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sexkittenbaby22 -> New ideas (6/21/2006 9:47:28 AM)
I'm planning on domming my guy tonight and am trying to think of some new fun things to do. We usually just use bondage, role playing and humiliation. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

mnottertail -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 9:59:04 AM)
toilet service

NINASHARP -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 10:17:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexkittenbaby22 I'm planning on domming my guy tonight and am trying to think of some new fun things to do. We usually just use bondage, role playing and humiliation. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated. Hello there sexkittenbaby22, Great question, cuz I'm constantly looking for new ideas to enhance play. If the sub is not into pain, then you could try mumification with saran wrap and duct tape, sensory deprivation, guided fantasies (these work well with blindfold and stethoscopes, just don't blow out the ear drums[:)]), rope bondage, tickling, body worship, sometimes just preparing his Mistress in the way bathing dressing, combing hair, etc. If he is into pain, you could try flogging, spanking with paddles, or hand, cbt, clothespins, and other various types of painful pleasure. I like the little bamboo skews they sell in the grocery store, and using them as probes and little caning devices for nipples and cock. Also you can try some anal play, use lots of good lube and wear gloves while easing up with fingers, before inserting anal beads, a dildo or butt plug, and for extra cleansing measures, try an enema before hand, and use condoms on the toys you plan to insert. Except for anal beads, think those are for one person's use only. Have fun! Nina

IronBear -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 10:21:02 AM)
CBT

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 10:24:23 AM)
Anal play

MistressSassy66 -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 10:34:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexkittenbaby22 I'm planning on domming my guy tonight and am trying to think of some new fun things to do. We usually just use bondage, role playing and humiliation. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated. Go to www.frugaldomme.com You will find a ton of info on humiliation and allkinds of things. Have fun.

kisshou -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 10:58:56 AM)
Do a mind f**k on him and tell him things are not working out and you won't be seeing him again.

FangsNfeet -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 11:21:18 AM)
Where's the spanking and nipple torture. Make him do chours. Order him to serve you with a bubble bath and wine. Have him scrub, rinse, and dry you off but he's not allowed to make a pass. Say things like "You want to do more don't you" As he wimpers "yes" Say "I'll think about it for later." It'll drive him loony. After that, tie him up and make him watch you play with yourself. Say "Wouldn't you like to be the one touching me here?" Blind fold him and whisper naughty things you are doing to yourself. See how hard and red you can make his cock and tell him how almost ripe it is to suck on and fuck in your pussy. Tease him with this pleasure and pain till you know he can't take no more and has to have you and then make him wait one more minuet before you sit on his face and then work your way down.

NINASHARP -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 11:24:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kisshou Do a mind f**k on him and tell him things are not working out and you won't be seeing him again. LOL, That was hilarious! Sorry I'm in a goofy mood, today. Yet your idea sounded like a good one to me! Thnx for the laugh! [sm=biggrin.gif]

OedipusRexIt -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 4:24:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kisshou Do a mind f**k on him and tell him things are not working out and you won't be seeing him again. This wins hands down as the best quote of the day, week, month, etc! Not only is it indeed hilarious, it's also bound to be the most original and effective suggestion you're going to get.

Level -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 4:40:29 PM)
Make him fix my car. That'll show him.

kickinchick -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 4:45:01 PM)
Take him down to ground level, where there's lots of lowlife company...How low can he go? Just enjoy and use your imagination, you don't need ours. Good luck and have fun....I know he will.

Level -> RE: New ideas (6/21/2006 4:49:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kickinchick Take him down to ground level, where there's lots of lowlife company...How low can he go? Just enjoy and use your imagination, you don't need ours. Good luck and have fun....I know he will. Got to hate those low-life types.... Ooooh, make him go out and bum 13 grand off of someone he doesn't know, now that's humiliation!

sexkittenbaby22 -> RE: New ideas (6/22/2006 6:36:08 PM)
Thanks for the ideas, I'm pretty new at all this. I'm gonna try some more of them tonight. As for last night....well, I used clothespins on his nipples and tied him up and just teased him. Ended up spanking him with a paddle for a while which he loved and wanted more. So I go to lube him up to insert a butt plug and without thinking I grabbed the wrong lube (it was dark) and used my warming liquid ky lube instead. It burned him so bad, we had to stop and it really killed the mood. Funny as hell though. I'll let him have his turn with me tonight I guess.

cubbyMystC -> RE: New ideas (6/22/2006 7:36:42 PM)
sensory deprivation is always a good one to do

Lashra -> RE: New ideas (6/22/2006 7:43:54 PM)
Buy a strapon dildo head harness and make him fuck you while wearing it in his mouth. But dress him up like a woman first, tell him what a worthless cunt he is, really humilate him verbally and then make him do it. I tell ya its one of the best toys invented [:D] http://www.extremerestraints.com/strap-on-dildo-head-harness_293.html ~Lashra

MistressLorelei -> RE: New ideas (6/22/2006 8:57:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexkittenbaby22 Thanks for the ideas, I'm pretty new at all this. I'm gonna try some more of them tonight. As for last night....well, I used clothespins on his nipples and tied him up and just teased him. Ended up spanking him with a paddle for a while which he loved and wanted more. So I go to lube him up to insert a butt plug and without thinking I grabbed the wrong lube (it was dark) and used my warming liquid ky lube instead. It burned him so bad, we had to stop and it really killed the mood. Funny as hell though. I'll let him have his turn with me tonight I guess. You now have a very useful tool, you can threaten him with warming another part of his anatomy with that very same 'lube'. That threat should keep him in line for years. If you like the nipple clamps, get a bag of clothespins, tie him up and put them all over him.... stomach, chest, arms, between toes, groin area, inner thighs.... they are even more fun to remove than they are to put on. Write on him (slut, pathetic, etc) with a marker, he will have a nice memory for a couple of days. Predicament bondage is fun as well.... have him stand on his tip-toes, and use a pulley where if he stands flat he will be yanked in a very uncomfortable way. Tease and play with him to help him break his concentration, then slap him for screwing up. Do your own thing, and have fun.

jeffanddee -> RE: New ideas (6/24/2006 5:22:55 PM)
Enemas were mentioned earlier in the post to clean out the rectum before anal play. We love to give enemas (carefully and more carefully) as not only a precurser to anal play, but as part of the play itself. We are really able to humiliate our subs as we give a few small enemas in different positions instead of one big one and then accompany them to the bathroom where we comment on the sounds, smell, etc. This sets the mood for further play as sometimes the sub needs to "revisit the bathroom" during the rest of the session which adds to the humiliation factor. AS HAS BEEN POSTED BEFORE, PLEASE USE CAUTION WITH ENEMAS! Too much of a good thing can be a BAD thing!

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