Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking?

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pompeii -> Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 11:00:55 AM)
I've grown to enjoy the harder genre of MaleDom caning videos of the more realistic Mood Pictures ilk, not the staged Kink.com portrayals. Two things I NEVER see though, in these otherwise excellently erotic caning & spanking videos are kissing and fucking. Is it simply that nobody combines the two? (Yes, I realize porn is not the real world - and that it 'is' merely what men wish to see.) Since we're all avowed, that porn isn't reality - I ask you of your reality. Do you favor, for example, kissing and gently fondling in a romantic way someone who is being caned or whipped at the same time? Likewise, after the caning or whipping, is that the end - or do you favor (like I believe I do) - a nice gentle fucking of the hapless submissive?

DesFIP -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 11:05:58 AM)
Play for us is sexual. And since we love each other, there's usually some kissing. I don't watch porn but I have it in the back of my head that you aren't allowed to show s & m and sex in the same video. Not sure why.

OsideGirl -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 11:10:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP I don't watch porn but I have it in the back of my head that you aren't allowed to show s & m and sex in the same video. Not sure why. I don't know if it is still illegal or not, but I know it was illegal to have sex, S&M and bondage all together.

Hillwilliam -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 11:26:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I don't know if it is still illegal or not, but I know it was illegal to have sex, S&M and bondage all together. I wasn't aware of that. I guess you learn new things all the time.

LadyMariaP -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 11:50:01 AM)
I love caning, and certainly see it as something involving kissing before, after, and sex after is a given, as it turns me on so so much...

LanceHughes -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 11:59:38 AM)
When flogging I might notice the flogee (sometimes spelled "flog-wheeee") needs to breathe deeper. I will cuddle up on his/her back and whisper "Breathe with me." My flogging includes lots of petting - sometimes even between strokes - with my free hand. Afterwards, you BET there's kissing. Mostly in the form of a "Thank you" from the flogee. That is, they're still non-verbal and I've turned them around and hug them into the St.Andrew's cross (so they can get their legs "back.") Too many words to describe.... and they aren't the right words. Care for a demo?

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 12:00:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pompeii I've grown to enjoy the harder genre of MaleDom caning videos of the more realistic Mood Pictures ilk, not the staged Kink.com portrayals. Two things I NEVER see though, in these otherwise excellently erotic caning & spanking videos are kissing and fucking. Is it simply that nobody combines the two? (Yes, I realize porn is not the real world - and that it 'is' merely what men wish to see.) Since we're all avowed, that porn isn't reality - I ask you of your reality. Do you favor, for example, kissing and gently fondling in a romantic way someone who is being caned or whipped at the same time? Likewise, after the caning or whipping, is that the end - or do you favor (like I believe I do) - a nice gentle fucking of the hapless submissive? There's often kissing and almost always sex with us. Sometimes giggling and joking too, in between the tears. I guess it depends on the dynamic between the people, the purpose of the beating (ie punishment, foreplay, etc) and their mood on the day. I am not a masochist, so he'll often stroke my hair or give me words of encouragement or kisses. On the other hand, sometimes he'll just laugh. We almost never do the typical 'cold, distant, cruel' thing you see in a lot of videos.

LanceHughes -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 12:05:00 PM)
And re that "illegal" post.... Has to be a law to break to be "illegal." So, we start with: ""What level of government?" In all my years, I've never, ever, ever heard of any such thing. My guess is that the "law" is more economic. Men might buy combo of two things, but very small market for all three. Better to have three vids made - one of each "pair" of fetishes - than to have 3-in-1. (Well, 3-in-1 is a straight/bi fetish.... see, there's one woman, three holes and three men that each have a.... oh, never mind.)

OsideGirl -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 12:23:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LanceHughes And re that "illegal" post.... Has to be a law to break to be "illegal." So, we start with: ""What level of government?" In all my years, I've never, ever, ever heard of any such thing. My guess is that the "law" is more economic. I have a friend that was a porn star. She said it was illegal and had something to do with someone who is bound and/or tortured being unable to consent to sex and it made it rape. I think that has changed since that point.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 12:30:21 PM)
Yes, kissing and fucking are very good before, during or after. I love doggy style and lashing her back with a cat . . . it makes her pussy squeeze down real tight. Sorta' thrust 1, lash stroke 2 type of thang! Gentle is also good . . . like inflicting a wound and then a gentle petting to sooth it. Or gentle petting and teasing to sensitize someone before sex or a harsh beating so it it is more intense.

