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Focus50 -> RE: Gillard government shortchanging men in health funding (5/21/2013 4:27:19 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady I certainly didn't call men fools, was just stating facts. Got one of 'em right here: "As much as men think with their penis".... [;)] quote:
I believe it is important for men to take care of their health. I don't think that men live in "denial," more that they have sadly been raised to believe they must "push through the pain," and figure it will go away. My father was one of those "fools." He NEVER went to the doctor. He was a butcher, and I can't tell you how many times growing up he came home with some serious cuts on his fingers (it happens quite often in that field), yet he NEVER went and got stitches. Put on a tight bandage to close it up and went on with his day. Then one day he was so sick, he had no choice but to go to the doctor. He died 7 months later. Here in the states, we are seeing many more commercials regarding erectile dysfunction, in an attempt to get men to not feel ashamed of it and realize that it might be a very simple problem with a solution, or even a bigger one that still has a solution. We aren't seeing commercials on prostate cancer yet, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't. Part of the reason we have all the publicity on breast and ovarian cancer is because for years, these women's issues were disregarded, or were given a "let's wait and see attitude." So women were (rightly) outraged over it, just like we now have more publicity toward heart attacks in women because again, this issue was often disregarded in women, and because symptoms for women can be so different than for men, heart problems were misdiagnosed. Here and there, we will see men outraged that there isn't more public health alerts/information about men's issues. Yet, none of those men are ever doing much more than whining about it. Why? I don't know, but maybe if enough of you men got outraged and started doing something about it that would change. Overall, you're right. As I said of myself, I don't much care for being fussed over; make a lousy patient etc and generally I've got more important things to do than be sick & injured or fatally wounded. There's a few hundred years of male culture there and you don't change it overnight. It requires generational change. But it's not all a bad thing - to put the welfare of your woman and children first. Mostly we only hear of the abusive arseholes who put their family's welfare last. No, the part that needs changing is that men who are concerned with their loved ones shouldn't forget about themselves entirely. Most importantly is realising that if you are a male in an otherwise happy family, then logically they don't want anything happening to you, either - that their mental and emotional health is at least as important as their physical well-being and it is affected if they're worrying about hubby/dad. Medical science and technology certainly helps there; eg that the dreaded prostate exam is largely replaced by the PSA blood test - assuming the test comes back negative. [8|] Or if you want your men to brush off all the good advice and shut down entirely, the status quo of emasculating testosterone type jokes (put it back in your pants, boys etc) is still quite effective.... Mocking men for being male isn't any way to get them to change old ways. [:-] Focus.
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