Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Positively positive.


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> Positively positive. Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Positively positive. - 2/15/2013 6:59:07 PM   
Notsweet


Posts: 873
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline 		All of this is only my opinion. I say this, so that no one feels as though they have to correct me on it.

I realize a forum is for give and take. I love politics, but I tend to shy from it, as it invariably starts in with name calling and people getting pissed off, and that's basic. Happens every time. So, if I don't want to see anything negaitive, I stay away.

I read several forums a day. I've noticed lately that no matter what someone writes about, there's always something that someone finds objectionable, or feels the need to say something negative about it. At the very least, they use the thread as an occasion to either be "too cool for that," or to point out some example of why they wouldn't do it that way, or an example of why something isn't what the other person said, yada, yada, yada.

For example:

Poster one: I just ate dog turds, and they were delicious!
Poster two: Oh, I would never eat the garbage at Dog Turd City.

Poster one: I love Christmas!
Poster two: Christmas is a horrible time for me that reminds me of the time my grandma served dog turds!

Poster one: I believe that there is a God, and she is made of pasta.
Poster two: Why are you jamming your beliefs down my throat??

So I stumbled into an idea. How about one thread--and it doesn't have to be this one--where everyone ONLY says benign things, and if someone disagrees, they just move on to the next thread. Kind of a say what you want to say, and if you don't have something nice to say, just don't bother saying anything.

Just one. Just for the hell of it. One really positive thread. First one to break the chain gets a dog turd.
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Positively positive. - 2/15/2013 7:05:28 PM   
Hillwilliam


Posts: 19394
Joined: 8/27/2008
Status: offline 		Visit us in the trainwreck thread

_____________________________

Kinkier than a cheap garden hose.

Whoever said "Religion is the opiate of the masses" never heard Right Wing talk radio.

Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

(in reply to Notsweet)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Positively positive. - 2/15/2013 7:10:00 PM   
Notsweet


Posts: 873
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

Visit us in the trainwreck thread


LOL, yeah. I've stopped by to see, maybe I will again.

(in reply to Hillwilliam)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Positively positive. - 2/15/2013 8:25:00 PM   
Spiritedsub2


Posts: 3316
Joined: 7/18/2012
Status: offline 		I love your idea. No reason we can't have more than one positive thread!

_____________________________

Don’t grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form.
~ Rumi

Laughing Dolphin

(in reply to Notsweet)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Positively positive. - 2/15/2013 9:46:58 PM   
Kirata


Posts: 15477
Joined: 2/11/2006
From: USA
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Notsweet

Just one. Just for the hell of it. One really positive thread.

I think that's a great idea and I'd like to contribute a touching story of positively positive positiveness.

An old fellow had gone to his doctor for a physical. At 80 years of age he was planning to marry. During the course of the exam, the doctor learned from his patient that the intended bride was only eighteen years old. But he completed the examination without commenting on this information, and finally the two sat down to discuss the results.

"You're in pretty good shape for a man your age," the doctor began. "But," he said, his tone becoming more serious, "I'm concerned because the young lady is only eighteen." His patient looked at him quizzically, not grasping what he was being told. "What I mean," the doctor explained, feeling none too good about the spanner he was about to throw into his patient's happiness, "is that too much sex could be fatal."

It was a blow. A saddened look came over the old fellow's face and he slumped in the chair. For a time, neither spoke. Finally the old gentleman looked up and smiled softly, having resolved to be positive and accept what fate would bring. "Well," he said, "if she dies, she dies."

K.


< Message edited by Kirata -- 2/15/2013 10:09:28 PM >

(in reply to Notsweet)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Positively positive. - 2/15/2013 9:53:46 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		On a very positive note, I really do appreciate the trainwreck thread. No matter what else is going on, somebody has recently posted some pic that makes Me laugh or smile.

I'd also like to repeat a comment that I made on another thread. For the most part, I think people treat Me pretty darn good around here. I appreciate the courtesy that I receive and I'd like to thank the many forum participants that I really enjoy conversing with. I've had the pleasure of meeting a lot of folks from this place and I hope to meet many more before I'm through.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to Kirata)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 12:12:57 AM   
descrite


Posts: 459
Joined: 5/14/2012
Status: offline 		There is no doubt in the world that artichokes are quite delicious, and that the universe's existence is vindicated, in my own estimation, by the simple pleasure of a steamed artichoke.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 1:28:31 AM   
needlesandpins


Posts: 3901
Status: offline 		being positive is all well and good. however, even in a group of friends you will get a debate on any one topic. i see no reason why the net should be any different. imo the forums would be a more boring place if everything was just one person agreeing with another. threads would die pretty quickly too. just because someone disagrees with you doesn't mean that your opinion isn't valid in your own life. the way i look at it is that if someone comes in spouting a 'one trooo way' then they can expect someone to say that that one way opinion doesn't actually work for them. it's human nature.

i pretty much like this site. i like that we have the 'admits' thread where we can say what we like, ask for support and get it, and share our good times too. the train wreck thread is one of my first ports of call too because there is always something to make me smile. however, i also like the threads where there are debates going on because i may get to learn something too. i also think that if i am debating a point of my own i may learn something from the person i am debating with, or them from me even if neither of us change our own views.

needles

_____________________________

I deserved better. Not than you, but from you.

(in reply to descrite)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 7:07:06 AM   
Notsweet


Posts: 873
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

I love your idea. No reason we can't have more than one positive thread!