Lucifyre -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 1:42:46 PM)
mmm LOTS of kissing, fondeling, touching, hair grabbing, biting, ass slapping, whipping...omg YES! Absolutely sex! (when it's possible) Don't know what the laws are currently regarding sex and bdsm, but I dislike porn that isn't all inclusive since my reality is and that's what gets my motor going. Though, I'll take any kiind of hot lesbian BDSM porn any day, sex or no sex ;) Luci

kalikshama -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 2:39:22 PM)
quote: hot lesbian BDSM porn any day, sex or no sex ;) Link me to your favorite sites / movies? OP - yes, I like kissing, fucking (and flogging) with my caning.

DesFIP -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 2:53:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I have a friend that was a porn star. She said it was illegal and had something to do with someone who is bound and/or tortured being unable to consent to sex and it made it rape. I think that has changed since that point. That was my understanding also. Not that it was necessarily illegal but it caused the producers to be investigated. An expensive process to defend against when models use stage names and are no longer in the business a couple of years later.

Lucifyre -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 3:33:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama quote: hot lesbian BDSM porn any day, sex or no sex ;) Link me to your favorite sites / movies? OP - yes, I like kissing, fucking (and flogging) with my caning. Sadly I don't have any in particular. Occassionally I cheat and watch the 30 second clips on kink.com or sometimes run into something decent to drool over on xhamster. But I don't have anythiing bookmarked. I get my fix from stuff people post in the groups on FL too. The best movies are usually in my head though hehe Luci

JeffBC -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 3:48:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders Sometimes giggling and joking too, in between the tears. OK, that little bit just made me laugh. I have no idea what would drive the giggles & jokes but for me it'd be the thing that makes me laugh about our D/s dynamic... how fucking unlikely it is that I'd ever be doing this with someone I love.

KidnapPrincess -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 4:23:23 PM)
Some countries have laws against depicting sexual violence, but no laws against porn OR depicting violence. So the two get split apart then. Many of the caning videos come from eastern european countries with those laws in place.

Muttling -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 6:50:24 PM)
Satisfying sex for me is NEVER gentle. Even when my wife who is also my Miss and I do vanilla sex (which is quite often), she is quite rough and I love every second of it. I've never asked her to be, she just knows and understands what turns me on. I am truly a blessed man.

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/11/2013 10:50:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders Sometimes giggling and joking too, in between the tears. OK, that little bit just made me laugh. I have no idea what would drive the giggles & jokes but for me it'd be the thing that makes me laugh about our D/s dynamic... how fucking unlikely it is that I'd ever be doing this with someone I love. Yes that's a big part of it. I also think how ridiculous I must look sometimes or the absurdity of some of the things we do. And to be honest, I think human sexuality is pretty hilarious. Sometimes the shock of an unexpected blow will make me laugh or swear, which makes him laugh and then hit me harder, which makes me leap out of the way and him drag me back caveman style. Plus the endorphines sometimes make me giggly.

Lucifyre -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/12/2013 4:11:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders Sometimes giggling and joking too, in between the tears. OK, that little bit just made me laugh. I have no idea what would drive the giggles & jokes but for me it'd be the thing that makes me laugh about our D/s dynamic... how fucking unlikely it is that I'd ever be doing this with someone I love. Yes that's a big part of it. I also think how ridiculous I must look sometimes or the absurdity of some of the things we do. And to be honest, I think human sexuality is pretty hilarious. Sometimes the shock of an unexpected blow will make me laugh or swear, which makes him laugh and then hit me harder, which makes me leap out of the way and him drag me back caveman style. Plus the endorphines sometimes make me giggly. I get that way sometimes as well. But sometimes the giggle fits stem from how the scene begins as well. Like the other day we weren't planning anything really, but were laying in bed having a conversation. I reached over and grabbed the hitachi, turned it on and zapped His pierced nipple with it. It just so happened He was taking a drink (I honestly didn't notice that part till it was too late) Of course the result was Him spurting a little tea out...through His nose sort of and me falling into hysterical laughter ;) His response was "You don't need an orgasm! You need MAINTENANCE!!" Oh yes, He chased me around the room with the canes, both of us laughing every time He managed to catch and smack me until we were both too tired and collapsed in a heap still giggling. Now, you KNOW I reached again for that hitachi don't you? :P Was a fun evening. Luci

absolutchocolat -> RE: Am I alone (or nearly so) in the fantasy of caning with kissing & fucking? (4/12/2013 6:08:56 AM)
Viv Thomas has great girl-on-girl videos.

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