more on the shy side/not into that sort of thing.



peterK50 -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 1:06:17 PM)

If my nick was "MaleModel" a Dom/me  might want to show me off. However, it isn't, usually my owners throw a tarp over me.



LadyHugs -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 1:16:16 PM)

Dear peterK50;
 
I'm shocked lad--you look rather wonderful from your photograph!
 
I would be proud to show you like a prized possession.
 
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs



LadyHugs -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 1:20:56 PM)

Dear MaleModel, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I have had many occassions to dominate male models, professional male models, body builders and good looking men.
 
Some love the attention as to pose as a slave and such and, some really hate people drooling over them like cheap meat--they are people to--sometimes people forget that.
 
In summary, it depends on the male slave/submissive.  You don't have to be muscle or a model, an average man can be extremely thrilling for the eyes to enjoy.  It really is hard to miss the glow of a submissive and or slave that exceeds the boundaries of the body itself.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs



DelRey -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 1:24:01 PM)

I love showing off my sub/slave wheather it be in an evening gown, Biker short, short, shorts with a very thin see through white, braless tank top or anything in between.

Now I just need to find the "right" slut to show off.



ClassAct2006 -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 1:38:22 PM)

I love being shown off, looking good in expensive shoes and nice dresses, but it's more shown off as looking feminine, pretty and in that sense normal rather than a D/S kind of being shown off.



peterK50 -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 1:48:34 PM)

Thank you LsdyHugs..............are those bifocals?



desertdancer -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 1:49:06 PM)

Peter, I'm no domme, but with a body like you have in your pic, I'd show you off.  I have to say you've got one of the best male sub pictures I've seen and it's always a joy to peek at, though no-on turns me on like Master, I can appreciate beauty * nod nods*

~dancer



peterK50 -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 2:05:16 PM)

Thank you desertdancer Miss   [sm=hello.gif]



DoctorDubious -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 2:37:19 PM)

Often, public display of a submissive,
is used as a humiliation technique,
or in some form of role-play.

Each to their own,
but I have little remaining
interest in humiliation... or fantasy play.

Fantasy and role play bore me, I prefer reality.

When I display My Woman,
and I do so on occasion, in certain places...
.... and only when and if My Treasure is ready...
it is as a further training and lesson
in true and profound submission for her.

I treasure all my possessions,
and care for them VERY well,
which seems only proper when
on seeks to only own the finest things.

I feel a small twinge of irritation
when I see someone sloppy and careless
with a Rolex, a Bently, a Faberge,
or the finest possession of all... their Woman.

When I display my cherished possesions,
I am reminding myself of the pride and
responsibility of ownership ...
which has real duties,
as every Owner knows.

And my precious possession
submits in the knowledge that
I have her best interests at heart...
... that I'm as devoted to guiding her fully
to the purest expression of her submissive desires,
... as she is devoted to obeying my every Directive..

Why anyone would degrade or abuse
the pure, serving heart of a woman who exists only
to love and serve, entertain and pleasure me
is simply beyond my understanding.

I'm not critisizing those who do this...
... each to their own I say...
just noting that I lack the understanding
of how degredation could help
to make more noble either the owner or the owned.

And aren't we in search of
nobility, dignity, self respect and self expression.

I can revere my woman,
even as I direct and dominate her completely.

Likewise....
when my Treasured One is displayed,
it's not only me who feels pride and nobility.

The displayed one is gently taught
how to deeply and completely feel
the same pride and nobility that comes
from being the finest possession
that any man could ever have.

A display of this intent,
perhaps a stroll with collar and leash
on a nude beach, with me simply dressed,
and my woman walking behind,
shoulders tall...held held high ...
without a shred of shame, or fear, or self-consciousness
secure in the knowledge that she is a treasure beyond all purchase!

Now that is how one displays an esteemed possession!

Doctor Dubious
Ps... if somebody would like to educate
a clueless old goat like me as to the value
of humiliation and shame, I would love to learn.
I'm sure there's something there for me.

I ask, as I am not from "The Community"
or "The Lifestyle" ... I evoved my domination alone and
apart from your charming society, and I find it fascinating.
I have never before posted on a bondage site,
and will only do so until My Woman and I find each other.

Teach me YOUR ways,
so our time spent here together can be useful.



MaleModel -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 3:02:16 PM)

DelRey comes the closest to what Mistress Lauren does......she shows me off for Her pleasure, not because I like it.
 