Thank you!

(in reply to Spiritedsub2)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 7:08:38 AM   
Notsweet


Posts: 873
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Kirata


quote:

ORIGINAL: Notsweet

Just one. Just for the hell of it. One really positive thread.

"Well," he said, "if she dies, she dies."

K.



LMAO, stealing it, stealing it!

(in reply to Kirata)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 7:10:18 AM   
Notsweet


Posts: 873
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline 		The trainwreck thread IS good. I've gotta figure out how to share photos on here--I keep finding good ones and don't get further than saving them to desktop. :D

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 7:14:09 AM   
Notsweet


Posts: 873
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: descrite

There is no doubt in the world that artichokes are quite delicious, and that the universe's existence is vindicated, in my own estimation, by the simple pleasure of a steamed artichoke.


Have you stuffed them with garlic, breadcrumbs and a little olive oil, then steamed them? It's a face orgasm!

(in reply to descrite)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 7:16:00 AM   
Notsweet


Posts: 873
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline 		And we have a winner!!!

Thanks for making my point. Can't have even one thread without someone pissing on it.

quote:

ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

being positive is all well and good. however, even in a group of friends you will get a debate on any one topic. i see no reason why the net should be any different. imo the forums would be a more boring place if everything was just one person agreeing with another. threads would die pretty quickly too. just because someone disagrees with you doesn't mean that your opinion isn't valid in your own life. the way i look at it is that if someone comes in spouting a 'one trooo way' then they can expect someone to say that that one way opinion doesn't actually work for them. it's human nature.

i pretty much like this site. i like that we have the 'admits' thread where we can say what we like, ask for support and get it, and share our good times too. the train wreck thread is one of my first ports of call too because there is always something to make me smile. however, i also like the threads where there are debates going on because i may get to learn something too. i also think that if i am debating a point of my own i may learn something from the person i am debating with, or them from me even if neither of us change our own views.

needles



< Message edited by Notsweet -- 2/16/2013 7:21:49 AM >

(in reply to needlesandpins)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 8:21:06 AM   
kiwisub12


Posts: 4742
Joined: 1/11/2006
Status: offline 		I enjoy playing Fruit Ninja when i have a minute or two - and am i the only one who thought that all that fruit would make a heck of a smoothie?

(in reply to Notsweet)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 8:50:03 AM   
Notsweet


Posts: 873
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline 		What's Fruit Ninja?

(in reply to kiwisub12)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 9:01:09 AM   
descrite


Posts: 459
Joined: 5/14/2012
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Notsweet


quote:

ORIGINAL: descrite

There is no doubt in the world that artichokes are quite delicious, and that the universe's existence is vindicated, in my own estimation, by the simple pleasure of a steamed artichoke.


Have you stuffed them with garlic, breadcrumbs and a little olive oil, then steamed them? It's a face orgasm!



Yes! And agreed. But I am a simple man, with simple tastes...a little butter, maybe some mayo, and steeeeeeam.

(in reply to Notsweet)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 9:01:52 AM   
msjustlooking


Posts: 28
Joined: 12/10/2011
Status: offline 		On a positive note...I just discovered salted chocolate caramels this week. OMG! OMG! OMG! It really IS better than sex!

_____________________________

"How To Serve Dominant Women"- Its a Cookbook!

(in reply to Notsweet)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 9:19:16 AM   
Notsweet


Posts: 873
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: msjustlooking

On a positive note...I just discovered salted chocolate caramels this week. OMG! OMG! OMG! It really IS better than sex!



I noticed at one of the convenience stores that they have a coffee that is salted caramel flavor. I like my coffee plain, but it did make me crave a Payday bar for HOURS.

(in reply to msjustlooking)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 9:20:44 AM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline 		Try salted caramel hot chocolate. It's to die for. I absolutely adore salted caramel. I have no self control around it.

_____________________________

Nothing has changed
Everything has changed

(in reply to Notsweet)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: Positively positive. - 2/16/2013 9:36:08 AM   
needlesandpins


Posts: 3901
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Notsweet

And we have a winner!!!

Thanks for making my point. Can't have even one thread without someone pissing on it.

quote:

ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

being positive is all well and good. however, even in a group of friends you will get a debate on any one topic. i see no reason why the net should be any different. imo the forums would be a more boring place if everything was just one person agreeing with another. threads would die pretty quickly too. just because someone disagrees with you doesn't mean that your opinion isn't valid in your own life. the way i look at it is that if someone comes in spouting a 'one trooo way' then they can expect someone to say that that one way opinion doesn't actually work for them. it's human nature.

i pretty much like this site. i like that we have the 'admits' thread where we can say what we like, ask for support and get it, and share our good times too. the train wreck thread is one of my first ports of call too because there is always something to make me smile. however, i also like the threads where there are debates going on because i may get to learn something too. i also think that if i am debating a point of my own i may learn something from the person i am debating with, or them from me even if neither of us change our own views.

needles




actually i didn't piss on it at all. if you don't like that people have differing opinion then tough luck. it's life get over it. i simply pointed out how human nature is, and i didn't realiuse that you got to make the rules for how people post. my post above is actually positive, you have just chosen to take offence. stop being so sensitive.

needles


_____________________________

I deserved better. Not than you, but from you.

(in reply to Notsweet)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> Positively positive. Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.061