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Hello I'm 18 and New to the Lifestyle - 5/6/2013 5:21:22 PM

iamwhoiamabc123

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I dont know what to expect, I dont know how to react, all I know is that up until a couple weeks ago I thought I was only in wishing females could be dominant, I thought males always had to be dominant. However I've found it hard to find one that just doesn't want my money.

I didn't know that people want to identify as slaves ether and there is a significant difference between slaves and submissive.

One day I will learn about this and start to make my own path within this community!

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RE: Hello I'm 18 and New to the Lifestyle - 5/6/2013 6:18:16 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Greetings and welcome to the forum side where discussions take place.

Here is some helpful advice:

-Most people on this side are not here to meet anyone, that takes place over on the other side.
-What you are looking for is in HIGH DEMAND....there are many many male subs and very few Domme's. Take some time and head down to Ask A Mistress and scout around some. Take some time and read and find out what they are looking for and what their like/dislikes are.
- On the otherside read some of the Domme's profiles and see what they are looking for in them as well.
- After that a good thing to do would be to type "PROFILES" into the search key ^^^^^ up there. A bunch of post about profiles will come up...take some time and read through those as welll.
-After all that take what you see as good qualities and re~tweak your profile. You want "YOURS" to stand out better than any others so that Domme's will want to stop and chat with you.
-One thing I have seen Dommes write many times over...they do not like naked pic of subs. Maybe change your profile picture with a better picture of yourself.

Hope this all helps....and that you will join in on some discussions with all the friendly people on this side.

kar

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RE: Hello I'm 18 and New to the Lifestyle - 5/6/2013 7:35:47 PM

MasterCaneman

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Hello and welcome. What Misty said. Enjoy the forums.

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RE: Hello I'm 18 and New to the Lifestyle - 5/7/2013 4:44:40 AM

poise

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ORIGINAL: iamwhoiamabc123
One day I will learn about this and start to make my own path within this community!

Welcome to the message boards. You'll find a lot of informative posts here regarding many
of the different relationship dynamics. Hopefully you'll also learn that you don't have to fit
into any specific one in order to be happy. I hope you enjoy your time here with us.

Some additional reading that you might enjoy.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

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RE: Hello I'm 18 and New to the Lifestyle - 5/7/2013 5:41:19 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome, you are taking or at least trying to avoid taking the first steps along the path to financial ruin. Yes in this game (did I say game?) money is always a driving force. Of course what you seek, can be found out there, all you've got to do is look and not expect it on a plate.

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