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GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/23/2006 1:40:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

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One of the reasons I am generally uninterested in invitations from people, especially cyber-sex invitations.  The person who claims to be a horny 28yo female stripper that I am telling a story to so they can masturbate may actually be a 45yo male.




Oh, so now you got an age discrimination thang goin' on........


LOL.


See how different we are, Ron?
I took it as a gender discrimination thing!  *Wink*



mnottertail -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/23/2006 1:42:44 PM)

But we all are looking to get to the same place, Goddess...........(wistfully)



MasterOKN -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/23/2006 4:13:00 PM)

I think Entrancer's comment pretty much covers the issue. The fact is that in any community there are people (not just men/Dom) that are thoughtless, rude, and simply lack common courtesies. If that's the case, it's not worth one typed syllable more. Just click "delete" and move on.

It is not always worth the hassle or time to get worked-up about it. That can sometimes lead to writing lists for profiles, which has it's own, understood, but negative impression. Forget it. There are men and women like that everywhere in the world. It's far more interesting to focus on those you enjoy and reinforce a positive experience overall.



Esinem -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/23/2006 5:56:01 PM)

Could the reason why people make direct contact be that the site's search facility produces results such as this:

Users no older than 84 years old weighing less than 180 lbs who are seeking switch men

One might take "seeking" to mean that they wish to be contacted, respectfully and unless otherwise stated. I don't condone dick pics, "Kneel bitch!", graphic descriptions of what they'd like to do, standard memos etc. as an approach. Frankly, these provisos excepted, I don't see the problem.





MasterOKN -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/23/2006 6:38:16 PM)

Here's one better:

I posted my last comment to this tread. I check my mail and get this reply from CTtrash4rough, a 28 yr. old, straight, female submissive in CT,

<deleted>

I answer the above mail and get this for a reply

<deleted>

LOL, For, God's sake, what are people thinking about? What do you say to that? Next! Where's that delete button... Honeslty, at some point, it's just makes you laugh. And, then, some people wonder why it can be difficult to "meet" real people on these kinds of sites. lol

[Mod Note: email deleted.  Please don't paste email in to the forums]
 



OnyxGoddess -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/23/2006 8:25:12 PM)

You know...that kind of was uncool to put CT out there like that.  All you had to do was delete it.  Don't smear her all over the net.  If memory serves putting a user out like that is cause for spanking from a moderator.



Lordandmaster -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/23/2006 8:28:14 PM)

And I thought it was against the TOS to reveal private e-mail in the forums.

Even if it's not, it's still classless.

[Mod Note:   Quoted email deleted.  It's not right the first time and it's still not right the second time.  Next time, please report the post]



OnyxGoddess -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/23/2006 8:30:26 PM)

(hit the send button on accident)  anyhooo
 
we all get the emails from people who don't read the profile.  that's just how it is.  delete move on.  that was the advice someone gave to me a while back when I had these issues.  my profile says be local...i still get messages from people in california and i get the cock picks.  come on now people...at this point in life don't you think a person knows what a pecker looks like?  how the hell can we tell what you look like by staring at the one eyed monster you sent?



MasterOKN -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/23/2006 9:06:10 PM)

The issue here seemed to boil down to respecting others when writing them about meeting and at least take into consideration what a persons written in their profile. So when someone lies outright, misrepresents themselves, or otherwise deceives people, that seems to be the worse case scenario in disrespect. 

Mail from someone that doesn't read one's profile is tactless or rude. Outright deception should be unacceptable on any level. 



JessieMe -> RE: Curious about certain Doms (6/24/2006 5:47:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Kedikat

In a way, it isn't odd at all.
Consider that that very same Dom may never contact you through Collarme, but could run into in real life by total accident, and you two may click and go for coffee.

It seems wierder to me, that to meet somewhere right off is so wierd a concept  here. I meet total strangers all the time as I live my life. I like some of them in various ways.

Of course the basic meeting criteria from here already invlolves a certain deep level of forknowledge. But isn't that an even better thing than an accidental meeting in " real life " with someone you are attracted to, but who knows nothing of your " dark side ".

It's an odd quirk of this thing.



I have been reading some of your postings on this site and I DOOO love the way you think.. and for what its worth.. I agree with you on this one. I have never had a problem with meeting people early on. Most think I am nuts.. but hey.. like you said.. we meet people all the time. This way.. we just know a little more about them.




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