Sometimes I do like it, other times I feel like a piece of meat on display......might as well be in the supermarket  <<<<< I think it's these times that SHE enjoys the most......my pants being tented still does embarass me......consequently she enjoys it more........but it's getting less as I get more used to it.



genvieve -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 3:33:21 PM)

Actually, Sir.  i'd have to disagree with You.  Personally, i adore being shown off and take pride in the fact that my Dominant is proud of His possession.  It isn't humilliating in the least.
 
But that's just me.
 
-warm smile-
 
-genvieve



joyinslavery -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 4:09:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MaleModel

I haven't seen much about Dommes wanting to "show off" their subs.  Do many Dommes like this?
 
My Mistress loves to do that to/with me.  It ranges from my wearing pink dress shirts to work to pink thongs at the beach, and semi-fetishwear sometimes (parties/clubs).  When she's feeling particularly frisky or Dominant, I'll have my pants tented or even stained with pre-cum--she loves the look that others give us as I follow her around.
 
Just curious whether many women like this.



MaleModel, you're a lucky man to have someone to show you off so congratulations!   You seem a bit exhibitionistic so your nick is well chosen.  Have fun!

Okay, now back to The Ladies...   [sm=smile.gif]

Oh, forgot to add...MaleModel, I would put a question like this in "Ask a Mistress" since you seem to be asking for opinions from Dommes.  Just a thought. 



MstrTiger -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 4:21:14 PM)


I absolutely despise being sleazed at so I don’t like the idea of putting a slave in a position that makes it more likely the thought of dirty old pervs looking at my property makes my skin crawl.



mensch -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 4:36:48 PM)

It's all about context.  As ClassAct points out, showing off can be a totally vanilla pleasure hence "arm furniture".  And what's the pleasure there? For the owner of the arm it's trophy display and for the "furniture" it's a sense of high value (not talking Chippendale! - for those of you who are thinking otherwise, Chippendale was an 18C cabinet-maker in London, England).  The D/s couple showing off the sub in a vanilla environment - I think that's something very different: it's a joint challenge to others' sensitivities and boundaries.  That's when a sub can feel great pride and confidence (rather than humiliation) becase this is a team with two members, enjoying the attention and, often, admiration of the vanilla audience. And then there's showing off your sub a local dungeon - now the doors are wide open: the sub may feel anything from utter pride to vicious humiliation, it all depends on the detail.

Personally, because that is the fun part, I do enjoy having my woman dress just slightly too provocatively for it to go totally unnoticed as we walk down the street.



reticence -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 4:44:21 PM)

Peter,  If I was a domme and you were my property,  I would show you off every day, my buttons would just pop with pride.

My Master used to like to show me off, i guess i was younger and thinner then.  It was nice to look up into his eyes and see the pride on his face and something about knowing I was the source of that pride.  It would put me in that floaty kind of subspace often.  At first it bothered me, but I realized that was just my ego, what he was doing had nothing to do with me, he was showing off that which was his.



MstrTiger -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 4:56:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mensch

It's all about context.  As ClassAct points out, showing off can be a totally vanilla pleasure hence "arm furniture".  And what's the pleasure there? For the owner of the arm it's trophy display and for the "furniture" it's a sense of high value (not talking Chippendale! - for those of you who are thinking otherwise, Chippendale was an 18C cabinet-maker in London, England).  The D/s couple showing off the sub in a vanilla environment - I think that's something very different: it's a joint challenge to others' sensitivities and boundaries.  That's when a sub can feel great pride and confidence (rather than humiliation) becase this is a team with two members, enjoying the attention and, often, admiration of the vanilla audience. And then there's showing off your sub a local dungeon - now the doors are wide open: the sub may feel anything from utter pride to vicious humiliation, it all depends on the detail.

Personally, because that is the fun part, I do enjoy having my woman dress just slightly too provocatively for it to go totally unnoticed as we walk down the street.



Thomas Chippendale was from Yorkshire.



LokisBrat -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 5:02:31 PM)

I take great pride in "showing" my brat off.  She feels a great sense of achievement with her servitude when I am "showing" her off.  Not to mention it pleases me to see her in all her pride and glory.  This is mainly used as a reward system in my household.  When she does well, I will take her out, "show" her off.  When she screws up, well that's a paddlin and I might just be inclined to "show" off my red hand prints on her ass.  Which I might add, she wears so very well.  It really is her color, it brings out her eyes.[sm=rolleyes.gif]

LOKI



mensch -> RE: Showing off your sub (6/26/2006 5:09:32 PM)

You are right, Thomas Chippendale was from Yorkshire, but his fame as a cabinet maker was whilst working in London. I am less interested in where people are from than where they are going.

You seem to have a chip on your shoulder.  You shouldn't, Cumbria is beautiful. 



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